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1968 Iconic Ballad, Written in 30 Minutes, Became a Generational No. 1 Hit
While there are plenty of songs that take days, weeks or even years to write, some come together in a flash. A rare few even go on to define an era.
That was the case for "These Eyes," the breakthrough ballad by The Guess Who that was famously written in just 30 minutes by songwriting partners Randy Bachman and Burton Cummings. The heartfelt track helped launch the Canadian band onto the international stage, becoming its first major hit and opening the door for a string of classics that followed.
The story of the song began several years before its release, when Bachman started working through a series of chords while waiting for his future wife to get ready for a date. He jotted down an early idea in a notebook before sharing it with Cummings, who suggested changing the opening lyric from "These arms" to the far more memorable "These eyes cry every night for you.
"From that we wrote a song that would forever change our lives," Bachman later recalled.
Producer Jack Richardson heard the band perform "These Eyes" on the CBC television series, Let's Go, and was convinced it had hit potential. After refinancing his home to help fund the recording sessions, Richardson took the group to New York, where they recorded the song in 1968.
"We were very lucky," Bachman told Best Classic Bands. "We were at a period of time when there were slight crossovers. We had a hit with 'These Eyes' and we did American Bandstand—Dick Clark gave us our gold singles. We were invited to New York, to RCA Records, where we had the songs and albums—we recorded the [Wheatfield Soul] album at Phil Ramone's A&R Studio in New York. He was the engineer on that and that's why it still sounds great on the radio today.
"These Eyes" was released as a single in Canada in December 1968 before arriving in the United States in March 1969. Included on the band's 1969 album Wheatfield Soul, it became The Guess Who's breakthrough hit, earning the group's first gold record, and climbing to No. 6 on the Billboard Hot 100 in the U.S.
More than five decades later, "These Eyes" remains one of the defining ballads of the late 1960s. Its unforgettable melody, emotional lyrics, and instantly recognizable opening have helped it endure across generations, while its success paved the way for The Guess Who's remarkable run of hits, including "Laughing," "No Time," and the chart-topping "American Woman," which cemented the band's place in rock history.
"I still love being onstage and watching the reaction," Bachman told GlideMagazine. "People cry and they react emotionally when I sing 'These Eyes' or 'American Woman' or 'Stand Tall;' some of the big records that really got through to them. I still love being able to invoke that reaction with people. That's something that shouldn’t be messed with. It really should be honored. And that's what I try and do."
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This Is How Modern Vacations Are Captured After a 'Main Character' Trend Goes Viral
Tapping through someone's Instagram Story can sometimes feel like an endless ordeal.
And more often than not, these long sequences of videos and photos stem from special getaways. These days, as it turns out, travelers are no longer waiting until they reach a famous landmark to begin documenting their trip.
Jet-setters are increasingly treating vacations as personal storylines, complete with carefully planned entrances, cinematic footage and experiences chosen for how memorable they feel.
New short-form video data shows travelers are turning ordinary vacation moments into personal storylines. That's right — the airport pickup, hotel entrance and first drive through a destination are increasingly becoming part of the story.
New findings from Virlo, a short-form video trend intelligence platform, point to the growing appeal of highly personal and cinematic travel content. Its latest travel analysis tracked 1,100 videos that collectively generated 686.4 million views. Here are the findings:
- Personal travel vlogs and journey narratives led with 29.3 million views
- Luxury and aspirational travel experiences received 6.7 million
- Travel photography and cinematic capture generated 2.3 million
- Solo travel and empowerment content attracted 2.6 million views
The pattern reflects what could be called “main character travel,” where travelers frame a trip as a personal narrative rather than a collection of places visited.
“People used to think of transportation as the gap between the airport and the hotel,” JJ Bell, vice president of Presidential Limousine, said in a statement shared with Parade. “Now, that first ride can set the tone for the entire trip. The music, the people you are with and the moment the destination comes into view can become one of the memories everyone talks about afterward.”
This doesn't necessarily require a fully luxurious itinerary. Virlo also found that budget travel and smart-hack videos generated 3.6 million views, suggesting cost-conscious planning can coexist with selective upgrades.
Bell recommended focusing on three details:
- Decide which part of the trip deserves a memorable entrance or group experience.
- Confirm passenger and luggage capacity before selecting a vehicle based on appearance.
- Verify pickup instructions, pricing, company credentials and what is included before booking.
6 Items to Buy From Walmart’s Produce Section (and 6 to Skip)
Walmart’s produce section can feel like a bit of a dice roll. One trip might deliver perfectly ripe avocados, crisp cucumbers and affordable staples that make filling your cart a little easier on your wallet. Meanwhile, another visit might leave you wondering how a peach went from rock-hard to past its prime seemingly overnight.
The difference often comes down to knowing which produce items benefit from Walmart’s massive purchasing—and which ones require a little more strategy before placing them in your cart.
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When it comes to fresh produce, turnover can be a double-edged sword. For some items, a constant stream of shoppers is a good thing. Popular picks like bananas and avocados are frequently replenished, which can help you find fresher options and choose produce at the ripeness stage that works best for you. But high-volume grocery operations can also create challenges for more delicate fruits and vegetables, especially those that depend on perfect timing, careful handling or peak-season growing conditions.
That’s why the smartest Walmart produce shoppers aren’t necessarily looking for the cheapest option in the aisle. They’re looking for the items where Walmart’s pricing, selection and turnover work in their favor, and knowing which ones may be better purchased elsewhere, should only be bought in season or skipped altogether.
From nutrient-packed vegetables to fragile fruits that can spoil before you get the chance to enjoy them, these are the Walmart produce items worth adding to your cart and the ones that deserve a second thought.
Does Walmart Have Organic Produce?Yes, Walmart carries organic produce. The exact selection varies by store, but shoppers can typically find organic options like celery, broccoli, carrots and other staples.
For budget-conscious shoppers, organic produce at Walmart can be an appealing option because it gives shoppers access to organic choices without necessarily paying the premium often associated with specialty grocery stores.
Of course, organic doesn’t automatically mean every item will be fresher or taste better. Produce quality still comes down to factors like seasonality, storage and how quickly an item moves from farm to shelf to table. If the demand for organic produce is lower at a particular store, those items may sit on shelves longer, diminishing your storage window at home.
6 Best Items to Buy From Walmart’s Produce SectionThese are the six best Walmart produce items worth buying.
1. BananasAnjana Sharma / 500px / Getty Images
Bananas are one of the easiest Walmart produce wins.
They’re affordable, widely available and one of the fastest-moving fruits in the produce department. That high turnover can work in your favor because bananas are regularly replaced rather than sitting around waiting for someone to take them home.
Another advantage? You can buy them based on your schedule. Grab greener bananas if you want them to last a few days, or choose yellow ones if you’re ready to snack.
2. AvocadosAvocados can be a gamble at some grocery stores: overly firm one day, mush and bruised the next.
But high turnover can actually be an advantage here. Because avocados are a popular purchase, Walmart shoppers often have more options when it comes to ripeness. Look for firmer avocados if you aren’t using them right away, and let them soften at home.
They’re also a nutrient-packed choice, providing fiber, healthy fats and a variety of vitamins and minerals.
3. BroccoliTyrrell Fitness And Nutrition / Unsplash
Broccoli is a smart produce purchase you can make at Walmart because it offers a lot of nutritional value at the superstore's lower price.
Beyond the price point, broccoli is a practical grocery staple. It’s packed with fiber, vitamin C and beneficial plant compounds, and it holds up better than many delicate vegetables once you bring it home. Whether you roast it, steam it, add it to a stir-fry or blend it into a meal, broccoli is an easy way to stretch your produce budget.
4. CucumbersCucumbers are one of those simple produce staples that earn their spot in almost any grocery cart.
They’re affordable, versatile and easy to use—slice them for salads, add them to sandwiches or enjoy them as a crunchy snack. Cucumbers also appear among Walmart’s top-selling produce items, which means they benefit from being a frequently purchased item. This makes picking up the crisp gourds at Walmart a great choice because they don't have a long shelf life.
5. PotatoesPotatoes have long been one of the most budget-friendly produce choices, and not much has changed. They’re inexpensive, filling and naturally built for storage.
Whether you’re making baked potatoes, mashed potatoes or a sheet-pan dinner, they’re one of those produce purchases that can stretch your grocery dollars, especially if you're a Walmart shopper. The discount giant is known for its lower priced produce options, and potatoes are no exception. And because potatoes stay fresh for a while, shoppers benefit from Walmart's bulk order prices, even if the spuds don't immediately fly off the shelves.
6. OnionsOnions may not be the star of the produce aisle, but they’re a smart produce buy at Walmart.
They’re affordable, have a long shelf life and add flavor to countless meals. Because they store well, they’re less likely to leave you rushing to use them before they spoil, which makes them a good choice from the retail giant.
6 Walmart Produce Items You Can SkipThese are the six produce items at Walmart you may want to buy elsewhere.
1. Bagged SaladsBagged salads are convenient, but that convenience comes with trade-offs.
Pre-assembled salad mixes often cost more than buying whole greens, and their shelf life can be shorter once they’re packaged. Additionally, pre-packaged greens pose a higher contamination risk due to their moist environment versus their whole, un-bagged alternatives.
Over the past few years, national and regional recalls have highlighted the ongoing issues with bagged greens, and sadly due in part to sales volume, Walmart has repeatedly made the list of top retailers called out by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA).
2. Leafy GreensLeafy greens can be one of the trickier produce purchases because they have such a short window between fresh and garbage.
Spinach, lettuce and other greens can wilt quickly, especially if you buy more than you can use. Such is often the case with large retailers buying enormous quantities of leafy vegetables. If it's not sold quickly, it starts to turn before it even leaves the store. Look at smaller stores or farmers markets for the best options when it comes to greens.
3. Pre-Cut FruitPre-cut fruit is one of the easiest places to pay an upcharge for convenience.
The cutting, packaging and added handling often come with a higher price tag, while the fruit itself generally has a shorter shelf life than whole pieces of produce. Additionally, once the fruit is separated from its protective peel, it may be easier for bacteria to enter and potentially cause illness.
Buying whole fruit and cutting it yourself can often save you money, reduce waste and keep you healthy.
4. Out-of-Season BerriesBerries are delicious and extremely healthy, but they’re also among the most delicate fruits at the store.
Strawberries, raspberries and blueberries have very delicate skin and carry with them mold spores from the farm where they were grown. When berries spend extra time in storage or transit, which especially happens off-season when they get transported long distances, those spores may combine with naturally occurring moisture and create mold.
When berries aren’t in season, frozen options can offer better value and a longer shelf life.
5. TomatoesTomatoes are one of the best examples of when seasonality really matters.
Outside of peak growing season, tomatoes are often chosen for their ability to travel and store rather than their flavor or ripeness. This may mean they get picked long before they reach their prime. While the fruit may turn red as it sits, it never gets the opportunity to fully develop its flavor potential.
For truly great tomatoes, wait for in-season, local options, and you'll taste the difference.
6. Peaches and NectarinesPeaches and nectarines can be frustrating because their ripeness isn’t always easy to predict.
A fruit that looks promising in the store can sometimes turn out mealy or flavorless after ripening. Other times, the window between firm and flavorless and over-ripe and mush is nearly nonexistent. Like tomatoes, these stone fruits are often best purchased during peak season from local or regional sources if available.
Final TakeawaysWalmart can be a great place to stock up on produce, but the smartest shoppers know that not every item is an automatic win.
The best Walmart produce buys tend to be foods that benefit from the retailer’s size: affordable staples, high-volume favorites and vegetables that hold up well after purchase.
For more delicate produce, timing matters. Shopping locally and in season, checking freshness, and knowing when convenience isn’t worth the extra cost can help you get more from every trip down the produce aisle.
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‘The Five-Star Weekend’ Is Getting a Second Season at Peacock
TheFive-Star Weekend, the Peacock series starring Jennifer Garnerthat's based on the hit Elin Hilderbrand novel, just scored a second season.
In the series, Garner, 54, stars as Hollis Shaw, a famous food blogger whose husband tragically died. Looking to brighten her days through her grief, she invites four friends from different stages of her life to her stunning house on Nantucket for a girls’ trip. Hilderbrand took to Instagram to announce the exciting news that the show, which also stars Chloë Sevigny, Regina Hall, Gemma Chan, and D’Arcy Carden, just got an order for a second season.
"It’s happening you guys!!! THE FIVE-STAR WEEKEND is officially getting a Season 2!! Huge shout out to our brilliant showrunner @funstetter for bringing the book to the screen. Thank you thank you@peacock — what a dream this has been," Hilderbrand captioned her post.
View this post on InstagramIf you haven't binged the hit series yet, The Five-Star Weekend hit Peacock on July 9. Check out the trailer below.
The Cast of The Five-Star Weekend Rocked NantucketBack in October, the cast of The Five-Star Weekend made it clear they had the time of their liveson the Nantucket set of the show. Garner and her costars headed to the Gaslight in Downtown Nantucket for a little karaoke, and were joined by local Nantucket Ghost Walk guide Bill Jamieson onstage as they performed a rousing rendition of ABBA’s “Dancing Queen,” according to the Nantucket Current.
Check out the hilarious video of the group’s karaoke moment below:
View this post on InstagramJoe Minella, who runs the Gaslight’s karaoke night, told the Current how Garner and her squad of lovely costars came to take the stage.
“Bill had no idea who he was singing with, he just thought it was some ladies that wanted to sing with him,” Minella told the publication. “What happened was Bill had signed up to sing Dancing Queen, which he does often. And then another lady came up and wanted to sign up to sing Dancing Queen, and she was like ‘we wanna go quickly, and just so you know, I’m with Jennifer Garner.’ And I told her that they could sing Dancing Queen if they wanted to, but Bill had already signed up for it, so they had to sing it with him. So then they all sang it together.”
Dee Wallace Reveals Her One Rule Before Taking on a Horror Role Nearly 50 Years Into Her Career
Die-hard horror aficionados know actor Dee Wallaceas a recognizable scream queen in the genre with classics dating back to the 70s. She revealed that after decades in the industry, there's one thing she looks for in a new on-screen project.
While Wallace is largely recognized for her role as Mary Taylor in E.T. The Extra-Terrestrial, she became largely known in horror. She got her start in the 1975 classic The Stepford Wives as Nettie the Maid before finding her footing in The Hills Have Eyes, The Howling, Cujo, and Critters. She even played the role of Cynthia Strode in the 2007 franchise installment, Halloween.
She admits that back when she starred in her first horror movies, it was all about, "Oh, my gosh. How lucky am I? I have a job." Over time, she's grown to love the genre and has been a staple in her career that she says found her.
“I didn’t go looking for horror. Horror found me,” she told PEOPLE. “I guess I’m just a really good screamer and crier. And that’s what it takes to do a lot of this horror-thriller stuff, you know?”
Decades into her career at 77 years old, Wallace has no intention of stopping and is giving it her all to the genre. The actor does reveal having one major guideline before she agrees to star in a new project.
“Now I would stand back and go, ‘Wow, how much violence is there?’" she explained. “I just signed on for a project where we stopped before I signed on and talked about the violence. They addressed the violence and toned down some of it because it’s not really my wheelhouse.”
The actor adds that she starred in films that have a story and develop juicy characters alongside a worthwhile relationship between them. For Wallace, a horror film is "not just a set them up, take them out kind of thing." She adds that she's now more focused on addressing it than before, as any actor is happy to land a leading part when they first start their career.
“My life is kismet. That’s all I can say. I’ve just attracted the people that were supposed to be there at the right time, down to all these little independent films that I’ve done,” she said.
Wallace plans to keep "attracting" the right people in her life and reveals she has six to seven films coming out. According to reports, she starred in an independent film called The Licked Hand, based on an urban legend. Other upcoming film roles are unclear, with her recently having starred as Grace in the Netflix series The Boroughs.
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Was the Cabbage Soup Diet Healthy? Here’s What Registered Dietitians Think of It Today
Fad diets come and go, but some are infamous. The Cabbage Soup Diet is one of them. This highly restrictive diet has had an arsenal of fans over the years, although it really took off in the 1980s.
“People really focused on thinness in the ‘80s,” says Jessica Cording, RD, author of The Little Book of Game-Changers. “There was huge emphasis on rapid weight loss and restrictive diets.” The Cabbage Soup Diet fed into this, promising followers that they could lose a lot of weight quickly, and by using ingredients they found at their local grocery store. It was cheap and easy to pull off—and it spread like wildfire among people who wanted to lose weight.
Unlike many other fad diets, no one celebrity or spokesperson promoted the Cabbage Soup Diet. Instead, news of this fad diet mostly spread through word of mouth.
The Cabbage Soup Diet encouraged followers to eat one vegetable—and a lot of it—which naturally raises questions about whether it was actually good for you. Here’s what dietitians want people to keep in mind when it comes to this diet and its health factor.
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What Was the Cabbage Soup Diet?The Cabbage Soup Diet was a seven-day diet that revolved around cabbagesoup. There are a lot of different claims around the diet, but many promised that followers would lose up to 10 pounds in seven days.
There are different variations on the Cabbage Soup Diet, but it usually involves eating homemade cabbage soup—typically cabbage cooked in water or a broth—along with other fruits and vegetables. Most Cabbage Soup Diets allow followers to eat as much cabbage soup as they’d like.
The diet traces its origins back to the 1950s, but the thinness craze of the 1980s brought it into the spotlight, Cording says.
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Was the Cabbage Soup Diet Healthy?While there were some good elements of the Cabbage Soup Diet, dietitians don’t consider it to be healthy overall. “It encouraged vegetable intake,” says Sandra Zhang, RDN, LDN,dietitian at the Frances Stern Nutrition Center at Tufts Medical Center. “Cabbage itself is a nutritious vegetable, rich in fiber and vitamins.”
Sonya Angelone, RD, Ph.D., a former spokeswoman for the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics and a San Francisco-based dietitian, agrees. “Cabbage was the best thing about this diet,” she says. "Among other things, cabbage offers up plenty of vitamins C and K1, folate, fiber and phytochemicals."
“Soup can provide few calories when prepared with lots of vegetables, beans, lean protein and water/broth, which can curb appetite and food intake,” Angelone tells Parade.
Cabbage is “inherently a very healthy food,” according to Jessica Cording, RD, author of The Little Book of Game-Changers. “But it's not that the cabbage soup was the problem—it was diet that was built around it,” she adds.
One of the big concerns with the Cabbage Soup Diet is how restrictive it was, Zhang says, explaining, “The diet was extremely low in calories and lacked balance."
It was also “boring” and “repetitive,” Angelone says. “It was low in protein, essential fats, calcium, iron, and many vitamins,” she continues. “Most of the weight loss was water loss, combined with some muscle loss.”
She adds that people on the Cabbage Soup Diet often struggled with hunger, fatigue and weakness, making it a difficult diet to stick with.
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Is It Safe To Go on the Cabbage Soup Diet?No, it’s not safe to go on the Cabbage Soup Diet. “This is a very, very low-calorie diet,” Cording tells Parade. Cabbage is a low-calorie food, and cabbage soup is equally low in calories, she points out.
“There’s really not much happening in terms of protein or healthy fat on this diet,” Cording says. “That makes it difficult to meet your nutritional needs.” As a result, you can end up feeling faint and fatigued while trying to follow this.
The Cabbage Soup Diet often leads to overeating and rebound weight gain, too, Angelone adds.
Overall, dietitians say the Cabbage Soup Diet just isn’t a good idea. “Cabbage soup would have been a great start to a small meal, instead of the meal itself,” Angelone says.
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Sources:- Sandra Zhang, RDN, LDN, dietitian at the Frances Stern Nutrition Center at Tufts Medical Center
- Jessica Cording, RD, author of The Little Book of Game-Changers
- Sonya Angelone, RD, PhD, a former spokeswoman for the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics and a San Francisco-based dietitian
- The Seesawing History of Fad Diets. Smithsonian
Entenmann's Brings Back Four Limited-Edition Treats for Fall Season
Sad as it might be to admit, yet another summer season has come and gone, officially concluding the adventure-filled vacation season with the final weeks of August.
But it's not all doom and gloom on the horizon! In fact, with the inevitable end of summer comes the exciting start of fall, bringing with it plenty of new and returning treats consumers wait all year for.
Along with Starbucks' patented Pumpkin Spice Latte or Dunkin's signature Pumpkin Munchkins, most consumers can eagerly await the return of Entenmann's celebrated product lineup, including some of the brand's top-selling fall flavors and snack cakes.
According to a new press release from the company, Entenmann's is once again bringing back their fan-favorite apple cider and pumpkin sweet treats. These include:
- (New) Entenmann's Apple Cider Donut Holes: a bite-sized version of Entenmann's classic Apple Cider Donuts.
- Entenmann's Apple Cider Donuts: a festive twist on an autumn staple, perfect for a crisp autumn day with a strong cup of coffee in hand.
- Entenmann's Pumpkin Donuts: a warm and spice-filled donut modeled after the most popular flavors of the season.
- Entenmann's Pumpkin Donut Holes: a conveniently packaged version of Entemann's first-rate Pumpkin Donuts.
Available from August until November, the four new treats are guaranteed to prove a hit among dedicated fans and casual shoppers alike, appealing to anyone who happens to enjoy the crisp flavors of autumn apple and fall pumpkin.
"We know some of life's best moments happen during the simple traditions families look forward to each fall, whether it's visiting a pumpkin patch, cheering on your favorite team, celebrating Halloween or enjoying a quiet weekend together," said Janice Wisniewski, Brand Manager for Entenmann's. "Our seasonal lineup is designed to help families slow down, embrace the cozy spirit of autumn and make everyday moments a little sweeter with flavors they know and love."
Legendary ‘80s Rock Band Slammed Over New Concert Intro Video
One of the most talked-about part of Mötley Crüe's latest concert happened before the band even takes the stage—and not for good reason.
A video from the band's 2026 North American tour has gone viral after concertgoers noticed what many believe is an AI-generated introduction played before the hit ‘80s group took the stage. The eerie clip features a sinister clown welcoming fans to the band's long-running "Carnival of Sins" theme.
"Welcome, welcome, welcome to the carnival of sins," the clown says before gesturing toward a glowing sign with the same words. The monologue continues with, "Now before we begin I should warn you, this is not your grandmother's carnival. Oh no, there are no cotton candies here to make it sweet. No stuffed carnival tigers to comfort your fragile little hearts. The only prizes you'll win tonight are nightmares."
As the camera zooms in on the clown's face, it adds one final tease: "You see behind these curtains, we've assembled the finest collection of human oddities.”
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♬ original sound - AnnaMany viewers were convinced the sequence was created using artificial intelligence, pointing to its glossy visuals that resembled other AI-generated videos circulating online.
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“I’d be so pissed if I spent money on a concert just for them to play AI slop on the big screen,” one person on TikTok wrote.
“Its an expectation of quality, you pay a premium to expect effort and creative output from these people, and in return they show you they cant even be bother to have a proper intro video made,” said another.
A third commented, “I don’t know how AI has such a grip on older generations!!! Like how is there such a divide in taste?”
A fourth noted, “I’m not the biggest fan of this band but just imagine how much more engaging this intro would go if they got a real actor.”
The concert intro is part of Mötley Crüe's 2026 North American tour, which kicked off in July to celebrate both the 20th anniversary of the band's original Carnival of Sins tour and its 45th anniversary. The 33-date tour will wrap September 26 in Ridgefield, Washington.
At this time, the band has not confirmed the use of AI in their tour and has not responded to Parade’s request for comment.
Laura Prepon Shares Heartbreaking News About Her Brother: ‘It Was a Devastating Shock’
Laura Prepon, known for roles on That 70's Show and Orange Isthe New Black, just announced the shocking death of her brother, Brad.
Prepon, 46, skyrocketed to fame in the role of redhead Donna on the hit sitcomThat '70s Show, which ran from 1998 to 2006. But it was her role as Alex Vause, the raven-haired beauty who once worked for a drug cartel, on Orange that found her considerable success in recent years.
Tragically, Prepon took to social media on Wednesday to announce the unexpected passing of her brother, Brad, from an undiagnosed heart condition. With a series of touching photos of Brad and herself throughout the years, Prepon shared that the family had laid Brad to rest this past weekend.
"This past weekend, we laid my brother to rest. He passed away suddenly from an unknown heart condition—it was a devastating shock. For those of you who knew Brad, I’m so happy he touched your lives. For those who didn’t, we lost a singular, beautiful, inimitable force. I will miss my brother every day, and carry him in my heart always," Prepon captioned the photo series. "If you feel something may be off, please listen to your instinct and get it checked out. Hug the ones you love.❤️"
View this post on Instagram Prepon Accused Ex Ben Foster of 'Habitual Drunkenness'Prepon has navigated some personal troubles in recent years. After splitting from husband Ben Foster in 2024, Prepon accused the actor of “habitual drunkenness,”In Touch Weekly reported. She also claimed that Foster “has been guilty of such cruel and inhuman treatment.” He claimed that "further cohabitation [with Prepon] is unsafe and improper.”
The former couple has two children together.
Prepon Struggled With BulimiaIn her memoir, You and I, As Mothers, Prepon revealed that her mother had taught her to be bulimic. While she is now recovered, the wounds of her childhood stayed with her.
"I had so many people reaching out to me, telling me about their own issues and struggles with food and their relationships with their parents," she told PEOPLE. "Many people have thanked me for opening up about my relationship with my mother. Both the positive and the negative, because a lot of times we glaze over stuff because it's hard or makes us feel vulnerable. If there's someone out there who's silently struggling with dysfunctional eating or struggling with their parents, and if I helped a single person, I'd be happy."
TikTok Reported Perez Hilton's Alarming Livestream To Authorities & Banned His Account
TikTok immediately reacted to Perez Hilton's livestream, where the celebrity gossip blogger appeared to be harming himself. The social media platform alerted law enforcement and permanently banned his account, TMZ reports.
"Our automated moderation systems flagged the live stream within minutes and routed it to our U.S. moderation team for review. However, a moderator error caused a delay in the removal," A TikTok spokesperson told the outlet. "We proactively alerted law enforcement to the situation to help get the individual support."
TikTok is also saying that it was "factually wrong" that Hilton remained live for around 30 minutes. Instead, they say the stream lasted "about half that time."
Hilton was transported to the hospital after he suffered multiple lacerations and is undergoing a psychiatric evaluation at the hospital. The 911 audio was obtained by Page Six, in which they received a call about a “suicide attempt” around 10:41 p.m. local time and “gave a detailed description of Hilton’s self-harm attempts.”
“The individual has been safely recovered and transported by Miami-Dade Fire Rescue to a local hospital, where he is receiving medical attention,” the Miami-Dade County Sheriff’s Office told the outlet. “The Miami-Dade Sheriff’s Office Crisis Response Unit and Licensed Mental Health Professionals are also on scene providing support and resources to the individual’s family.”
Pere Hilton's Team & Family Release StatementA statement by Hilton's team and family was released on the blogger's website.
"Many of you have reached out with concern for Perez, and we are incredibly grateful for the overwhelming outpouring of love, support, and prayers.
"We can confirm that Perez is receiving medical care, and our family’s focus right now is on his well-being.
"We kindly ask that you respect Perez’s privacy, as well as the privacy of his family, during this difficult time.
"If and when we are able to share any updates, we will do so with everyone as soon as we can.
"Thank you for your compassion, understanding, and continued support."
If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available. Call or text 988 or chat 988lifeline.org.
The Pumpkin Carving Idea You Should Try, Based on Your Zodiac Sign
If your zodiac sign could inspire the perfect Halloween pumpkin carving idea, what would it look like? While some people reach for the classic jack-o'-lantern year after year, others are drawn to whimsical cottage pumpkin carving ideas, mystical ravens or bold fantasy creatures that capture their personality.
“A pumpkin carving can become a playful expression of zodiac symbolism, with each sign naturally responding to different shapes, themes and moods,” explains Cathryn Mohua, a professional astrologer and the founder of SoulPurposeAstro. “A sign’s element and planetary ruler can point toward the imagery that best captures its personality—from bold mythical creatures for expressive fire signs to intricate natural or dreamlike designs for earth and water signs. The result is a Halloween pumpkin that feels personal rather than purely decorative.”
Whether you actually plan to carve one of these intricate designs or simply want a little Halloween inspiration, here's the pumpkin carving idea that’s written in the stars for you, according to a professional astrologer.
Meet Your Expert AstrologerCathryn Mohua is a professional astrologer and the founder of SoulPurposeAstro, where she creates in-depth, personalized astrology readings focused on self-understanding, relationships, life direction and relocation. Through her work, she helps clients translate complex astrological patterns into clear, meaningful and practical insights.
Aries (March 21–April 19): Dragon Pumpkin Carving IdeaVecteezy
Bold, fearless and impossible to ignore, Aries deserves a pumpkin that's just as powerful. A dragon captures this fire sign's adventurous spirit and fearless approach to life, making it a natural match for someone who loves to stand out.
With sweeping wings, dramatic scales and curling flames, this design feels daring and energetic—exactly the kind of statement an Aries would want greeting trick-or-treaters at the front door.
Taurus (April 20–May 20): Cozy Cottage Pumpkin Carving IdeaVecteezy
Nothing says Taurus quite like a charming little cottage glowing with warmth. This earth sign craves comfort, beauty and all the simple pleasures of the season, making a storybook home the perfect pumpkin design.
Tiny windows, a winding chimney and a welcoming front door create a pumpkin that feels peaceful, inviting and effortlessly cozy—just like Taurus themselves.
Gemini (May 21–June 20): Carnival Tent Pumpkin Carving IdeaVecteezy
Curious, playful and always up for something unexpected, Gemini is perfectly represented by a whimsical carnival tent. It hints at fun, mystery and endless surprises waiting inside.
This imaginative design reflects Gemini's lively personality and love of keeping people guessing, making it one of the most entertaining pumpkins of the bunch.
Cancer (June 21–July 22): Ocean Waves Pumpkin Carving IdeaVecteezy
Cancer is deeply connected to water, making rolling ocean waves a beautiful symbol of this intuitive and emotional sign. The flowing curves create a peaceful, calming design that feels timeless.
Rather than something loud or dramatic, this pumpkin embraces quiet beauty—perfect for a sign that's happiest creating a warm, comforting atmosphere.
Leo (July 23–Aug. 22): Phoenix Pumpkin Carving IdeaVecteezy
Confident and magnetic, Leo deserves a pumpkin that radiates drama. A soaring phoenix represents courage, resilience and an unforgettable presence, all qualities this fire sign naturally embodies.
The sweeping feathers and rising flames create a striking design that's impossible to overlook—just the way Leo likes it.
Virgo (Aug. 23–Sept. 22): Mushrooms Pumpkin Carving IdeaVecteezy
Virgo appreciates nature's quiet beauty, and a collection of woodland mushrooms perfectly captures that thoughtful, grounded personality. Delicate yet detailed, they're both elegant and seasonal.
This design feels artistic without being flashy, celebrating the little details that Virgos are famous for noticing.
Libra (Sept. 23–Oct. 22): Masquerade Mask Pumpkin Carving IdeaVecteezy
Ruled by beauty and balance, Libra naturally gravitates toward elegant Halloween traditions. A masquerade mask combines sophistication with just the right amount of mystery.
With graceful curves and decorative flourishes, it's a pumpkin that feels refined, romantic and effortlessly stylish.
Scorpio (Oct. 23–Nov. 21): Raven Pumpkin Carving IdeaVecteezy
Dark, mysterious and undeniably captivating, the raven is a perfect match for Scorpio's intense personality. Long associated with folklore and Halloween, it brings an air of intrigue without relying on predictable spooky imagery.
Perched against a moonlit sky or standing alone, this design feels haunting in the most beautiful way.
Sagittarius (Nov. 22–Dec. 21): Hot Air Balloon Pumpkin Carving IdeaVecteezy
Always dreaming about the next adventure, Sagittarius is best represented by a hot air balloon drifting toward the horizon. It symbolizes freedom, optimism and a love of exploring new places.
This playful design brings a sense of movement and possibility that's perfectly aligned with the zodiac's biggest traveler.
Capricorn (Dec. 22–Jan. 19): Clock Tower Pumpkin Carving IdeaVecteezy
Classic and timeless, a clock tower reflects Capricorn's appreciation for history, tradition and enduring craftsmanship. It's a sophisticated design that never feels trendy.
The architectural details give this pumpkin a stately appearance, making it a fitting choice for one of the zodiac's most disciplined signs.
“A clock tower is an especially meaningful choice for Capricorn because this sign is ruled by Saturn, the planet traditionally associated with time, structure and longevity,” Cathryn says. “Its architectural detail also reflects Capricorn’s respect for craftsmanship and preference for designs that feel substantial, classic and built to endure.”
Aquarius (Jan. 20–Feb. 18): Celestial Pumpkin Carving IdeaVecteezy
Innovative and always looking toward the future, Aquarius is naturally drawn to the cosmos. A pumpkin filled with stars, planets and swirling constellations reflects this visionary sign's imaginative outlook.
It's creative, unexpected and just a little unconventional—exactly the qualities Aquarius embraces.
Pisces (Feb. 19–March 20): Jellyfish Pumpkin Carving IdeaVecteezy
Dreamy and artistic, Pisces is perfectly represented by a graceful jellyfish drifting through the sea. Its flowing shape creates a soft, magical design that feels almost otherworldly.
Beautiful without trying too hard, this pumpkin captures Pisces' creative spirit and gentle nature, making it a fitting finale for the zodiac.
“Pisces is a mutable water sign ruled by Neptune, so it is naturally connected with fluid movement, imagination and imagery that feels slightly otherworldly,” explains Cathryn. “A glowing jellyfish captures that ethereal quality beautifully, while its soft, trailing form reflects Pisces’ artistic and emotionally receptive nature.”
Dr Pepper's First-Ever New Release Offers One-of-a-Kind Taste
A brand-new take on Dr Pepper's classic 23-flavor soda beverage was just released, and it's creamy, rich, decadent, and perfect for those looking to indulge in the taste of the drink in dessert form.
The new drop comes in the form of a shake, blended with something unexpected for a tasty twist: chocolate cake. And the first-ever Dr Pepper and cake mash-up is only found at one place: Portillo's Hot Dogs. "If you love @drpepper, you have to try our new Dr Pepper Shake," the eatery announced via social media on Tuesday, Aug. 4.
The Instagram post's caption continued, giving fans a glimpse into the taste: "Rich, sweet, and creamy Vanilla Shake blended with all 23 signature Dr Pepper flavors, for a one-of-a-kind taste in every sip. And if you're a chocolate cake person, you gotta try it as a Cake Shake." The release is available for a limited time only, while supplies last.
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View this post on InstagramFans flew into the comments section with reactions to the delicious-looking frozen treat.
"I neeeeeeed this!" popular food blogger Snackolator exclaimed.
Another wrote, "[jumps in car and drives quickly to the nearest Tillos]," while a third admitted, "Lowkey freaking out because our fridge looks JUST like that and we LOVE chocolate cake 😥."
More excited people dropped notes like, "Sooo good!!!!" "I gasped 😮," "Omg, 2 of my favorite things in one. I NEED," "OMG WHATTT," and "even better🤤."
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Meanwhile, others lamented over the lack of proximity to the fast food joint.
"HOW CAN YOU DROP THIS AND NOT BE IN SAN DIEGO 😢😢😢😢," someone mourned, as another wondered, "So should I book a flight to Chicago just for this?"
Portillo's is a popular restaurant chain primarily known for its Chicago-style hot dogs, Italian beef sandwiches, and chocolate cake. Originally based in Illinois, it now operates in over 70 locations nationwide. In addition to the Chicago area, locations can be found in Arizona, California, Florida, Indiana, Michigan, Minnesota, Texas, and Wisconsin, with expansion into more locations planned throughout the year.
Those looking to find their nearest Portillo's can search its online restaurant locator.
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Phil Collins Discusses Darkest Darks of Life-Threatening Alcoholism: 'People Were Coming to Say Goodbye'
Phil Collins is opening up about his recent health struggles at 75, including the most harrowing battles of his battle with alcoholism earlier in the decade.
Speaking with theSunday Times, Collins revealed that his excessive drinking initially began after he ceased taking Antabuse, a prescription medication used to treat chronic alcohol use. Previously, Collins began taking the anti-alcoholism drug during a prior period of alcoholism in his life.
After stepping away from the drug, Collins started regularly abusing alcohol, forcing him into the hospital for extensive alcohol intake in November 2023. His time in the hospital wound up lasting seven months.
“There were some decisions to be made about ‘Do we keep Phil on life support?’ kind of thing,” the pop singer said. “My kidneys were packing up, my organs were just seizing up. People were coming to say goodbye. But I don’t remember them coming, I didn’t have no idea this was going on. They were all worried that they wouldn’t see me again. It could all have gone so terribly wrong.”
"I was very lucky to have come out of that," Collins admitted. "Needless to say, I haven’t had a drink since.”
Over the years, Collins has regularly spoken about his past struggles with alcohol abuse, including an acrimonious period following his 2006 divorce from his third wife, Orianne Cevey.
“It left me with a lot of time on my hands to think about what happened,” he explained toRolling Stonemagazine. “I went through a few bits of darkness; drinking too much. I killed my hours watching TV and drinking, and it almost killed me. But I haven’t had a drink in three years.”
As most fans likely know, Collins has also faced several major health issues in recent years, such as neck and back problems that eventually resulted in surgery, forcing him to step away from playing the drums.
Molly Ringwald Reveals the 2008 Teen Drama Series that Was the 'Worst' Experience of Her Career
Brat Pack icon Molly Ringwald is opening up about certain on-screen projects in her career that weren't the best, and admits one hit teen drama series took the cake.
The '80s actor appeared on Watch What Happens Live, where she was asked to rank her previous projects as part of a game. As fans know, Ringwald was a teen icon for her popular roles in Pretty in Pink, The Breakfast Club, Sixteen Candles, and would later continue her career in multiple films and TV series.
During the show, she was quick to place the 2008 ABC teen drama, The Secret Life of the American Teenager, at the top of the list as the worst. After double-checking with host Andy Cohen that the No. 1 spot goes to the least favorite, she commented, "Okay, that was it. The worst.”
Her reveal of the series having been one of the most disliked of her career drew some surprise reactions from Cohen and fans. The ABC series aired in 2008 and ran for five seasons until 2013. Shailene Woodley starred in the leading role as Amy Juergens, a teenage girl who became pregnant while in high school. She tries to juggle family, friends, and the reality of becoming a teen mom.
The series was a hot topic of conversation at the time for its storyline themes of teenage sexuality, overall education on sex, young pregnancy, and relationships. It drew criticism and praise for trying to educate its audiences, but also for its storyline of morality and abstinence.
Ringwald starred in the series as Wood's on-screen mother, Anne Juergens. She played the role for four seasons before becoming a guest star in its fifth installment. For the actor, her dislike of the series was due to one cast member.
“It was a hard, I mean… Okay, I love the cast. I love Shailene [Woodley],” the actress said, referencing the show’s lead. “There was one person that was really difficult. And I’m not gonna say who that one person is [but] they brought it down to a one," she explained.
She makes it a point not to name the person she's referencing, with this being the first time she's admitted to having had issues with someone on the show. There were rumors at the time that the actor had concerns about the show's writing and how certain teen issues were handled.
Ringwald has spoken fondly of her former castmates, with Woodly having once told Vanity Fair that her on-screen mother was "protective" and "like, beautiful older sister, motherly figure to me, who was really protective of honoring, like, my authenticity as a young person and who I was and just being, like, a kiddo playing a kiddo."
Psychology Says People Who Didn't Hear 'I Love You' as Kids May 'Perpetually Struggle' With This 1 Thing
"I love you." It's ten characters, eight letters and three words. It doesn't look like much, yet it can immeasurably affect people of any age, especially children.
"'I love you' helps children feel secure and valued," Dr. Dakari Quimby, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist for HelpGuide Handbook, tells Parade. "It helps create a secure attachment style that later serves as a model for future relationships. It builds their self-confidence and resilience. When kids know they are loved unconditionally, they're more equipped to tackle challenges and build positive relationships."
Therefore, it should be no surprise that growing up without hearing these words impacts children and their self-esteem as well.
Psychologists say that people who don't hear "I love you" in childhood often develop certain traits in adulthood. There's even one thing these individuals likely "perpetually struggle" with doing. Here's what to keep in mind, along with expert-backed tips for healing.
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Why You May Not Have Heard 'I Love You' in ChildhoodUnderstanding "why" can help you heal (and we'll discuss more tips later). Every situation is different, but cultural norms and generational cycles are common reasons parents and other caregivers may neglect to tell children, "I love you."
"Some cultures or families don't express emotions openly," Dr. Quimby explains. "If you aren't used to it, saying 'I love you' can feel awkward. Personal experiences can also play a part. If you didn’t hear 'I love you' often as a child, you might not be used to expressing your feelings this way."
Dr. Quimby adds that saying "I love you" can make people vulnerable, exposing them to potential heartbreak.
"[It] can be daunting, especially if they've been hurt before," he shares.
Ironically, the stakes of vulnerability can feel even higher when you love someone so much, as is often the case in a parent-child relationship.
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"As a parent myself, there are times when I can feel an overwhelming love for my children, and that can be almost disorienting," says Dr. Gayle MacBride, Ph.D., LP, a psychologist with Veritas Psychology Partners. "There is this phenomenon, when you're a parent, that immediately following a moment of vulnerability like this, you're also acutely aware that you shouldn't take these little ones in your life for granted. That feeling can be quite scary."
People prone to anxiety or other mental health issues may be particularly inclined to back away and withhold sharing their feelings, Dr. MacBride explains. However, she encourages parents to do the opposite.
"I recommend leaning in and shifting your attention to the gratitude for that child and the moment," she suggests. "Embrace that moment and share the love you feel. Tell them."
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Lacking boundaries is one issue that can manifest due to not hearing "I love you" in childhood.
"If someone doesn’t believe they are inherently worthy of love due to not having heard it as a child, they may perpetually struggle to set healthy boundaries," Dr. Brittany McGeehan, Ph.D., a licensed psychologist, tells Parade. "They may over-commit because they believe they need to do whatever is requested of them to be lovable."
Dr. McGeehan says overcommitting can also lead to flakiness because, eventually, people decide to do what they want and say "no" at the last minute.
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12 More Traits of People Who Didn't Hear 'I Love You' in Childhood, Psychologists Say1. Low self-esteemHearing "I love you" in early childhood lays a foundation for self-worth. Not hearing it can prompt people to compare.
"Children often understand that others around them are being told they are loved and can be left wondering, 'Why am I not loved? What’s wrong with me? I must be the problem,'" Dr. MacBride says.
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People can become insecure about themselves and within relationships with others because they don't feel valued, says Dr. Brandy Smith, Ph.D., a licensed psychologist with Thriveworks.
"This may manifest as seeking validation from others by asking questions related to their sense of worth and importance to that person," she explains. "While all of us benefit from reassurance, the level of insecurity can manifest in seemingly incessant questions for validation and the sense from the person giving the reassurance that nothing will ever be enough to help the person feel secure."
When a person doesn't feel lovable as a child, it's common to try to prove their worth as an adult by engaging in people-pleasing behaviors.
"The idea is that 'If I can be pleasing enough, then I will get the love I’ve wanted,'" Dr. Smith explains. "This concept connects to the internal locus of control in that sometimes it is easier for us to view that we have control over making something happen rather than the reality, which is that we cannot fully control anything."
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All that people-pleasing can turn a person into a chameleon. The problem is that they—and others—don't know who they are. Again, insecurity stemming from childhood is a culprit.
"When an emotionally unavailable parent is raising you, you don’t have a secure base from which to explore and understand the world," says Dr. McGeehan. "When that happens, you don’t have the opportunity to explore the world. This is how we construct our self-identity as we grow up."
The seeds of perfectionism can also get planted during a childhood without much love.
"In an attempt to earn affection that was not freely given in childhood, some might strive for perfection in all they do, believing that they need to earn love and approval through achievements," Dr. Quimby says.
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Dr. McGeehan says people who weren't told "I love you" as kids usually have an internalized belief that there's something wrong with them. As a result, they may feel wary of putting themselves out there career-wise or in relationships.
"If we don’t have a sturdy belief that we are loved, we will spend our whole lives being afraid that someone won’t like us, otherwise known as fear of rejection," she explains.
Parental love feels fragile when a person rarely receives it, and those sentiments can grow bigger in adulthood.
"A child may believe that if they don’t behave in a certain way, their caregiver will no longer be there for them," Dr. McGeehan says about this fear of abandonment. "This translates in adulthood to someone who is overly apologetic, doesn’t always share how they feel honestly, doesn’t hold boundaries and can appear flaky because they are over committing."
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Dr. MacBride says kids learn to self-regulate in loving and secure relationships.
"If you didn't have a safe practice ground for this when you were young, it might be very difficult to accomplish this as an adult," she explains.
These people may have shorter fuses and have more outbursts.
It's also common to emotionally detach. Frankly, it's understandable.
"When an emotionally unavailable parent is raising you, you typically don’t learn how to have a functional relationship with your emotions," Dr. McGeehan explains. "Additionally, because your parents weren't able to be vulnerable with you, it is incredibly challenging to learn to be vulnerable yourself. This shows up as quickly moving from relationship to relationship, difficulty keeping friendships."
Dr. McGeehan says it can lead to isolation in more severe cases.
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Our relationships with adult caregivers in childhood are the first ones we have. If they're poor, we may sour on whether it's possible to form genuine affection with others.
"Those who are not told they are loved may find it difficult to trust or believe others when they express their love for them," Dr. MacBride says. "They may even see expressing love as a sign of weakness or disingenuousness."
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11. Difficulty assessing healthy relationshipsWhile people who don't hear "I love you" may form detached adult relationships, others may rush into and cling to them—even if they're toxic. Dr. Smith says that "I love you" is a part of normal, healthy child-caregiver relationships. People who don't hear those words lack that core, foundational experience.
"We tend to replay dynamics throughout our lives unless something motivates us to change," she explains. "Without a motivation to seek something different, this may mean expecting and accepting relationships that are not entirely healthy in regard to emotional expression, interpersonal depth and secure attachments."
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12. Anxiety and depressionPeople who grew up feeling unloved are more prone to mental health challenges as adults.
"Mental health is impacted when one views that they were...not 'enough' in some way," Dr. Smith says. "It can involve dejected feelings along with wondering if others 'truly' care, which translates into low mood—depression—and anxiousness about what may happen within relationships—anxiety."
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These expert-backed insights can help you move forward.
1. Understand it's not your faultYou may have spent a lifetime in your head repeating a narrative that you're the problem. However, you're not the anti-hero in this story.
"Know that it was not about you but about the adult who struggled to say those words," Dr. Smith says. "This is not about blame. Rather, it is about attributing responsibility where it belongs."
A cliché but true: You have to love yourself first.
"While I’m not sure she coined the phrase, Sonya Renee Taylor popularized the term 'radical self-love' in her book The Body is Not an Apology," Dr. MacBride says. "It's this idea that you love yourself unconditionally."
While you may have craved this love from parents and caregivers, Dr. MacBride shares that learning to give it to yourself lets you build a foundation and heal. This process often includes challenging negative beliefs and replacing them with compassionate, accurate ones.
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3. Explore your self-identityDr. McGeehan says this one is significant in her work with her clients.
"My clients...usually come in having compensated for a lack of hearing 'I love you' as having become hyper-successful, but underneath the coping skill, they don’t really know who they are," she explains.
Unpacking the layers of you can help you lean into your true interests and values so you ditch the people-pleasing, develop healthy boundaries, learn to say no the first time and show up as your authentic self for the people and events you actually want in your life.
Along your journey of healing from childhood, you'll start to genuinely experience the love you didn't get as a kid, Dr. McGeehan says. This process takes time but is worth it.
"Having supportive relationships around you who understand what you’re going through is critical to this process," she explains. "They will be able to validate your experience, be present as you practice getting vulnerable and support you as you explore new facets of your identity that you gain along this process."
Your childhood may have felt lonely. Healing doesn't have to—in fact, it's often useful to embark on your journey with the support of a therapist.
"Going to therapy can provide a safe space to explore unresolved emotions and learn healthy ways to express and receive love," Dr. Quimby shares. "Cognitive-behavioral therapy and other types can help restructure negative beliefs about oneself and relationships."
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Sources:- Dr. Dakari Quimby, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist for HelpGuide Handbook
- Dr. Gayle MacBride, Ph.D., LP, a psychologist with Veritas Psychology Partners
- Dr. Brandy Smith, Ph.D., a licensed psychologist with Thriveworks
- Dr. Brittany McGeehan, Ph.D., a licensed psychologist
Breaking: Perez Hilton's Family Breaks Silence After His Hospitalization
Perez Hilton's family and his team have released a joint statement after he was taken to a hospital in the Miami area on Tuesday night.
"Many of you have reached out with concern for Perez, and we are incredibly grateful for the overwhelming outpouring of love, support, and prayers," the statement, posted on Hilton's website, began. "We can confirm that Perez is receiving medical care, and our family’s focus right now is on his well-being."
"We kindly ask that you respect Perez’s privacy, as well as the privacy of his family, during this difficult time. If and when we are able to share any updates, we will do so with everyone as soon as we can. Thank you for your compassion, understanding, and continued support," the statement continued.
Trigger warning: Self-harm
Hilton was taken to the hospital by ambulance on Aug. 4 after he appeared to be engaging in self-harm during a livestream on TikTok. Users watched as the blogger appeared to cut himself while others watched in horror.
“The individual has been safely recovered and transported by Miami-Dade Fire Rescue to a local hospital, where he is receiving medical attention,” a statement from the Miami-Dade County Sheriff’s Office read, according to Page Six.
Authorities confirmed that Hilton was home alone at the time of the livestream. Dozens of calls were made to alert emergency services of what was going on.
Sources told TMZ that Hilton was struggling after moving to Miami from Las Vegas, which he reportedly did for his mother, Teresita.
TikTok has removed the footage and appears to have suspended Hilton's account.
If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health issues, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255) or text the Crisis Text Line at 741741.
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1968 Rock Song, Written by a 19-Year-Old, Is Still a Powerful Hit 58 Years Later
Sometimes it takes decades for a song to grow into a classic.
That has certainly been the story of Fairport Convention's "Meet on the Ledge." Written by Richard Thompson when he was just 19 years old, the 1968 recording has evolved from a little-known album track into one of the most beloved songs in British folk rock history.
The song appeared on Fairport Convention's second album, What We Did on Our Holidays, released in late 1968.
"In terms of style, Fairport Convention was all over the place," Thompson told Louderof the band's early days. "We were young and experimenting, seeing if we could keep time, trying to figure out if we could write songs. We could, but most were collaborations because we didn't have the nerve to say: 'I wrote that.'"
Eventually, Thompson worked up the nerve. He was still only 19 when he contributed to the landmark record, an extraordinary achievement considering the maturity of his songwriting. "Meet on the Ledge" showcased that talent early, pairing poetic lyrics with an uplifting melody that would resonate with listeners for generations.
Its meaning has long inspired discussion.
Although Thompson has often resisted assigning a single interpretation to the lyrics, many listeners have embraced the song as one of hope, reunion, and enduring friendship. The mysterious "ledge" has been interpreted in countless ways over the decades, allowing each generation to find its own meaning in the song's evocative words.
"I always believed in an afterlife," Thompson said in an interview. "Even at the age I wrote that I had that belief and that is reflected in the song in a subtle way. It can be taken in many ways, as fans continually remind me!"
While it wasn't a chart hit upon release, its reputation steadily grew.
Fairport Convention continued performing "Meet on the Ledge" throughout its career, and it eventually became the band's unofficial anthem. The song has traditionally closed many of the group's concerts, with audiences singing along to every word, while its importance has also been celebrated at the long-running Fairport Convention Cropredy Festival.
The song has also been embraced by fellow musicians.
Over the years, "Meet on the Ledge" has been covered by numerous artists and frequently cited as one of Richard Thompson's greatest songwriting achievements. Its influence has extended well beyond the folk-rock scene, helping establish Thompson as one of Britain's most respected and enduring songwriters.
"I wrote it when I was 19," Thompson told Relix. "It's always interesting, as a singer/songwriter, to revisit your own work from any era. In some cases, you are playing it when you are 60, so you have to forgive yourself for being naïve, stupid or immature – for not crafting the song as well as you might today."
Nearly 60 years after its release, "Meet on the Ledge" remains a cornerstone of Fairport Convention’s legacy. What Richard Thompson created as a 19 year-old songwriter has become a powerful and deeply personal classic, proving that some songs don't need chart success to leave an everlasting mark on music history.
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Garth Brooks Left Devastated by Career Blow Compared to 'Death in the Family'
Garth Brooks has experienced some of the biggest highs in country music—but one unexpected setback nearly took the wind out of his comeback.
After stepping away from the spotlight for more than a decade, Brooks was ready to return to the stage in a major way. But when his highly anticipated comeback plans suddenly fell apart, the moment hit the country music icon harder than fans may have realized.
Brooks reflected on the difficult time and his comments were featured in a blog post on his website.
The country music superstar was slated to launch his comeback with five sold-out shows in Dublin, Ireland. However, the licenses for all five shows were denied, which forced Brooks to cancel.
His wife, Trisha Yearwood, later revealed just how painful the disappointment was, comparing the experience to "a death in the family" and explaining how one city ultimately helped bring Brooks and his team back from the heartbreak.
Brooks returned to the U.S. and prepared to take the stage again, this time in Chicago.
"That was when the life came back into our house," Yearwood said. "Call me dramatic, Chicago saved Garth and that tour."
Now, Brooks is preparing to visit Chicago on his tour and will return to the Windy City in September.
"I owe that city; we all do on this team," Brooks said. "I can't wait to get there to show the people of Chicago our gratitude and how much we love them."
Brooks announced his "Blame It All On My Roots" Tour earlier this year. His first show will be in Indianapolis on August 21. He hasn't shared all of the upcoming dates just yet, but fans are keeping their eyes on his social media accounts, hoping that he makes a stop in their city.
For Brooks, the upcoming Chicago tour stop will be more than another performance—it will be a return to the city he credits with helping revive his career.
1973 Power-Pop Ballad, Lasting 16 Weeks on the Charts, Is Still a Hit Love Song 53 Years Later
Eric Carmen was only in his early 20s when he penned "Let's Pretend" with the Raspberries, creating a dreamy ballad whose soaring vocals helped make it a beloved fan-favorite love song.
The rock band made their debut in 1972 with their sexually charged hit "Go All the Way," and for their second LP, Fresh, Carmen ramped up the romance. "Let's Pretend" was reportedly inspired by a magazine cover that Carmen stumbled upon one day. He had seen the cover of a Time magazine that had a photo of "a guy and girl dripping wet out in the woods."
Carmen remembers that the headline at the time had something to do with "Teenage Sex," and it soon spawned the idea for the 1973 track. As a result, the lyrics were about young people who are in love and dream of eloping that mimicked The Beach Boys' track "Wouldn't It Be Nice" from 1966.
"The cover was a shot of two teenagers, a guy and a girl—it looked like they just had sex. The article was about teen sexuality. That picture was so potent in terms of what it said that I put it on the music stand of my piano," explained Carmen in a 2002 interview.
"I was listening to the PET SOUNDS album at the time. And I said, this picture is what I'm going to look at because this is exactly what I want to be writing about for this album. It was the same kind of stuff that 'Wouldn't It Be Nice' was about. I was trying to re-create that picture in a musical sense. Strange but true."
The track ended up being a hit among critics and had moderate success on the charts. It landed at No. 35 on the Billboard Hot 100 for 16 weeks and No. 18 on Cash Box. Critics praised Carmen's swooning vocals on what was considered one of the Raspberries' greatest tracks, and it showcased a "sweet" side of the musician. Many even commented on the track's lustful quality that made it a standout love song.
"Let's Pretend" would leave a lasting impact on Carmen, who said, "I thought 'Let's Pretend' was one of the best melodies I'd ever written. That's why I went back and used it for the chorus of 'All By Myself'—the first few notes."
In 1975, Carmen left the band and went solo, and released his debut album with "All By Myself" as the first single. The track would become a signature hit for him as it landed at No. 2 on the Billboard Hot 100. Years later, in 1996, it was reimagined and gained newfound popularity when it was covered by Celine Dion.
The Raspberries track would become a staple, having later been covered by Bay City Rollers in 1976. Hollywood actor Joey Travolta would also release his own cover in 1978.
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Amazon's 'Flowy' $20 Cotton-Linen Shirt Is 'Great for Summer' and Comes in 20 Colors
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