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1972 Joni Mitchell Classic, Played Before Every Stevie Nicks Show, Is About the Girl Chasing Her
Before every show, one of the most iconic performers in rock history listens to the same song.
She's been doing this for decades. The song is about a woman who falls head over heels in love with a rock star and can't hold on. The performer listening to it before she walks on stage doesn't identify with that woman at all.
She identifies with the rock star.
Stevie Nicks and Joni Mitchell occupy different corners of the same music world. Mitchell was the folk songwriter who opened the door, putting her thoughts and feelings directly on the page. Nicks came from rock, from Fleetwood Mac's arena-filling mythology, from Dreams and Rhiannon and the particular kind of magic that happens when a voice and a tambourine command a stadium.
They’re from different genres. But when they met, Nicks didn't hesitate to tell her how she felt.
"You, in my opinion, are the greatest singer-songwriter ever," she told Mitchell directly.
That wasn't just exchanging pleasantries. That was five decades of listening — and then speaking out loud.
One song has stayed with Nicks for her entire career: "Blonde in the Bleachers" from Mitchell's 1972 album, For the Roses. Mitchell wrote it on retreat, having withdrawn to a remote cabin in British Columbia after the pressures of early fame became a little too much. The album is, in part, about what it costs to be close to that world.
It tells the story of a fair-haired girl who follows a rock star, falls for him, and slowly realizes she can't hold on. "You can't hold the hand of a rock and roll man very long," Mitchell sings over gentle keys and soft percussion. Nicks told The Guardian she listens to it before going on stage, "I listen to that song to this day. It's on the playlist I have for when I'm preparing to go on stage."
Most listeners hear the lyrics from the girl's perspective. But not Nicks.
"I never saw myself as the girl in the song — I identified with the rock 'n' roll star. I was never gonna be the groupie. I was the star, I was sure of that," she said.
Nicks has dated rock stars throughout her long and legendary career, including Lindsey Buckingham and Don Henley. But she was never the one in the bleachers. She was always the one on stage — always the star. It was Buckingham and Henley who were holding the hand of a rock star.
Think about exactly what that means just for a moment.
The song she plays before every show is about the experience of chasing someone like herself. She uses it to remind herself of exactly who she is before she walks out to her crowd.
The Woman Who Wrote It Just Won Her 11th GrammyOn February 1, 2026, Joni Mitchell arrived at the 68th Grammy Awards in a gold, silver, and black gradient sequin pantsuit. At age 82, she won Best Historical Album for Archives Vol. 4: The Asylum Years. It was her 11th Grammy. The archive covers Mitchell's jazz exploration period from 1976-1980, the creative years that followed For the Roses and came after the period that produced "Blonde in the Bleachers."
She hasn't released new music since 2007. After suffering a near-fatal brain aneurysm in 2015, she's only made rare public appearances since. In 2024, she performed at the Grammys for the first time in over two decades, singing "Both Sides Now" with Brandi Carlile to a standing ovation. Her 2026 win felt like the next step in a return nobody had been sure was coming.
Meanwhile, Stevie Nicks is on tour, having told fans she "couldn't stay away." She's also working on what she calls the "ghost record," her first solo album since 2011's In Your Dreams.
Every night before she takes the stage, "Blonde in the Bleachers" plays.
Mitchell wrote it in 1972, stepping away from the music industry while Nicks was still finding her way toward it. One woman’s retreating while the other woman’s arriving. In 2026, both are still here. Mitchell just won her 11th Grammy. Nicks is still walking out to sold-out crowds.
Some songs know exactly who they're meant for.
Olympic Gymnast, Who Won Gold on Balance Beam, Wows Fans With ‘Spider-Man’ Challenge
She's still got it!
Shawn Johnson—an Olympic gold medalist—completed the Spider-Man Challenge and posted the video on Instagram to prove it.
On July 16, Johnson, who is now a mom of three, defied gravity by flipping herself into a handstand and placing her feet on a nearby wall, mimicking a move that Spider-Man might do.
"Hahahaha. Tag someone you want to try this!!!" Johnson captioned the post. In the comments section she tagged Spiderman stars Tom Holland and Zendaya to weigh in on her form.
View this post on InstagramFans were super impressed by Johnson's physique at age 34.
"Only a trained gymnast lol the rest of us would be in the ER with a broken nose and teeth from kissing that brick lol," one person wrote.
"You need to put a 'do not try this at home' warning because you made that look WAY TOO easy," someone else said.
"That IS INSANE!!!!" a third comment read.
"I pull my neck just sitting up in the morning…so i’ll just leave this to you," a fourth Instagram user added.
Johnson rose to fame as one of Team USA's top gymnasts during the 2008 Beijing Olympics. At just 16 years old, she won four Olympic medals—gold on the balance beam and silver in the individual all-around, team, and floor exercise competitions—cementing her place as one of the most accomplished American gymnasts of her generation. Johnson was also the 2007 World all-around champion before retiring from competitive gymnastics in 2012 after an attempted comeback.
Johnson and her husband, Andrew East, often take on internet challenges together and post the results on social media. For the Spider-Man Challenge, however, East couldn't help but be impressed by his wife's skills, though he didn't seem remotely eager to give it a go himself.
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Cleveland Kidnapping Survivor Reveals How 'Jersey Shore' Gave Her Hope During 11 Years in Captivity
Amanda Berry shared an emotional full-circle moment during the latest episode of Jersey Shore: Family Vacation, revealing that MTV's hit reality series gave her hope while she was being held captive for more than a decade.
Berry appeared at Mike "The Situation" Sorrentino's book signing for his memoir Reality Check at the Shore Store in Seaside Heights, New Jersey, where she met Sorrentino and Ronnie Ortiz-Magro for the first time.
Before greeting the cast, Berry explained why the meeting meant so much to her.
"I'm here because I love the whole cast of Jersey Shore since Season 1," she said. "I actually went through something—it was a well-known story. I was kidnapped and I was in a house for 11 years."
Berry was abducted in Cleveland, Ohio, in 2003 at age 16 and held captive by Ariel Castro alongside Gina DeJesus and Michelle Knight. The three women escaped in 2013 after Berry managed to break free and call for help, ending one of the most widely covered kidnapping cases in recent history.
Looking back, Berry said the cast had no idea the impact they were having on her life at the time.
"Watching on Thursdays gave me something to look forward to and to smile [about]," she told the cameras. "I just want to say thank you for that."
She also said watching Sorrentino, 44, overcome addiction and rebuild his life inspired her own journey after gaining her freedom.
"Watching Mike go from down here to up there," Berry said, motivated her to believe she could do the same and "be happy in life."
"Here we are," she added with a smile. "We're all thriving."
The emotional revelation visibly moved Sorrentino, who became tearful as Berry thanked him in person. The reality star embraced her and expressed how grateful he was that the show could provide even a small source of comfort during such a painful chapter of her life.
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1975 Classic No. 1 Hit, Released 51 Years Ago This Month, Remains a Timeless Generational Anthem
Some songs make you tap your foot. Others practically pull you onto the dance floor.
Fifty-one years ago this month, the Bee Gees released “You Should Be Dancing,” a high-energy anthem that didn’t just become a hit—it helped redefine the group’s career and signaled that the groovy disco era was about to take over.
The lead single from 1976 album Children of the World (after an initial July 1975 U.S. release, according to the official beegees.com), the song marked a turning point for Barry, Robin, and Maurice Gibb. While the trio had already enjoyed years of pop success, “You Should Be Dancing” fully embraced a new vibe that would soon make the Bee Gees synonymous with disco.
The track quickly became a chart phenomenon. It climbed to No. 1 on the Billboard Hot 100on Sept. 4, 1976, giving the Bee Gees their third chart-topper in the States. It also ruled the Hot Dance Club Play chart for seven weeks, reached No. 5 in the United Kingdom, and became an international smash hit.
The Bee Gees' First No. 1 With a New SoundThe song also introduced what would become one of pop music’s most recognizable vocal signatures: Barry Gibb's now-iconic falsetto. “You Should Be Dancing” was the group's first No. 1 featuring Barry's vocal style as the lead, a sound that later defined classics like “Stayin’ Alive,” “Night Fever” and “More Than a Woman.”
While recording at Criteria Studios in Miami, Stephen Stills happened to be working nearby and ended up contributing percussion to the track, adding yet another layer to its infectious rhythm, per Vanity Fair.
The song had already been a major hit, but reached an entirely new audience the following year when it appeared on the Saturday Night Fever soundtrack. John Travolta’s unforgettable dance sequence cemented “You Should Be Dancing” as one of the defining songs of the disco movement, ensuring its place in pop culture history for generations.
Five decades later, the opening beat still has the same effect it did in 1976 — and folks haven't stopped grooving to it since.
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Kate Middleton Debuted Summer's Most Surprising New Nail Trend At Wimbledon
Kate Middleton showcased some gorgeous looks at Wimbledon this year—and here's why her new manicure matched each and every one of them!
We saw some beautiful looks from the Princess of Wales over the course of Wimbledon 2026, from the leaf green caped dress by Emilia Wickstead in which she presented the champions' trophies to the fiery red dress that she accessorized with rubies and diamonds.
Not to mention that amazing blue periwinkle linen suit she wore to Day 1 of the tennis tournament, surprising fans by taking card payments for those at the top of the infamous Wimbeldon queue, with many camping overnight in the hopes of securing one of the coveted tickets.
But despite the range of jewel tones that Kate displayed to Wimbledon, one thing she didn't have to worry about was matching her nails—and it's all thanks to the 'clean girl aesthetic' that's currently taking over your feed.
Kate was spotted sporting a polish-free, almost invisible manicure that is seemingly inspired by the trendy 'Japanese manicure', which Elle describes as a more 'holistic' approach to nail health.
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It's all about strengthening the nail bed and emphasizing the pearly translucent shine of the nails themselves. Basically 'your nails but better.'
View this post on InstagramNatural ingredients like beeswax and Japanese sea silica are used in the treatment, which help rebuild healthy nails that may have been left brittle and damaged by years of gel manicures at salons.
Elle writes, "The pearl-like natural finish is integrated into your nail structure, meaning you won't get the grow-out phase synonymous with gels either.
"It's also free of any synthetic ingredients and chemicals, and omits the need for curing your nails with a UV lamp."
Meanwhile, celebrity manicurist Lucy Tucker termed the look the 'Middleton manicure' in an interview with Hello, describing it as embodying "healthy, natural elegance; it's timeless, effortless, and incredibly chic."
She went on, "We're seeing more people move away from gels and heavy enhancements, choosing instead to embrace clean, well-groomed natural nails.
"It’s a look that’s not only beautiful but also sustainable and kind to your nail health," the talented professional noted."
Of course, Kate has never really gravitated towards colorful nail polish anyway, preferring very subtle hues of nudes and pinks much like Queen Elizabeth II before her, whose favorite hue was famously Ballet Slippers by Essie.
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Essie’s website states that in 1989 the brand received a letter from the queen’s hairdresser requesting a bottle of Ballet Slippers, and the monarch loved it so much that she wore it almost exclusively until the day she died.
Kate has also often painted her nails with Ballet Slippers (a very soft, neutral pink) and this may be due to royal dress code, which suggests that royals sport neutral nails during official events.
The barely-there nail look was also spotted on Kate's 11-year-old daughter Princess Charlotte, who was seated beside her mom in the Royal Box for the Wimbledon final.
For last year's Royal Box appearance Charlotte wore bubblegum pink nails, but this year twinned with Kate by painting her nails with a clear topcoat.
Charlotte paired her blue dress with a solid gold charm bracelet, which is a nod to another hot trend in 2026! At the start of this year Marie Claire published an article about the triumphant return of the charm bracelet after a "decade of minimalism", citing the charm bracelet as one of the "most prominent jewellery trends" set to make a comeback for Spring/Summer 2026.
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Macy’s Breezy $40 Striped Linen-Blend Pants Are 'Cute,' 'Flattering,' and Perfect for Summer
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You might not think of wearing pants to survive a heat wave, but when they’re made from a breezy, flowy linen-blend fabric, they’re not a bad option to consider. Right now, you can get the I.N.C. International Concepts Stripe Linen-Blend Wide-Leg Pants for just $40 at Macy’s, down from $95. They come in a versatile cream color with thin black stripes and are available in sizes small to extra large.
The pants are made from 53% linen, 45% rayon, and 2% spandex, and feature an easy high-rise pull-on waistband, convenient on-seam hip pockets, and wide legs for a breezy feel. They’re also machine washable, which is always a plus if you plan to keep them in your go-to rotation all season.
I.N.C. International Concepts Stripe Linen-Blend Wide-Leg Pants, $40 (was $95) at Macy’s Shop at Macy'sThese offer the best of both worlds when it comes to getting the coverage you want without resorting to thick or clingy fabric. The wide legs leave plenty of room for air to circulate, and they have an elastic waist so you won’t need to deal with any buttons or zippers digging in when you sit down. The pockets also give you somewhere to keep your phone, keys, and wallet without having to carry a bag everywhere.
One reviewer called them “lovely” and “so comfortable.” Another noted that they love “the vertical pattern, the comfortable elastic waist, and the cool breathable fabric," adding that the "length is perfect" and that the pants make for "an elegant and versatile summer outfit.” A third said they’re “very flattering and cute” and mentioned they’ll be bringing them on vacation.
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They’re also easy to dress up or down, depending on where you’re headed. You could wear them over a bathing suit on the way to the beach, then swap in a nicer top and sandals before a waterfront dinner. Their neutral colors would also pair easily with most hues, so you likely won’t need to buy anything new to make them work.
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Iconic '70s Drummer, Nicknamed 'The Robot,' Turns 79
Few musicians have been more closely associated with the machine-like precision of electronic music than Wolfgang Flür, who turns 79 years old today, July 17, and is still making music.
During his years as Kraftwerk's electronic percussionist, he became so identified with the group's futuristic image that he later titled his memoir "I Was a Robot," embracing the nickname that followed him long after he left the pioneering band.
Born July 17, 1947, Flür joined Kraftwerk in 1973, replacing a drum machine just as the German group was beginning the run that would make it one of the most influential acts in modern music. He remained with the band through its celebrated "classic" era, contributing to landmark albums including Autobahn, Radio-Activity, Trans-Europe Express and The Man-Machine.
Flür has often reflected on how the group's futuristic aesthetic shaped his identity. In a 2016 interview with Prog magazine, he described eventually feeling confined by what he called "the robot role," explaining that after leaving Kraftwerk he finally had the freedom to pursue his own songwriting, melodies and creative ideas.
"When I felt free from the robot role, which I loved for years, I had time to let my moods flow and think about my life," he said.
His fascination with electronic percussion also helped define Kraftwerk's sound. Flür recalled that he and bandmate Florian Schneider developed the concept for an early electronic drum pad after experimenting with a rhythm box in the band's rehearsal room, helping create the distinctive pulse that became synonymous with Kraftwerk's music.
Following his departure from the group in 1987, Flür launched a solo career, performed internationally as a DJ under the name Musik Soldat (Music Soldier) and collaborated with artists ranging from Peter Hook and Carl Cox to Boris Blank, Juan Atkins and Midge Ure. His latest solo album Times arrived in 2025, with PopMatters praising the fact that Flür remains committed to pushing Kraftwerk's electronic ethos forward rather than simply revisiting the past.
Flür's contributions were formally recognized in 2021 when he was inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame as a member of Kraftwerk. More than five decades after joining the groundbreaking group, the musician once known as "The Robot" continues to celebrate the futuristic sound that helped change popular music forever.
Your Childhood Candy, Based on Your Birth Month
Why bother trying one of the newer candies when you can savor the classics? There’s a nostalgic candy that captures your spirit, according to your birth month. This nostalgic candy has been around forever for a reason. Nobody can deny that this candy’s timeless flavor and texture are part of the allure, but your connection with it goes a bit deeper.
Maybe this nostalgic candy was the only thing you looked forward to receiving on Halloween, or you could have spent all of your allowance on it. You might have ample memories of eating this candy with friends and family over the years. Not to mention the excitement of sharing your favorite candy with your kids or grandkids for the first time. Even though the years have passed, this candy remains a constant in your life. Read on to find your nostalgic candy, based on your birth month.
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January: Circus PeanutsOf course, January would love an “old people” candy since they’re co-ruled by the Saturnian signs, Capricorn and Aquarius. January’s Saturnian essence gives them a mature taste in candy, so they’re aligned with Circus Peanuts. There’s no argument that this foamy, peanut-shaped candy is a bit confusing, which ultimately draws January in. Circus Peanuts aren’t for everyone, but January appreciates their classic banana flavor and indisputable reputation.
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February: Tootsie RollFebruary always roots for the underdog, since they’re a mix of individualistic Aquarius and sympathetic Pisces. February doesn’t care about a candy’s popularity or legacy. They feel connected with the candy outsiders, and there’s no better pick than Tootsie Rolls. Everyone else overlooks the humble Tootsie Roll, but not February. February truly, deeply appreciates how invaluable the Tootsie Roll is. No other chocolate-flavored taffy satiates February’s sweet tooth like this nostalgic candy does.
March: DOTSMarch’s candy counterpart is equally tantalizing as it is challenging to complement the Aries and Pisces energies aligned with this birth month. Not many candies rise to the occasion, but DOTS does. March cannot resist these gumdrops. They might say it’s because of the fruity flavors, but March actually likes this candy’s gummy yet surprisingly sticky texture. March doesn’t care if DOTS clings to their teeth—they’re still choosing this candy every time.
April: Hot TamalesNot many birth months look for a spicy candy, but April does. April isn’t afraid to have a more daring nostalgic candy, thanks to being influenced by courageous Aries and stubborn Taurus. If anyone can get through a box of Hot Tamales, it’s April. These cinnamon-flavored treats embody the sweetness and spiciness April craves in their candy. April is the only birth month brave and excited enough to eat a whole box of Hot Tamales.
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May: Caramel CreamsMay wants a candy that’s dependable as they are. People born during this month look for something that’s tried-and-true, thanks to their steady Taurus energy and thoughtful Gemini energy. May knows that Caramel Creams will never disappoint them. May deeply appreciates how Caramel Creams mirror their consistency. No matter how many years have passed or how many bags May has eaten, the rich caramel and luscious cream center remain the same.
June: Nik-L-NipOnly people born in June know how to actually enjoy a Nik-L-Nip. These tiny, juice-filled wax bottles appeal to both the curious Geminis and intuitive Cancers born during this month. Unlike the other birth month, June has no problem getting the candy out of the chewy wax. Not only does June love the different flavors, but June’s also inspired to do something with the leftover wax. It might sound odd to others, but June cannot resist this multifaceted nostalgic candy.
July: Hershey’s BarIs there anything more sentimental than a Hershey’s bar? Between July’s cozy Cancer and passionate Leo energies, this birth month is undoubtedly loyal to their favorite chocolate bar. A Hershey’s bar brings July back to simpler times. This iconic chocolate bar has been a staple in July’s life since they started eating candy. Whether they’re enjoying it by themselves or snapping off pieces to share, July will always stand by the Hershey’s bar.
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August: RazzlesAugust wants to maximize their candy’s potential, thanks to being a mix of self-assured Leo and productive Virgo. Although most of the older candies are pretty straightforward, Razzles stands out. August remembers the first time they tried this multifaceted candy. Years later, August is still delighted when their Razzles turn from candy into gum. August can try as many candies as they like, but they won’t find anything more multidimensional than Razzles.
September: Bit-O-HoneyPeople born during September want a candy as sweet as they are. These individuals share Virgo’s purity and Libra’s kindness, so they’re known for being pure of heart. September’s candy should reflect their unpretentious nature, which is why they’re paired with Bit-O-Honey. Most might initially overlook this unassuming honey-flavored taffy, but September appreciates Bit-O-Honey’s simplicity and sweetness. Bit-O-Honey reflects the understated, yet indisputable beauty found in all September birthdays.
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October: Sugar BabiesEveryone is as obsessed with October’s candy as they are with the people born during this month. The cosmic mix of Libra and Scorpio make all October-born irresistible. October is beloved for their charm and depth, so their nostalgic candy reflects their winning personality. Sugar Babies perfectly aligns with October, because this chewy caramel candy encapsulates how enticing October is. Together, October and Sugar Babies make a captivating duo.
November: Bazooka Bubble GumNovember needs a candy that can last as long as they do. Individuals born during this month can go the distance thanks to their Scorpionic intensity and Sagittarian stamina. Nothing stands in November’s way, so they’ll feel strongly connected to Bazooka Bubble Gum. Sure, there are plenty of gums on the market, but Bazooka Bubble Gum offers November the unique experience they’re searching for. Between the adorably comics and lasting chew, November can go all day with their Bazooka Bubble Gum.
December: 100 Grand BarThose born in December want it all, thanks to their expansive Sagittarian palette and hardworking Capricorn attitude. December strives for excellence, so it’s only natural that they’ll want the best. Of all the sentimental candies, the 100 Grand Bar truly captures December’s superbness. The mix of chocolate, caramel, and crisped rice represents December’s ability to pull off the impossible. There’s no better reward than eating 100 Grand Bar. After all, December deserves it more than anyone.
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Margaritaville at Sea Is Throwing a Fleetwide Party in 2027 With a Major Country Headliner
If your idea of a perfect vacation involves cold drinks, a laid-back island state of mind, and great live music, your 2027 travel calendar is about to get a lot more exciting. Margaritaville at Sea has officially announced a massive, history-making milestone that will bring its entire fleet together in a single destination for the first time ever.
On January 28, 2027, all three of the line's ships—the Paradise, the Islander, and the brand-new upcoming flagship, the Beachcomber—will sail into Nassau, Bahamas, simultaneously. To celebrate the historic three-ship gathering, country music fans are getting the ultimate onboard perk. Frontman Zac Brown and his multi-platinum, three-time Grammy Award-winning Zac Brown Band will perform an exclusive, private concert for the cruise line's guests right against the tropical backdrop of the Nassau Cruise Port Amphitheatre.
The milestone marks an evolution for the brand, which rapidly scaled from a single ship operating out of Palm Beach in 2022 to a three-ship fleet that will soon service Palm Beach, Tampa Bay, and Miami. Because the party involves the entire fleet, travelers can choose exactly how they want to get to the celebration depending on their preferred Florida homeport, ship style, and vacation length.
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Margaritaville at Sea has opened up three specific itineraries that will converge in Nassau for the big event. Travelers looking for a quick getaway can book a four-night voyage aboard the Paradise, sailing from the Port of Palm Beach to Freeport and Nassau.
If you prefer departing from the west coast of Florida, you can hop on a five-night sailing aboard the Islander out of Port Tampa Bay, which hits Freeport and Grand Bahama before heading to Nassau. For a longer vacation, you can book a seven-night itinerary aboard the all-new Beachcomber during its inaugural season out of PortMiami, which takes guests to George Town, Grand Cayman and Ocho Rios, Jamaica, before arriving in Nassau for the party.
According to Christopher Ivy, Chief Executive Officer of Margaritaville at Sea, combining live entertainment with specific group itineraries is central to the cruise line's identity. Ivy noted that this is more than a celebration of the fleet, but rather a defining moment for the brand, adding that no one brings music and travel together quite like they do.
Every single guest booked on these three specific sailings will receive automatic, exclusive entry to the private Zac Brown Band performance. The fun isn't limited to the shore, either. Throughout the milestone sailings, guests across all three ships will be treated to custom events built just for the celebration, including a festive Sail Away party, a special Captain’s Toast, and themed onboard programming, with optional VIP packages available for extra perks.
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Coinciding with the fleetwide news, the cruise line is launching a limited-time America’s Summer Sale, making it a great window to lock down a cabin before the itineraries fill up. If you are looking to book a spot on one of the historic concert sailings, the summer promotion includes major budget-saving perks across the fleet, including 50% off cruise fares, reduced fifty-dollar deposits, and complimentary stateroom upgrades on select sailings. Plus, third and fourth guests can sail completely free on select dates, which is ideal if you are trying to pull together a group trip with friends.
All three itineraries are officially live and open for booking on the cruise line's website, meaning you can grab your flip-flops, pick your favorite Florida port, and start counting down the days until the ultimate country music escape.
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1980 Rock Classic, Written After High-Profile Split, Remains the Ultimate Breakup Anthem 46 Years Later
In 1980, the J. Geils Band released a song that would become one of their signature hits. The song, “Love Stinks,” was a kiss-off classic and breakup hit, but it also came during a turbulent period in band member Peter Wolf’s life.
Written by Wolf and Seth Justman for the album of the same name, “Love Stinks" featured a killer garage rock guitar riff and singalong-ready lyrics about love gone wrong.
“And so it goes/'til the day you die/this thing they call love/it's gonna make you cry,” Wolf sang, before adding in the chorus, “One thing for sure/ Love stinks.”
The song became a Billboard Top 40 hit and remains one of rock’s greatest anti-love anthems 46 years after its release.
There’s no doubt that “Love Stinks” is a sarcastic take on a failed relationship. What has long been debated is whether it’s a reference to Wolf’s marriage to actress Faye Dunaway. The former couple split in 1979 after five years of marriage, not long before Wolf and Justman penned the hit breakup tune.
Wolf, now 80, has been respectful when publicly talking about Dunaway, 85.
After penning his 2025 memoir, Waiting on the Moon, Wolf told Rolling Stone he didn’t want it write “a kiss-and-tell book.”
“We had a very great marriage, and we both were so absorbed with each other, but we had this unspoken rule that our careers came first,” the rocker shared of his marriage to the Hollywood legend. “We were supportive of each other’s careers. But I was so committed to the band, just like Faye was so committed to her career in film, that it became my life.”
Speaking with Billboard, Wolf described his ex-wife as a “very determined, talented person.”
“And we loved each other,” he said, adding, “Of course there’s regrets; one has regrets and wishes they could do things differently, and I think I’ve expressed that in all the chapters.
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Dunaway also wrote positive things about Wolf in her memoir, Looking for Gatsby, declaring that she always knew that Wolf loved her. “Time, life, and the world kept wearing away at our relationship,” she shared.
Still, speculation about the inspiration for "Love Stinks” remains. Ultimate Classic Rock noted that the couple’s divorce came “the year before the J. Geils Band scored its highest chart showing in nearly a decade with the (allegedly) coincidentally titled ‘Love Stinks.’”
It’s also ranked on the outlet’s Top 10 Breakup Songs list.
2012 Rock Album Spawned a No. 1 Hit a Decade After Release
I4 years ago, San Diego rockers Pierce the Veil would release an album that would go on to define the 2010s.
The band released its third studio album, Collide with the Sky, on July 17, 2012 via Fearless Records. Produced by Dan Korneff and Kato Khandwala, the record peaked at No. 12 on the Billboard 200. A huge hit during the Warped Tour era, Collide with the Sky features the epic single "King for a Day (ft. Kellin Quinn,)" a track that frequently closes out a Pierce the Veil show.
"There’s a photo of us popping champagne in front of our tour bus the day that Collide With The Sky came out because we had sold something like 10,000 or 20,000 units," singer Vic Fuentes told Kerrang! in 2025. "At the time, we’d been playing shows and selling five CDs a show. The stars all aligned for that moment because we’d recorded 'King For A Day' with Kellin Quinn, and Sleeping With Sirens were on Warped Tour as well."
During Warped Tour 2012, Pierce the Veil and Sleeping with Sirens coordinated set times so that Quinn could join the band on stage for the performance, and this is something that has continued since. In 2025, Quinn's band supported Pierce the Veil during the North American leg of its I Can't Hear You World Tour, with the pair ending the concert with their collaboration.
While the song has always been a huge success among fans, it gained new audience thanks to the rise of TikTok. A 2020 trend saw creators post videos soundtracked to the hit, racking up hundreds of millions of views. Fuentes said that he is "so appreciative" of the trend, which singer Lizzo took part in.
Ten years after it was first released, "King for a Day (ft. Kellin Quinn)" found itself soaring to the top of the charts, hitting No. 1 on the Billboard Hard Rock Streaming Songs chart in August 2022. The cinematic music video remains a fan favorite, with 198 million views on YouTube at the time of writing.
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1955 Theme Park, Opened 71 Years Ago Today, Became the ‘Happiest Place on Earth’
Seventy-one years ago today, on July 17, 1955, Walt Disney opened the gates of Disneyland for the first time.
He had poured some $17 million into turning a stretch of Anaheim orange groves into what he called the happiest place on Earth, and much of the country was watching. It was one of the most anticipated days in American entertainment history. It was also, by almost every measure, a disaster.
A Day the Staff Called 'Black Sunday'The invitation-only preview was planned for about 15,000 guests. Instead, 28,154 people poured in, many waving counterfeit tickets that had flooded Southern California. One man reportedly leaned a ladder against the back fence and charged $5 a head to climb over. Some attractions broke down or never opened at all.
Then the day turned on the park. Temperatures hit 100 degrees. The asphalt on Main Street had been poured so recently that it softened into sticky tar and swallowed women's high heels. A plumbers strike had forced Disney to choose between working toilets and working drinking fountains, and he picked the toilets. Restaurants ran out of food. Exhausted staff started calling it 'Black Sunday.'
70 Million People Were WatchingNone of the chaos stayed behind the gates. ABC carried a sprawling live television special co-hosted by actor and future president Ronald Reagan, alongside Art Linkletter and Bob Cummings. An estimated 70 million Americans tuned in, one of the largest live audiences the medium had ever drawn, and the broadcast had its own glitches with dead microphones and missed cues. Disneyland's Florida sibling, Walt Disney World, would not open for another 16 years.
Disney had warned it might take a month before everything ran smoothly. He was not wrong. Seven decades and more than a billion guests later, the former Anaheim orange grove that opened in total chaos is the most famous theme park on Earth.
Amazon Has Podiatrist-Approved $30 Slide Sandals That Feel ‘Like a Cloud’ With ‘Great Arch Support’
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Whether you're running errands, traveling, or simply spending more time on your feet, comfortable footwear can make all the difference. While plenty of sandals are marketed for walking, not all include the supportive features like arch support and cushioning that podiatrists recommend. Right now, Amazon has a highly-rated pair on sale that checks every box for comfort and support.
Right now, the KuaiLu Recovery Sandals are marked down to as low as $30 at Amazon, making them an affordable option for anyone looking to upgrade their everyday footwear. The supportive slides have become a favorite among shoppers, with many reviewers writing that they were podiatrist-approved or podiatrist-recommended.
KuaiLu Recovery Sandals, From $30 (was $46) at Amazon Shop at AmazonMade for all-day comfort, the slides pair a thick cushioned sole with an orthotic footbed and built-in arch support to help relieve foot fatigue and minimize heel pain. Their ergonomic design encourages a more natural stride, making them a practical choice for long days on your feet or post-workout recovery.
They have a sleek and sporty design that looks just as good with leggings or joggers as they do with your favorite casual outfit. The lightweight EVA straps are waterproof and quick-drying, while the slip-resistant rubber outsole offers extra traction on wet surfaces. The sandals are available in 16 colors and come in sizes 6 through 12.
Many reviewers said they noticed the comfort immediately, with one noting that the sandals feel “like a cloud.” Another shared, "My podiatrist recommended these for my plantar fasciitis and heel pain. [I’ve] had them for three weeks and can't stand to wear my regular slides or flip-flops now." A third reviewer said their podiatrist suggested wearing the sandals at home after treatment, adding that they're "very comfortable and stylish looking for an orthopedic shoe."
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1967 International Bestseller, Written by a 16-Year-Old, Became a ‘Most Influential Novel’
Inspired by rival gangs at her high school in Tulsa, Okla., American author S.E. Hintonbegan writingThe Outsiders at just 15 years old. She wrote the story primarily as a way to understand the gangs by writing from their point of view. Hinton would write the bulk of the novel and complete it while she was 16 years old, eventually publishing it on April 24, 1967, at the age of 18.
Hinton, whose full name is Susan Eloise Hinton, published the novel under her initials at the advice of her publisher so that reviewers would not be deterred from picking up the book if they knew it was by a female author. Hinton kept the partial pseudonym for her later works as it allowed her to better differentiate between her public and personal personas.
The Outsiders sold more than 15 million copies worldwide in its first 50 years of publication and was translated into more than 30 languages. The novel is put on many middle and high school reading curricula.
View this post on InstagramMany novels prove to be influential, and the story by Hinton is exactly that. In 2019, the BBC compiled a list of the "100 Most Influential Books of All Time" and placed The Outsiders among them. In 1988, Hinton was awarded the inaugural Margaret Edwards Award from the American Library Association for her cumulative contribution in writing for teens, largely in part due to the influence of The Outsiders.
The Outsiders follows 14-year-old Ponyboy Curtis, who believes there are simply two types of people in the world: Greasers and Socs. Greasers are poor East Side kids like Ponyboy and his friends and family. Socs are the rich West Side kids with whom they constantly clash. When Ponyboy's best friend Johnny fatally stabs a Soc one night, Ponyboy is confronted with the reality of the world in a way he never considered and is faced with the truth of humanity.
The Outsiders remains immensely popular and moving for readers to this day, encouraging them to "stay gold." It is available wherever books are sold.
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Norwegian Cruise Line Unveils New Adults-Only Beach Clubs and Upgraded Thermal Spas
Two of Norwegian Cruise Line's beloved Jewel-class ships are getting a massive upgrade, giving adults a serious excuse to book a vacation.
The cruise line has officially unveiled major transformations for both the Norwegian Jadeand Norwegian Gem. The updates bring a pair of NCL's most popular signature amenities to the mid-sized vessels, introducing the upscale, adults-only Vibe Beach Club alongside a total overhaul of the award-winning Mandara Spaand Salon.
According to Marc Kazlauskas, president of Norwegian Cruise Line, the transformations are a direct response to what travelers are looking for on board.
“Listening to our guests and delivering exceptional experiences across our fleet is at the heart of what we do,” said Kazlauskas. “These recent transformations bring some of our most beloved amenities to Norwegian Jade and Norwegian Gem, creating greater consistency across our fleet while giving guests more ways to personalize their vacation— from adults-only outdoor spaces to serene relaxation areas designed to help them unwind at sea.”
If you're planning a cruise soon, here's exactly what you will find on board.
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An Exclusive Adults-Only Escape at SeaNorwegian Cruise Line
For adults looking to escape the high-energy atmosphere of the main pool decks, both ships have officially repurposed their Deck 14 sundecks into the signature Vibe Beach Club. This restricted-access, open-air retreat is designed as a premium oasis at sea, featuring expansive, uninterrupted ocean views and an additional private hot tub.
The lounge setup is a major step up from standard deck chairs, offering more than 50 premium loungers and a dedicated, full-service private bar. For those looking to elevate their sea day even further, the space also introduces seven private luxury cabanas available for rent.
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Expanded Thermal Suites and New Wellness TechNorwegian Cruise Line
If your idea of a vacation involves heavy recovery and relaxation, the Mandara Spa upgrades are where you'll want to spend your time. The ships have completely redesigned their Thermal Suites, shifting to a more centralized layout with an upgraded reception area and tripling the number of their highly coveted heated tile loungers.
The spa menus are also leaning heavily into modern wellness trends. The thermal areas now feature a specialized Charcoal Sauna that uses radiant heat to boost circulation and ease muscle stiffness, alongside a Salt Room for skin health, a traditional steam room, and an Ice Room to invigorate the respiratory tract. Guests can also book premium Four-Senses Loungers for deep tranquility or visit the brand-new on-board IV Lounge for quick nutrient hydration.
The two ships are also getting a few distinct, individual perks. The Norwegian Jade has introduced multi-jet Experiential Showers with custom lighting effects, a brand-new muscle-recovery Plunge Pool. Meanwhile, the Norwegian Gem has rolled out a completely refurbished hot tub and a specialized Thalassotherapy pool that utilizes bubble loungers and countercurrents to soothe joint pain.
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Where to SailYou can catch these upgraded amenities in action right now across a handful of bucket-list summer itineraries. The Norwegian Jade is currently sailing seven-day itineraries through Alaska from Vancouver and Whittier, stopping in Ketchikan, Juneau, and Skagway before heading down to Tampa for Western Caribbean sailings later this year.
Meanwhile, the Norwegian Gem is spending its summer cruising the Mediterranean and Greek Isles out of Venice and Rome, hitting beautiful ports like Dubrovnik, Split, and Cannes before transitioning to Florida-based Caribbean sailings this winter.
Joanna Gaines’ ‘Simple Yet Elegant’ $30 Stoneware Serving Bowl Is a Charming ‘Centerpiece’ for Any Table
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Joanna Gaines knows that some of the best memories happen around the table. Between her farmhouse makeovers on the Fixer Upper series, Magnolia Table recipes, and cozy design style, she has mastered the art of creating spaces that make people want to gather. Her Hearth & Hand with Magnolia collection at Target brings that same welcoming feeling home with stylish pieces designed for everyday meals and special moments alike.
For those who love hosting, the Hearth & Hand with Magnolia Large Stoneware Serving Bowl is a versatile addition to any kitchen or dining space. Available for just $30 at Target, this stoneware bowl has plenty of room for big salads, hearty pasta dishes, and all the sides your guests love. Shoppers have praised its classic design, calling it “fabulous” and the “perfect size” for serving.
Hearth & Hand with Magnolia Large Stoneware Serving Bowl, $30 at Target Shop at TargetWith a generous 135-ounce capacity, this oversized bowl makes it easy to serve a crowd. A soft sour cream-hued glaze and etched detailing add a warm, elegant touch to the table.
The durable stoneware construction gives it a quality feel you can enjoy every day, while still looking beautiful enough to bring out when company comes over. Since it’s microwave-safe and dishwasher-safe, you can really put it to work in your kitchen rather than saving it for special occasions.
Target shoppers have given this serving bowl a well-deserved 4.5 star rating. One reviewer called it “fabulous.” Another said that its “simple yet elegant” design made the serving bowl a beautiful “centerpiece” for their table. A third added: “Beautiful color and design. Loved everything about it, especially the price!”
From family dinners to weekend gatherings, Joanna Gaines’ Hearth & Hand with Magnolia Large Stoneware Serving Bowl brings classic style and everyday function to your table. Shop it now at Target for $30 while it’s still in stock!
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59 Years Ago Today, This Guitar Legend Shockingly Quit Opening for The Monkees
It’s hard to even consider what was going on in everyone’s minds when they thought it would be a good idea for Jimi Hendrix to open for the clean-cut pop group The Monkees, but it happened in 1967.
That was until the day Hendrix walked away from the tour and never looked back. That happened on July 17, 1967, after just eight shows.
It still goes down in history as one of the most bizarre music pairings to ever happen. Hendrix was known for his legendary guitar solos, while the band formed initially for TV was a bubble gum pop group that was thought would rival The Beatles. Both had their fan bases, but anyone going to see The Monkees in concert were unlikely to enjoy Hendrix’s music.
Who possibly thought it up? Micky Dolenz and Peter Tork of The Monkees! After watching Hendrix perform at the Monterey Pop Festival earlier that year (and Dolenz has seen him the year before), they knew they needed to have him on their tour. The idea was that it would expose the newly-formed band to the American audience, exposing them to more fans. Plus, Dolenz said in a 2021 interview, “His claim to fame was he’s the guy who plays guitar with his teeth,” and that definitely helped seal the idea that he would be perfect.
American rock guitarist and singer Jimi Hendrix (1942-1970) performs live on stage playing a black Fender Stratocaster guitar with The Jimi Hendrix Experience at the Royal Albert Hall in London on 24th February 1969. (Photo by David Redfern/Redferns)Hendrix agreed to do it, and he certainly tried. For eight shows, he put up with the screaming fans who would drown out his solos with “We want Davy,” noting the adoration and love for Davy Jones. After the eighth show, he had had enough.
The good news is that the band and Hendrix became friends after this. While the on-stage nightmare was always going to be there, it didn’t create a rift between them, and it seems they were able to laugh about it in the future.
In fact, the decision to part ways on the stage was mutual. Hendrix confirmed, “Then some parents who brought their young kids complained that our act was vulgar. We decided it was just the wrong audience. I think they’re replacing me with Mickey Mouse.”
The two would go their separate ways and find their own fame. It was simply a case of what seemed like a fun idea at the time being something made of nightmares, but everyone respected the business.
1975 Soft Rock Classic Is Suddenly Climbing the Charts Again, Over 50 Years Later
Over 50 years after putting out some of their biggest hits, America is back on the Billboard charts again.
The '70s soft rock band ended up back on the Billboard leaderboards this week with their 1975 compilation album, History: America's Greatest Hits, which re-entered the Billboard 200 at No. 180, according to new standings dated the week of July 18.
The album has now spent a total of 68 weeks on the Billboard 200, previously peaking at No. 3 just one month after its release in November 1975.
It contains the most iconic tracks from America's discography, including their smash hit debut single, "A Horse with No Name," which spent three weeks on the Hot 100 in 1972.
The group's signature track, "A Horse with No Name" has since surpassed one billion streams on Spotify, earning it a spot in the platform's elite "Billion's Club."
The Greatest Hits record also features America's only other Hot 100 chart-topper, "Sister Golden Hair," which came out as a single in 1975 and was later featured on their fifth studio album, Hearts.
Other fan-favorite tracks also appear on the Greatest Hits compilation record, like "Ventura Highway," "Tin Man," "You Can Do Magic" and more.
In 1986, the album was officially certified Platinum by the Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA), signifying one million units sold.
The album's resurgence comes more than five decades after America arrived on the music scene in the '70s, a testament to the lasting legacy of the band's beloved catalog.
History: America's Greatest Hits Track List:- "A Horse with No Name"
- "I Need You"
- "Sandman"
- "Ventura Highway"
- "Don't Cross the River"
- "Only in Your Heart"
- "Muskrat Love"
- "Tin Man"
- "Lonely People"
- "Sister Golden Hair"
- "Daisy Jane"
- "Woman Tonight"
Pearls Are So on Trend in 2026, and Macy’s $7 Earrings 'Add the Perfect Amount of Sparkle'
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Jewelry trends come and go, but TikTok's current love for timeless pearl pieces gives you a way to turn heads season after season. Macy's has just dropped the Charter Club Pavé Crystal and Pearl Hoop Earrings to an irresistible $7, down from their usual $35 price, and they are capturing attention for all the right reasons.
These Macy's-exclusive hoops combine timeless design with just the right touch of sparkle, offering an easy way to elevate any look without breaking the bank. At less than the price of a latte, they’re definitely worth a look.
Charter Club Pavé Crystal and Pearl Hoop Earrings, $7 (was $35) at Macy's Shop at Macy'sEach C-shaped hoop measures just over an inch in length, giving enough presence to frame the face while remaining comfortable for all-day wear. Set in gold-tone mixed metal, the hoops are adorned with glass pavé-cut crystals that catch the light from every angle. Alternating between the crystals are delicately-placed imitation pearls that hit the jewelry trend, while also creating a harmonious balance between shimmer and softness.
These earrings can transition seamlessly from a workday meeting to an evening out or a special celebration. The post-back closure ensures a secure and comfortable fit, so you can wear them with confidence, no matter where the day takes you.
Shoppers have praised the value and beauty of these Macy’s-exclusive earrings. Many noted that they "add the perfect amount of elegance and sparkle" to any outfit, earning compliments with every wear.
"You can dress up your outfit," one shopper stated. "Even with a casual look...you can feel elegant. I can't take these off!"
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At just $7, the Charter Club Pavé Crystal and Pearl Hoop Earrings are more than a bargain. They’re an opportunity to bring a little extra glamor and confidence into your everyday routine. The timeless combination of pearls, crystals, and gold-tone metal ensures they will remain a favorite for years to come. Snag them now while they’re still in stock!
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Psychologist Kelly McGonigal's Advice on How To View Stress Is Actually So Inspiring
Stress is a very real issue that most of us deal with daily, some more than others. We’re often trying to find ways to reduce the amount of pressure we’re under or find ways to handle it better. But health psychologist Kelly McGonigal has given presentations and written books about ways to think about stress differently. Her 2013 TED Talk, “How to make stress your friend,” is one of the most-viewed on their platform with over 36.4 million views. In it, she makes the case that there are ways to turn this pressure into a positive thing. And our quote of the day focuses on that idea of reframing stress.
According to TEDTalk, McGonigal is a “leader” in the “science-help” space. She “translates academic research into practical strategies for health, happiness and personal success.” She is a psychologist in both “the worlds of research and practice,” and holds positions in the Stanford Graduate School of Business and the School of Medicine, they also reported.
As she wrote on her website, her two most popular books first started out as psychology courses she was teaching at Stanford University. For example, The Willpower of Instinct was originally a course called “The Science of Willpower,” and her most recent book, Joy Is a Risk Worth Taking, was an online course called “The Science and Practice of Joy.”
On top of all that, she shared that she was the psychology consultant for The New York Times Education Initiative, and interviewed professionals like scientists and authors for Public Radio’s City Arts & Lectures. She’s also worked to develop “programs for schools that integrate psychological science into student wellness and support.”
Today’s quote really highlights her position on what causes stress and a new way to think about it, which is actually so inspiring.
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Quote of the Day by Kelly McGonigalCanvaPro/Parade
“Stress happens when something you care about is at stake. It's not a sign to run away—it's a sign to step forward.”
This quote is from McGonigal’s 2012 book, The Upside of Stress: Why Stress Is Good for You, and How to Get Good at It. The book’s description calls it a “controversial and groundbreaking new book that overturns long-held beliefs about stress.” It mentions that almost half of Americans lose sleep over stress, and are often trying to reduce the amount of stress they’re experiencing. However, McGonigal’s book pushes the notion that “stress isn’t bad,” backing it up with research and explanations.
It “is the first book to bring together cutting-edge discoveries on the correlation between resilience—the human capacity for stress-related growth—and mind-set, the power of beliefs to shape reality.” The book also includes exercises and stories that aim to show you how to embrace stress, how it can “provide focus and energy” and more.
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Deeper Meaning of Kelly McGonigal’s Quote—Reframing StressWhether you can fully reframe the way you think about stress or not, McGonigal’s initial statement is true. If you feel an intense emotion about a situation, then you care about it in some regard.
Because of that, stress shouldn’t be something you should be avoidant of or “run away” from, as McGonigal puts it. She states that you should embrace it and “step forward” to address the pressure you’re feeling. As with many things we care about, it’s good to face things head-on to either figure out a remedy or at least why you’re feeling stress and anxiety and not another emotion.
Stepping to the plate when it comes to something that’s stressing you out is one way to start addressing that emotion, whether that’s finding a way to make stress your friend or finding ways to alleviate it.
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More Quotes from Kelly McGonigal- “Chasing meaning is better for your health than trying to avoid discomfort.”
- “Go after what it is that creates meaning in your life and then trust yourself to handle the stress that follows.”
- “When you choose to view your stress response as helpful, you create the biology of courage.”
- “There is a secret for greater self-control; the science points to one thing: the power of paying attention.”
- “When we’re stressed, our brains persistently mis-predict what will make us happy.”
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