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In 1979, JD Souther turned heads with a song that sounded so much like Roy Orbison that some listeners could have mistaken the voice for the rock-and-roll legend.

Throughout the '70s, Souther was best known as an acclaimed songwriter. He penned Linda Ronstadt's "Faithless Love" and the Eagles' "The Best of My Love," "Heartache Tonight," and "New Kid in Town."

However, while he had released two LP's prior, Souther didn't crack the Billboard charts on his own until the release of his third solo album, You're Only Lonely. Its namesake song reached No. 7 on the Billboard Hot 100 in 1979.

Souther told Songwriter Universe that he wrote "You're Only Lonely" around 1973 while staying in “a little cabin I rented from Stephen Stills.” He added, “I was snowed in, and I just wrote it about somebody.”

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However, the song's undeniable influence came from Orbison, and it shows.

Songfacts reprinted quotes from Souther which explained, "I was a little kid when I first heard Roy Orbison, but he was magic. He's the guy that you turned out the lights and listened to his records by yourself - or with a girl - because he was just completely other-worldly."

He added, "The beat that I used for 'You're Only Lonely' is that rockabilly beat. That sort of break in it was taken from another Roy Orbison record called 'I'm Hurtin' that I really love."

Souther downplayed the success of the song, saying in an undated interview with the Decades TV Network, "I think it's great. It's simple and short. It doesn't have a bridge and really doesn't have a chorus or a third verse."

"All I can say is I thought it was a catchy little tune," Souther concluded.

In 2019, Orbison's son, Roy Orbison Jr., shared a clip from "You're Only Lonely" on his Facebook page as one of the songs he believes was directly influenced by his father. He wrote, "You guys know I like to point out songs influenced by Roy Orbison. This one by should be easy. Mix 'Love Hurts' with 'Only the Lonely.'"

JD Souther's influence on the music industry was rewarded with induction into the Songwriters Hall of Fame in 2013. He died in 2024 at 78.

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When you hear the term "midlife," you might associate it with "midlife crisis." After all, that is the term society tends to use when individuals in their 40s or 50s make significant life changes—whether it's investing in a motorcycle or cosmetic procedure, getting a gray divorce, quitting a job or changing careers, or prioritizing solo travel.

This term itself has a rather negative connotation, and it almost seems like an "unavoidable" experience.

However, Margie Lachman, PhD, professor of psychology, director of the Lifespan Lab at Brandeis University and author of Primetime: A New Vision for Midlife, says that's simply not the case.

"A common misconception is that a midlife crisis is inevitable—like puberty or menopause, a rite of passage we all go through," she tells Parade. "But here's the truth: it's not."

Instead, Lachman says self-reflection is what's typical for this stage of life.

"What is normal is standing at the midpoint of your life and asking, 'Is this where I want to be?'" she explains. "That's not a crisis; that's wisdom. You're assessing, recalibrating. And you still have time—decades, probably—to make changes. That's empowering, not a crisis."

Lachman knows this well, as she's studied midlife from a lifespan developmental perspective for 30 years.

"A basic principle of the lifespan view is that there is the possibility for growth and change throughout life," she shares with Parade. "The lifespan approach follows the same people for decades, watching how they change over time. A big revelation is that investments you make in your 40s and 50s—the sleep you prioritize, the friendships you nurture, the activity you incorporate—those aren’t just nice to haves. They’re compound interest for your later years. The dividends are enormous."

Now, in her new book Primetime, Lachman wants to empower readers as they age, acknowledging that some aspects of midlife can feel challenging but there are so many opportunities for realignment and to find freedom, joy and belonging in the mid-to-later years.

Here, she breaks down the science behind that "off" feeling in midlife, and reveals six "resets" that actually help you thrive in the second half of life, based on psychology.

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Why Do Some Individuals Find Midlife Isolating?

It's common for some people to feel isolated and/or overwhelmed in the stage of midlife. After all, there are suddenly different responsibilities that you might find yourself shouldering.

"The heart of midlife is the 40’s and 50’s—yet, midlife isn’t really about the number of candles on your birthday cake. What really defines midlife are the central roles," Lachman tells Parade. "There can be an intense feeling that everyone is counting on you for so much. It’s caring for your kids while also helping your aging parents. You’re literally in the middle, pulled in both directions. That’s the essence of midlife. It’s less about chronological age and more about your unique and often challenging position between generations at home and at work."

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The Science Behind Why Midlife Can Feel So 'Off' to Some People

It's one thing to know you're getting older, and another thing to see or feel the process of aging. These observations and sensations can be alienating at times.

"In their 40’s people may start to notice early signs of aging that are tied to physical changes such as graying or thinning hair, need for reading glasses, slower reaction time, and aches and pains that take longer to heal," Lachman explains. "Our culture values looking and feeling young, which supports the multi-billion-dollar anti-aging industry including botox, plastic surgery, hair dye, hair transplants, anti-wrinkle skin products and longevity supplements. Many people think it’s all downhill after 40."

But that's simply not true.

"Such negative aging stereotypes aren’t just annoying—they're dangerous," she continues. "Research shows they can literally affect how long you live."

That's why it's so important to have a mindset shift and embrace a "midlife reset" instead.

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6 'Midlife Resets' That Actually Work, Backed by Psychology

Lachman suggests the following psychology-backed "resets" for people who might feel like they need a fresh start as they embrace and navigate midlife.

1. Choose the positive mindset

"For people in midlife right now, focusing on maintaining health and well-being for oneself and one’s loved ones becomes even more important given how 'out of control' the outside world can feel," Lachman tells Parade. "The good news is that you can choose how you process and respond to the challenges."

That doesn't mean you should embrace "toxic positivity" or "brightsiding," but it does mean choosing to let go of negativity where you can, and looking for ways to reframe obstacles.

"Positive attitudes such as optimism, a sense of control and purpose in life are related to better health and longevity," she continues. "What we make of midlife is largely up to us."

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2. Focus on the gains more than the losses 

"There's a common myth that after 40, it's all decline," Lachman says. "That's not only depressing—it's wrong. Yes, there are losses. But there are also tremendous gains still happening in many areas such as self-confidence, emotion regulation and problem-solving."

Acknowledging those gains is important.

"The key is what you do with what you've got," she continues. "'Use it or lose it' isn't just a catchy phrase; it's physiological reality. Your brain, your muscles, your social connections—they all respond to investment. Being gain-framed means asking, 'What can I still build?' instead of 'What am I losing?'"

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3. The midlife review

"In midlife, we have this incredible advantage: we can look back and look forward," Lachman explains. "You've lived enough to have real wisdom about what matters to you, but you've still got decades ahead. So, a midlife review isn't just reminiscing—it's strategic planning. Where have you been? Where do you want to go? Because wherever you want to go, you still have time to get there."

4. Midlife as half time

"It’s a golden opportunity to evaluate and make decisions for the crucial next half," Lachman says about this midlife perspective. "If things are going well, it’s the time to make sure to keep it that way. If the game is not going well, it’s the time to regroup, work harder or try a different course."

Your actions at this stage make a huge impact on your future.

"Midlife is the hinge point between the first and second half of our lives," she explains. "It is the moment to build a strong foundation for your sixties and beyond. There is no better time to start eating right, exercising and strengthening our social network."

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5. Use the SOC approach

"In midlife, decisions start to take on more weight and there may be conflicting goals," Lachman says. "SOC can help address the complexity of competing demands."

She explains:

• "S is for selection, which is choosing wisely, understanding you can’t do everything.
• O is for optimization, which is how you smooth the way for your goal to be a success by practicing, gaining experience and anticipating different outcomes.
• C is for compensation, which is all about having backup plans, finding alternatives, new opportunities, substitutions and modifications so you can follow through on your decisions and not get derailed."

"Before things spin out of control, SOC can come to the rescue to avoid overwhelm," she shares.

6. Shelve it 

"This is about giving yourself permission to postpone, not abandon," Lachman tells Parade. "Maybe you've always wanted to learn Italian or hike the Appalachian Trail, but right now you're drowning in responsibilities. The 'shelve it' approach says: that's okay. Put it on the back burner. The key is you're not giving up on it forever—you're strategically timing it for when you have the bandwidth to do it."

Surprised? Don't be—it helps to actively give yourself more grace.

"This reduces the psychological burden of 'I should be doing this' and replaces it with 'I will do this, just not now," Lachman explains. "It's incredibly liberating."

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Final Takeaway

"If you’re genuinely unhappy in midlife and you dismiss it as 'just a midlife crisis' you might miss real treatable conditions," Lachman tells Parade. "Maybe it’s depression. Maybe it’s hormonal changes. But if you’ve bought into the myth that you’re supposed to feel terrible at 40 or 50, you won’t seek help. That’s how myths become self-fulfilling prophecies."

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• Margie Lachman, PhD, professor of psychology, director of the Lifespan Lab at Brandeis University and author of Primetime: A New Vision for Midlife

Bill Bixby was one of the most beloved actors and producers of the classic TV era. Known for his roles on My Favorite Martian, The Courtship of Eddie’s Father, Rich Man, Poor Man, and The Incredible Hulk, Bixby was a fixture on television for decades starting in the 1960s. In the early ‘90s, he famously directed the hit sitcomBlossom.

Bixby died in 1993 at age 59 while working on Blossom, leaving behind a rich legacy of work—but without the accolades he deserved.

In a resurfaced Closer Weekly interview, Bixby’s Courtship of Eddie’s Father co-star, Brandon Cruz, said he believed the late actor never received the respect he deserved in Hollywood.

“I think he’s sadly overlooked,” Cruz, now 64, said. “If you think about the talent that he had and what he brought to audiences—if the ultimate goal of Hollywood and television is to reach a vast audience and sell commercials, in his time, no one did it like Bill. He’d go from show to show, and they were all high quality.  It wasn’t crap. It wasn’t crazy. Bill brought a certain class to it, and Bill never did anything that kids couldn’t watch.”

“Bill gave a lot of people their first break,” Cruz continued. “He brought me on to Courtship of Eddie’s Father and I was untrained. I was just a kid. Lou Ferrigno was just a weight lifter and, yeah, a famous one, but he owes his entire career to Bill and The Incredible Hulk.”

Bixby never won an Emmy Award during his three decades as a Hollywood actor and producer.  He was also never honored with a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, despite Cruz’s efforts to raise money for a posthumous nomination submission via a long-running GoFundMe campaign.

Cruz noted, “The money’s there to buy him a star if they chose to do it today, but I don’t have a good feeling about it. And the fact that we’re losing people that remember who Bill was is sad. I get talking about it, and I get all wound up and emotional because it means so much to me that my friend is honored.”

Bixby played widowed father Tom Corbett alongside Cruz on The Courtship of Eddie’s Father from 1969 to 1972. The two formed an off-camera bond.

Speaking with Greasy Kid Stuff magazine, Cruz recalled that his friendship with his TV dad came as his real-life family was crumbling.

“I was raised by wolves. My parents divorced during production on Eddie’s Father,” he shared. “The family on the set really became my family. The first assistant director took me home on the weekends because he had kids, and he gave me as much of a normal life as possible. Bill took me to his house on weekends.”

Of working with Bixby, Cruz added, “Bill Bixby didn't want me to act. He just wanted to be a regular kid.”

Cruz stopped acting at a young age and went on to become a surfer and a punk rock singer. But he looked back fondly on his time as Bixby’s son on The Courtship of Eddie’s Father.

“I think it kind of transcends different eras," he once told NJ.com of the show. "It shows a situation of a widowed father trying to raise a kid. We obviously weren't poor. We lived in this big apartment. We had a maid. I had really hip and fancy clothes all the time. So did Bill.”

“That wasn't real life. It was a TV show,” Cruz continued. “But it gave people who were in similar situations — a single parent, or a child being raised by a single parent — something to watch that kind of took them away from their situation. It took their real-life situation and presented it back to them in a different package. They could relate to it."

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Costco is one of those stores I simply can’t get enough of. Every week, I find myself looking forward to my trip to the wholesale giant, eager to see what new products have arrived on the shelves. As an Executive Member, I get the added perk of accessing the store a little earlier than most shoppers, which gives me a head start on discovering the latest finds before they sell out.

One of my favorite parts of shopping at Costco is the thrill of uncovering new items to try. More often than not, I leave impressed with the products I bring home, which is one of the reasons I keep coming back week after week. This fan-favorite store has built a reputation for offering quality products at competitive prices, making it easy to feel confident about most purchases.

However, every shopper knows there are bound to be occasional misses, especially when shopping for fresh foods from the produce section. Sometimes a product looks like it will be an absolute winner in the store, only to end up being a letdown once you get it home. That feeling can be especially frustrating when your budget is tight and every dollar matters. Nobody wants to spend money on something that doesn’t live up to expectations.

That’s exactly why I wanted to put together this list of Costco produce section hits and misses. My goal is simple: to help fellow shoppers make more informed decisions, avoid costly disappointments and get the most value out of every grocery run.

Read on to see the Costco produce section items worth buying—and the ones to skip that don't live up to the hype.

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Does Costco Have Organic Produce?

Costco carries an extensive selection of organic products and is widely recognized as one of the largest retailers of organic foods in the United States. Its organic offerings span nearly every food department, from fresh produce to frozen foods, giving shoppers plenty of options to stock their kitchens.

Inventory often rotates based on seasonal harvests and local availability, ensuring a fresh and diverse selection year-round.

When shopping in the Costco produce section, you can expect to find organic fruits, vegetables and other pantry staples in bulk quantities.

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7 Best Items To Buy From Costco's Produce Section

These are the best items to shop in the Costco produce section.

1. Organic Brussels Sprouts

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Organic Brussels sprouts remain one of the most versatile vegetables available at Costco. These nutrient-dense veggies are known for their rich supply of fiber, vitamins C and K, and antioxidants that support overall wellness.

Whether roasted until crispy, sautéed with garlic or added to sheet-pan meals, they provide a hearty side dish you'll love. Their fresh flavor and firm texture allow them to hold up well in a variety of recipes. Plus, Costco's larger bag size makes them especially appealing for families and meal preppers looking to stretch their grocery budget.

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2. Wild Wonders Grape Tomato Medley

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The Wild Wonders Grape Tomato Medley brings vibrant color and sweet flavor to your plate. The assortment typically includes a variety of grape tomatoes in different shades of red, yellow, orange and green, adding a fun element to salads, charcuterie boards and fresh snack trays.

These tomatoes offer a balance of sweetness and acidity that enhances any dish without any additional prep beyond washing. Their naturally juicy texture and bright appearance help elevate everyday meals with minimal effort. You'll appreciate the generous package size of this product too because it makes it easy to use throughout the week for lunches, dinners and entertaining.

3. Sunset Organics Biologiques

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Sunset Organics Biologiques products have become a popular choice among shoppers seeking certified organic produce options. Known for quality growing practices and fresh harvests, these vegetables are often selected by consumers who prioritize organic produce and freshness.

Depending on seasonal availability, you may find cucumbers, peppers, tomatoes and other produce options under the Sunset Organics label. The brand's commitment to delivering consistent quality makes it a trusted option in Costco's produce department.

4. Seedless Watermelon

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Seedless watermelon continues to be a warm-weather favorite for Costco shoppers. Its crisp texture, refreshing sweetness and hydrating high water content make it one of the most popular fruits for summer gatherings, cookouts and family meals.

Because it comes without seeds, preparation is simple and convenient, allowing you to quickly slice and serve it for a snack or dessert. Watermelon is naturally hydrating and contains vitamins A and C, making it a refreshing addition to a balanced diet.

5. Pure Crunch Golden Melon

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Pure Crunch Golden Melon offers a unique alternative to traditional melon varieties. Known for its vibrant golden exterior and exceptionally crisp flesh, this fruit delivers a refreshing sweetness that appeals to shoppers looking to try something different.

Its crunchy texture and sweet flavor make it ideal for fruit trays, summer snacking and dessert. Pair it with cheese, or incorporate it into fruit salads for added color and flavor contrast.

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6. Rouge River Farms Corn

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Rouge River Farms Corn is a seasonal favorite that signals the arrival of fresh summer produce. Known for its sweet flavor and tender kernels, this corn is perfect for grilling, boiling, roasting or incorporating into a variety of recipes.

The natural sweetness pairs well with butter, herbs and seasonings, making it a crowd-pleasing summer side dish.

7. Tasty Selections Potatoes

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Tasty Selections Potatoes offer convenience and versatility for busy households. These small potatoes are ideal for roasting, air frying, boiling or mashing, making them a staple ingredient in countless meals.

Available in colorful varieties that may include red, yellow and purple potatoes, they add visual appeal alongside their rich taste and texture. Costco's larger package sizes make them particularly attractive for meal planning and family dinners.

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5 Costco Produce Items You Can Skip

These are the five items in the Costco produce department you may want to skip or buy elsewhere.

1. Mission Products Avocados

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Mission Products Avocados can be one of the most frustrating produce purchases at Costco because consistency is often a problem. I've frequently found that the avocados are either rock hard and take several days to ripen, or they're already overly soft by the time they get home and I can't use them all in time. The bags contain multiple avocados, so even one or two bad fruits can make the purchase feel wasteful.

If you're looking for perfectly ripe avocados, I'd recommend carefully inspecting each bag before purchasing, or shopping at a grocery store for a smaller quantity of avocados that you can handpick yourself.

2. Tanimura & Antle Romaine Lettuce

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Tanimura & Antle Romaine Lettuce may seem like a healthy bulk buy, but in my experience it doesn't maintain its freshness for very long after purchase. The leaves can quickly become mushy, wilted and discolored even when stored properly in the refrigerator. And because Costco packages the lettuce in larger quantities, it can be difficult for smaller households like mine to use it all before spoilage sets in.

Once the outer leaves begin breaking down, the quality of the entire package can decline rapidly. If you don't plan on using romaine lettuce within a few days, this may not be the best produce purchase to buy in bulk, even if it is a good deal.

3. Bybee's Best Onions

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Bybee's Best Onions are another produce item that you may want to skip due to quality concerns. I've found that the large mesh bags often contain onions with bruises, soft spots and damaged skins, which may shorten their shelf life.

Since onions are typically purchased in bulk at Costco, discovering several unusable onions in a bulk bag can significantly reduce the value of the purchase, so you may want to buy onions elsewhere.

4. Naturipe Farms Fresh Strawberries

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Naturipe Farms Fresh Strawberries can be a risky purchase at Costco when freshness isn't at its peak. Because strawberries are highly perishable, even a small amount of moisture inside the container may encourage mold growth and spoilage.

In my experience, I've found berries that are overly soft, bruised or already showing signs of mold shortly after purchasing. Costco sells strawberries in larger containers, so even one bad berry can quickly affect the rest of the package.

While quality can vary depending on season and location, if you do buy berries from Costco, it's important to inspect every container closely and eat them quickly to avoid unnecessary food waste.

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5. Mighty Vine Tomatoes

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Mighty Vine Tomatoes are known for their attractive appearance, but in my experience I've found issues with freshness and quality. Tomatoes can occasionally arrive to stores overly ripe, bruised or showing early signs of mold, particularly when they have been transported or stored for extended periods.

Because tomatoes continue ripening after harvest, even a short delay in consumption can lead to rapid deterioration. Mold on one tomato can also spread quickly to others, making the entire purchase less appealing as a bulk buy.

Before buying, it's worth examining the container carefully for soft spots, excessive moisture or damaged fruit that may spoil quickly.

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Ice cream makers are the newest kitchen appliance craze. I have to say: I wasn't so sure about them—until I tested one myself. There's nothing like the convenience of making your own desserts, so that you know exactly what's in them (and so they cost a little less when the kids want ice cream every night of the week!). Made with convenience in mind, the newest Ninja CREAMi is one of the best ice cream makers out there—this product went TikTok viral for a good reason.

The Ninja Creami Deluxe is different, though. It now offers five extra programs (that's 11 in total), plus it comes with larger, family-sized tubs, which means it truly has never been easier to make your own ice cream, frozen yoghurt, gelato or frappuccinos. Yes, it can make scoopable and drinkable treats, so this machine offers more than just a clever design: it is multifunctional, too. It has earned a spot on my kitchen countertop for summer (I switch my appliances around by the season, you should try it!),

There are two types of ice cream makers on the market. The first requires pre-freezing, so you mix the ingredients, pre-freeze them in a special container, and then the ice cream maker churns them. The second type has a refrigerant inside and can freeze your ingredients, sometimes within an hour. Do be mindful of the differences in electricity usage preparation times between these types of ice cream makers!

The choice mostly comes down to personal preference. Generally, the refrigerant type is much more convenient, though it will struggle to fully freeze ice cream, producing more of a soft-serve style dessert instead. Having tested both, I can say that I prefer the machine that requires preparation, as once you're in the swing of it, it's very convenient—plus, cleanup is minimal.

The Ninja CREAMi Deluxe has a current market price of $249.99, but right now it's on sale for $189.95 at Amazon. In the box are two ice cream containers, both 24oz and dishwasher-safe. There's a reason that this ice cream maker's predecessor is so popular—and here are the reasons I love mine.

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This machine is an ice cream maker that doesn't freeze ice cream; instead, it just churns it. Simply enough, using the ice cream tubs provided, you mix your ingredients (recipe booklet included in the box) and freeze them for 24 hours. Once ready, you place this tub in your machine and set your preferences. It churns the ice cream to its desired frozenness, making it ready to enjoy within minutes.

And it can make more than ice cream—there are several settings for both drinkable and scoopable treats. For drinkable delights, you can select from Creamiccino, Frozen Drink (cocktails), Slushi, Milkshake and Italian Ice. For the scoopable desserts, there's Ice Cream, Lite Ice Cream, Sorbet, Gelato and Frozen Yogurt.

Design-wise, it doesn't come in any fancy colors, just Stone Silver, but it's not gigantic. It'll easily slide underneath a cabinet and measures 16.69" high and 12.01" deep. The machine boasts a countdown timer so that you always know when your sweet treat will be ready. This is a total game-changer when it comes to hosting.

What I Think of the Ninja CREAMi Deluxe

The two recipes I made using this machine were: Vanilla Ice Cream with Chocolate Chips and a Creamiccino. I made them both according to the recipe book and pre-froze the ingredients for at least 24 hours. I did like the fact that neither of these required any cooking. Other ice cream makers give recipes that require you to use your stovetop, which just makes much more mess. This ice cream maker is also impressively fast, as it took only two minutes to churn ice cream! Impressive.

I found the control panel to be fairly intuitive, and I didn't actually have to refer to the manual once. Simply select from Top, Full or Bottom, then spin the dial for your mode and press it for your program to begin. I liked that it displays a countdown timer (in minutes only). You can also use the Re-Spin button for extra churning.

For the ice cream, I used the general ice cream setting, and this took just two minutes. Once it beeped, I added my chocolate chips and then pressed the mix-in button; this program was also two minutes long. The result? A creamy, delicious vanilla ice cream that served three of us; the rest I popped back in the freezer for another day.

For the drinkable Creamiccino, I used the Frappe setting (or the Creamiccino setting on the US model), which took just five minutes. Before churning, you need to add some freshly brewed coffee to the drinkable max fill line of your pot. If you don't, it won't be drinkable and will be more like a slushie. I really enjoyed the taste and texture of this drink, and it was so easy to make that I'll definitely be doing it again.

Cleanup is arguably the best thing about this machine. It's so simple that the only thing you really need to clean after each use is the tubs and the bowl with the handle, which the tubs sit inside to churn. The tubs are dishwasher-safe, and the rest can easily be rinsed by hand.

Note: I tested the UK version of the Ninja CREAMi Deluxe, which features one less programme ('Italian Ice' is missing), and instead of 'Creamiccino', the setting is called 'Frappucino'.

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If you're already planning summer gatherings and need an easy way to brighten up your backyard, Walmart has a practical solution that won't break the bank. The retailer's bestselling Daybetter Solar Light 6-Pack will instantly add some ambient lighting to your patio, garden, or deck, and the top-rated set is on sale right now.  

For a limited time, the popular six-pack is available for just $40, down from $56. You can shop it in both white and warm white hues, and it also comes in smaller two- and four-pack sets at varying prices. 

Daybetter Solar Light 6-Pack, $40 (was $56) at Walmart

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No matter which color you opt for, these solar lights will help illuminate your space for all your outdoor gatherings, creating a warm, cozy atmosphere wherever you place them. They have a simple, sleek design that's versatile enough to use in a variety of spots, including patios, gardens, garages, driveways, stairs, and more. Each light measures 12.5 inches tall, but shoppers noted that the quality is excellent despite the "compact size."

They have three different lighting modes — low, medium, and high — and a built-in sensor that automatically turns on at sunset and off at sunrise, allowing for hassle-free operation. 

With an IP65 waterproof rating, the Daybetter solar lights are built to withstand all types of weather conditions, including snow, heat, and cold. Each spotlight features 64 ultra-bright LED lights, which can illuminate distances up to 10 meters. The set also comes with a wall plug, knob cap, and ground rod, so you can choose how you want to install it; insert it into the ground to brighten up the outdoor landscape or fix it to a wall or fence to use as a wall lamp.

"I like the versatility of the light, as it can be stuck into the ground with the provided spike or mounted to the wall with the bracket, which is integrated onto the light," one shopper wrote.

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These solar lights are a Walmart bestseller for good reason, earning over 800 five-star ratings from shoppers. One reviewer said they're "very bright" and "stay lit all night long," while another said the set "looks so elegant" in their yard. A third buyer highlighted their quality, adding that they're the "perfect upgrade" for gardens and patios.  

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If you have a vacation booked on the "Most Magical Fleet at Sea" this summer, you might want to double-check your packing list. Disney Cruise Line is officially rolling out a major wave of policy updates across its entire fleet, and the new rules are tightening the reins on what you can bring onboard, how you capture your memories, and even how you decorate your cabin.

The biggest policy shift tackles how guests handle libations, and it’s a disappointing update for fans of a poolside toast. Disney Cruise Line is officially cutting its embarkation alcohol allowance in half.

Under the previous policy, adults could bring two bottles of wine or champagne onboard at embarkation; starting this week, that limit has been reduced to just one bottle of wine or one six-pack of beer per passenger, which must be packed strictly in your carry-on luggage.

Furthermore, any alcohol you purchase at your tropical ports of call will now be held by the ship until the end of the voyage. On the bright side, if you do bring your own bottle to dinner, the dining room corkage fee is dropping from $29 down to a more wallet-friendly $20.

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But the restrictions don’t stop at the bar. While selfie sticks and tripods have always been allowed on Disney ships—unlike the company’s theme parks—the line is implementing strict new size limits on photography gear. Moving forward, extension poles, selfie sticks and tripods must remain folded and under 18 inches while in public areas onboard. Anything longer than 18 inches is now restricted to your stateroom and can only be used ashore at ports of call.

Finally, the line is laying down the law on the beloved guest tradition of stateroom door decorating. While families can still cover their metal doors in custom magnets and Mickey ears, Disney Cruise Line is drawing a firm boundary: all decorations must be placed strictly on the stateroom doors themselves.

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Over-the-top displays that spill over onto adjacent hallway walls or extend up to the ceilings are now officially off-limits. Confining the fun to the doors ensures public hallways remain safe, clear and accessible for all guests, while protecting the ship's trim from accidental damage. With these updates rolling out fleet-wide over the next week, being in the know before you hit the gangway is the ultimate way to keep your vacation sailing smoothly.

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Let your inner child shine while reading your Dr. Seuss book, based on your birth month. Dr. Seuss has published over sixty books, but finding the right one for you is easier than you may think. The cosmic energy and spiritual vibration of your birth month aligns with a specific Dr. Seuss book. Certain birth months might be attuned with the more popular Dr. Seuss books, while other birth months favor the lesser-known titles. Regardless of what each birth month is paired with, all birth months can expect tongue twisters, nonsensical rhymes, and feel-good stories.

From the Sneetches to Whoville to the Cat and everything in between, there’s a Dr. Seuss book that captures your essence. Read on to find your Dr. Seuss book, according to your birth month. 

Your Dr. Seuss Book, Based on Your Birth Month

Check for the month you were born for pro insights.

January: Did I Ever Tell You How Lucky You Are?

“You ought to be thankful, a whole heaping lot, for the places and people you're lucky you're not!”

People born in January face more karmic lessons than other birth months, because they’re co-ruled by the Saturnian signs, Capricorn and Aquarius. Due to all they’ve gone through, January-born can come across as pessimistic if they aren’t careful. Of all the Dr. Seuss books to choose from, January will feel especially touched by Did I Ever Tell You How Lucky You Are? Despite facing hardship and spiritual lessons, this Dr. Seuss' book is the reminder that all January birthdays are far luckier than they realize. 

February: The Cat in the Hat

“I know it is wet, and the sun is not sunny. But we can have lots of good fun that is funny!”

All February birthdays are paradoxical, because they’re a mix of logical Aquarius and dreamy Pisces. February struggles to connect their imagination with their ingenuity, so they might be inspired by The Cat in the Hat. People born during this month may feel just as connected to the rational, serious Fish as they do with the fun-loving, excitable Cat. This encouraging book will help February see that they can have a realistic attitude while still making the best of their situation.

March: And to Think That I Saw It on Mulberry Street

“How a plain horse and wagon on Mulberry Street grows into a story that no one can beat.”

Whimsical people are born in March. All March birthdays share Pisces’ imagination and Aries’ passion, so they’ll feel aligned with And to Think That I Saw It on Mulberry Street. While all of Dr. Seuss’ books have fantastical elements, this particular one is attuned with March’s dreaminess. And to Think That I Saw It on Mulberry Street represents March’s ability to find the magic in the mundane. If March ever feels blocked or stifled, they ought to read this book to get their creative juices flowing again.

April: Green Eggs and Ham

“I do not like green eggs and ham. I do not like them, Sam-I-Am.”

April is a surprising mix of adventurous Aries and stubborn Taurus. Some April birthdays are willing to try anything once, while other April birthdays need to be convinced. Green Eggs and Ham perfectly captures the paradoxical energy of April. All April birthdays will connect with this book, because they’ll see themselves either as the persuasive Sam-I-Am or the obstinate naysayer. Either way, April can view Green Eggs and Ham as their sign to try something new even if it’s out of their comfort zone.

May: Oh, Say Can You Say?

“The words in this book are all phooey.”

Individuals born in May are determined to master Dr. Seuss’ tricky rhymes. Their determined Taurus spirit pairs well with their Mercurial Gemini mind. May-born truly believe they can master the tongue twisters in Oh, Say Can You Say? They might feel a bit silly repeating the lines and rhymes, but May is driven to beat this silly yet challenging book. Besting the nonsensical phrases in Oh, Say Can You Say? proves May’s ability to adapt and overcome any obstacle in their way.

June: Oh, the Thinks You Can Think!

“Think left and think right and think low and think high. Oh, the thinks you can think up if only you try!”

June babies are gifted with a rich inner world since they’re co-ruled by thoughtful Gemini and insightful Cancer. They’re known for having a runaway train of thought, so they’re matched with Oh, the Thinks You Can Think! People born during this month will feel right at home reading this inventive, silly book. Oh, the Thinks You Can Think! inspires radical curiosity. Instead of quelling their inner monologue, June will feel called to embrace daydreaming and mental stimulation thanks to their Dr. Seuss’ book.

July: Horton Hears a Who!

“A person's a person, no matter how small.”

Highly compassionate people are born in July. They’re influenced by Cancer’s sensitive nature and Leo’s generous heart. Many of Dr. Seuss’ books will touch them, but July’s soul is mirrored in Horton Hears a Who! Every July baby will see their kindness, empathy, and compassion reflected in the main character, Horton. They completely understand Horton’s desire to protect and uplift the tiny Whoville community. It doesn’t matter how many times July reads this book, Horton Hears a Who! will always bring a tear to their eye.

August: The Lorax

“Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not.”

Individuals born in August are a mix of passionate Leo and conscientious Virgo. They feel very strongly about doing the right thing, be it sticking up for the underdog or taking a stance when no one else will. August’s empathetic soul is mirrored in The Lorax. Like the Lorax, August isn’t afraid to say something, even if they’re speaking up for the trees. No matter how old August gets, The Lorax reminds them that it only takes one person to make a difference. 

September: The Sneetches and Other Stories

“Things are not quite as bad as you think.”

How could September pick just one book? Their anxious Virgo mindset and indecisive Libra spirit is drawn to many of Dr. Seuss’ books. Luckily, his short story collection, The Sneetches and Other Stories, has something for every September birthday. Although each story differs, this collection primarily focuses on accepting and working together with others in spite of their differences. Every September-born will see their cooperativeness and geniality reflected in these touching short stories. 

October: What Was I Scared Of?

“And I began to see that I was just as strange to them as they were strange to me!”

Conquering fears isn’t easy, but October is up for the challenge. October wants to indulge in Libra’s peace-seeking ways, but their Scorpionic depth wants to investigate further. Even if they’re a little bit afraid, October will still feel called to What Was I Scared Of? People born during this month may never admit it, but they get a little scared. What Was I Scared Of? commemorates October’s ability to face their fears instead of being deterred by them. 

November: Oh, the Places You’ll Go!

“Kid, you will move mountains!”

Courageous individuals are born in November, thanks to their powerful Scorpio stamina and unwavering Sagittariusconfidence. November is always ready to try something new. Very little deters or scares them away. Getting out of their comfort zone comes naturally to them, so they will feel aligned with Oh, the Places You’ll Go! It’s not unlikely that this specific book is the reason why November is so brave. Oh, the Places You’ll Go! reinforces their fearlessness as November embarks on a new adventure.

December: How the Grinch Stole Christmas!

“What if Christmas, he thought, doesn't come from a store. What if Christmas, perhaps, means a little bit more.”

December loves the classics, influenced by the cultured Sagittarius and the traditional Capricorn. Even if December outgrows most of their childhood books, they’ll never be too old for How the Grinch Stole Christmas! This nostalgic holiday tale hits the spot for December. People born during this month look forward to re-reading the Grinch’s silly antics and Cindy Lou Who’s kindness. They feel strongly connected with this special book, because it inspires them to find joy no matter the circumstances. 

Even though Cyndi Lauper's hit song "Time After Time" enjoyed two weeks on the Billboard charts, the feat was just the beginning of how the song became established in pop culture history.

First hitting No. 1 on the Billboard chart on June 9, 1984, the song, a ballad-type tune that was a different style for the rocker at the time, who had released "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun" a year earlier, went on to become one of her most recognizable hits.

Its origin story however, comes from a not-so-conventional place. Lauper has shared that the title of the song was actually inspired by a sci-fi movie title.

“I thumbed through a TV Guide Magazine. One movie title seemed good, a sci-fi film called ‘Time After Time’ from 1979," she told the Wall Street Journal in 2015. "I never meant for it to be the song’s real title. It was just supposed to get me thinking.”

"As I danced to what [songwriter Rob Hyman] played, I started thinking about up and down, lost and found: ‘If you fall I will catch you, I will be waiting / Time after time’ and ‘If you’re lost you can look and you will find me / Time after time.’ It sounded odd at first, but when I sang it, I realized what I was talking about," she said. "They were pieces of my personal life.”

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"Time after Time" came a year after Lauper's career had kicked off and was a part of her album entitled 'She's So Unusual.' She was no stranger to the Billboard chart as "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun" also saw success at No. 2 in the famed ranking months before, according to Billboard.com.

"Time After Time" was also nominated for a Grammy for Song of the Year in 1985. The award ultimately went to "What's Love Got to Do with It" by Tina Turner.

Through the years though, the song has been covered over 400 times according to SecondHandSongs' database. Some notable versions of the hit song include ones by Miles Davis, Willie Nelson, Quietdrive, and SarahMclachlan. The song was also featured in the movie 'Romy and Michelle's High School' reunion.

"A lot of the song to me was kind of spiritual and it also was kind of deep because it's about testing love," Lauper told Rolling Stone in 2021. "Because if you love somebody you're there. I think that is what grabbed people, and the fact that there were real moments of humanity in it."

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If you're searching for a breezy, flattering outfit that's as easy to throw on as it is fun to style, Amazon's two-piece summer sweater set is about to become your new favorite. The Saodimallsu 2-Piece Flower Sweater Shorts Set, originally $60, is now just $42 and comes in a rainbow of 12 colors. 

This chic set is perfect for mixing and matching and making a statement during the warm months, so grab your favorite color while it's still available! Reviewers declared it an "effortless summer outfit."

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Shoppers raved about this summer set's "high quality" feel. The fabric blend (40% viscose, 35% polyamide, and 25% polyester) is soft, airy, and substantial — never see-through or flimsy. The knit feels breathable on warm days, making it ideal for lounging, running errands, or packing for a weekend getaway.

The design is modern and playful. The off-the-shoulder boat-neck top features adorable 3D floral appliqués, adding a unique twist to your summer wardrobe. The ribbed hem keeps the silhouette crisp, while the high-waisted shorts with a stretchy waistband offer both comfort and a flattering fit for a range of body types. Reviewers said the set is "so flattering," with many noting it looks and feels more expensive than the price tag would suggest.

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Versatility is another big reason this set is a hit. The pieces look chic worn together as a matching set, but they're just as cute styled separately. Pair the floral sweater top with your favorite jeans or a midi skirt, or slip the shorts on with a simple tank or tee. Sneakers, sandals, and even wedges play well with this look, making it easy to dress up for brunch or keep casual for a beach day.

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Available in sizes small through extra large, this style features a forgiving fit and an elastic waistband, making it a great choice for a variety of body types. Caring for the set is easy. Just hand wash it in cold water and lay flat to dry to keep it looking fresh. 

Shoppers have raved about the set in the reviews. "Cute and comfortable," one shopper wrote. "Feels great. Great for evening dinners in the summer with some cute sandals."

Some have even come back to stock up on more hues. "The yellow is beautiful and looks great with tanned skin. Considering purchasing it in the light blue next."

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If you've ever done something and later said to yourself, "Ugh, I wish I did that differently," you're not alone. We've all been there. But some people might start to notice patterns about themselves, such as withdrawing and staying silent when they're troubled. If that sounds like you, you might wonder, "Why do I go quiet when I'm upset? Why don't I ever stick up for myself?"

Shutting down, at least verbally, when you're bothered can feel like self-sabotage, and you may serve as your biggest critic. But Dr. Ernesto Lira de la Rosa, Ph.D., a psychologist and Hope for Depression Research Foundation media advisor, regularly reminds people that our reactions make a lot more sense once we understand where they come from.

"Going quiet when upset is not random behavior," he tells Parade. "For some people, it was how they learned to stay safe, avoid conflict or manage overwhelming emotions."

Dr. Lira de la Rosa says it's not always bad to "zip it" if you're unhappy. But habitually staying silent can create misunderstandings that frequently affect your life and relationships.

"The [people] around you may assume you are angry, disconnected, punishing them or simply uninterested, when, internally, you may actually feel hurt, overwhelmed, anxious or unsure how to put your feelings into words," he explains. "Over time, emotional silence can also create distance in relationships."

If you continue to internalize difficult emotions, problems usually remain unresolved. He shares that it's a breeding ground for resentment, and communication can start to feel less emotionally safe for everyone involved. Plus, there's a personal cost:

"Suppressing emotions does not mean they disappear," the psychologist says.

And sometimes, these emotions can manifest as certain characteristics. Dr. Lira de la Rosa shares that when you understand the "why" behind behaviors, you can make choices about what to do next. To help, he reveals seven traits of people who go quiet when they're upset, along with his tips for working on this habit.

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What Is Emotional Withdrawal, Exactly?

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Dr. Lira de la Rosa shares that emotional withdrawal occurs when someone pulls back emotionally. He notes this often happens in moments of hurt, stress, conflict or feeling overwhelmed.

"This can look like becoming unusually quiet, shutting down in conversation, avoiding eye contact, physically leaving the room or becoming emotionally hard to reach," he states.

Importantly, he reports that you can experience unintentional emotional withdrawal.

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"Many people assume someone is being cold or punitive, but in many cases, the person is actually struggling to regulate intense emotions," the psychologist notes. "Their nervous system may essentially be saying, 'This feels like too much right now.'"

Plus, it can actually be healthy to take a beat, temporarily, he states. You don't have to respond to conflict or hurt right away, all the time.

But, he clarifies that, "The issue arises when emotional withdrawal becomes the default way someone handles distress, especially if it prevents communication or emotional repair."

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Why Do Some People Go Quiet When They're Upset?

Dr. Lira de la Rosa stresses that people can go quiet when they are upset for many reasons, and not all of them are unhealthy. But others, such as habitual conflict avoidance, are problematic.

"Some people need time to process before they can clearly communicate what they feel," he notes. "They may become quieter because they are trying not to say something impulsive or hurtful."

Sometimes, silence during unhappy periods is a reaction that developed much earlier in life, often in childhood.

"If someone grew up in an environment where emotions were dismissed, criticized or escalated into conflict, going quiet may have become a protective strategy," he explains. "In adulthood, that pattern can continue even when the original threat is no longer present."

Personality can also play a role.

"Some people naturally process emotions internally rather than externally, meaning silence reflects reflection rather than avoidance," he adds. "The key question is whether the silence creates understanding or disconnection."

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7 Traits of People Who Go Quiet When They're Upset, According to a Psychologist

Check out this list to see if any of these characteristics sound familiar.

1. They tend to process emotions internally

Dr. Lira de la Rosa shares that people who are silent when they're bothered are often "internal processors" who naturally turn inward if hard emotions come up.

"Rather than immediately talking through their feelings, they need time to make sense of what they are experiencing internally," he tells Parade. "This is often less about avoidance and more about the need for emotional clarity before speaking."

2. They can become emotionally overwhelmed easily

It's actually common for people to "put a lid on it" when they start to feel a barrage of tough emotions. But this trait often gets confused with frequent emotional disconnect, when it's actually the opposite.

"When emotions feel intense, some people become quiet because their internal system is overloaded," Dr. Lira de la Rosa explains. "In those moments, finding the right words can genuinely feel difficult. Silence can be a sign that someone is emotionally flooded rather than emotionally detached."

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3. They often dislike conflict 

Honestly, most people don't relish conflict, but some people dislike it more than others. If you fit that bill, you may be conflict-avoidant and slip into "radio silence" when you're upset.

"People who go quiet when upset are sometimes highly uncomfortable with confrontation," Dr. Lira de la Rosa notes. "They may worry that expressing frustration will make things worse, lead to rejection or escalate into a larger conflict. Silence can feel safer than emotional risk."

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4. They may be highly self-monitoring

There's nothing "wrong" with having a filter. Yet Dr. Lira de la Rosa notes that filters can sometimes become too strong, especially in times of stress and conflict.

"Some individuals carefully monitor what they say, especially when emotional," he says. "They may worry about being misunderstood, sounding too emotional or saying something they regret later. As a result, silence becomes a form of emotional caution."

5. They may have learned early that emotions were not welcome

If you go silent when you're upset and have this trait, there's a good chance you developed it in childhood.

"Our early environments shape how we handle distress," Dr. Lira de la Rosa reports. "If someone grew up in a home where emotions were dismissed, mocked, ignored or met with anger, they may have learned that staying quiet was the safest option. That pattern can persist well into adulthood without the person fully realizing it."

6. They may fear vulnerability

Psychologists often say that vulnerability can deepen relationships. Yet, people who often go silent when they're stressed or sad may avoid vulnerability at all costs.

"Speaking openly when hurt requires emotional exposure," Dr. Lira de la Rosa points out. "For some people, that feels deeply uncomfortable because vulnerability has historically felt unsafe or risky. Going quiet can function as emotional protection."

7. They may struggle to identify exactly what they are feeling

We're talking a lot more about feelings these days in the (grand)parenting zeitgeist, and even in schools. However, it hasn't always been this way, so it's completely understandable if you struggle with emotional identification.

"Not everyone has easy access to emotional language," Dr. Lira de la Rosa states. "Some people know they are upset but cannot immediately identify whether they feel hurt, disappointed, anxious, angry or embarrassed. Silence can happen when someone is still trying to understand their own emotional experience."

Related: These 7 ‘Bad’ Habits Actually Signal High Emotional Intelligence, Psychologist Says

What To Do if You Withdraw and Get Quiet When You’re Upset1. Get curious about your silence instead of judging it

If you go quiet when you're upset, Dr. Lira de la Rosa says it's tempting to label yourself as "bad at communicating." He suggests asking yourself some questions instead, such as: "What is my silence doing for me?" "Is it helping me calm down, protecting me or avoiding discomfort (or all three)?"

"That kind of curiosity fosters self-awareness, where change begins," he notes. "Even simply noticing, 'I tend to go quiet when I feel criticized,' can be incredibly useful."

2. Communicate that you need space instead of disappearing emotionally

Dr. Lira de la Rosa emphasizes that needing space is completely valid, and it's not always a problem to fix.

"The difference is communicating that clearly rather than leaving the other person guessing," he says. "A simple statement like, 'I am upset and need a little time to process, but I want to come back to this conversation,' can make a huge difference."

He loves that this phrase protects your emotional needs while maintaining connection.

3. Notice whether this is a long-term relationship pattern

This one is big. Dr. Lira de la Rosa shares that if going quiet is occasional, it may be your processing style. The caveat?

"But if emotional shutdown shows up consistently across friendships, romantic relationships, family dynamics or work conflict, it may be worth exploring more deeply," he reports. "Patterns often reveal important insights into how we learned to cope."

The psychologist notes that therapy or intentional self-reflection can help you determine whether the silence is serving you or keeping you stuck.

Related: 9 Common Phrases People Think Sound Confident, but Actually Sound Arrogant, Psychologist Reveals

Final Takeaways

Habits, behaviors and traits, such as going quiet when we're upset, don't just come out of nowhere. When we understand how they developed, we can determine whether those things serve us or sabotage us. Here's what to keep in mind if you go quiet when you're upset.

• People go quiet when they're upset for many reasons. Sometimes, it's a temporary pause to determine the best next step. Other times, this behavior is learned in childhood, especially in homes where tough emotions are "bad" or "unacceptable." 
• Staying silent when you're bothered has risks. If done always or often, this behavior can lead to resentment from others (who think you're emotionally detached) and you (because you're not getting your needs met). It can put strain on relationships and your mental health.
• People who go quiet when they're upset often share common traits. For instance, they are often conflict-avoidant, internal processors and afraid of vulnerability.
• You have agency. If you frequently go silent when you're upset, Dr. Lira de la Rosa suggests getting curious about why. Perhaps you're trying to protect yourself. From there, you might benefit from therapy or intentional self-reflection to determine whether this habit is helping you or holding you back.

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• Dr. Ernesto Lira de la Rosa, Ph.D., is a psychologist and Hope for Depression Research Foundation media advisor.

A 1971 smash hit became an instant favorite with listeners, but its unlikely path to success is a story many fans have never heard.

In April of that year, John Denver released "Take Me Home, Country Roads." The song, from the LP Poems, Prayers, and Promises, had a slow-burn start, and didn't hit its peak No. 2 position until four months later, in August.

The song's rise to popularity in the United States can be traced to a little-known story involving a West Virginia teenager. According to Metro News, the teen played a pivotal role in turning the track into a nationwide hit.

A 15-year-old DJ at radio station WMOV, David Hoyt, acquired a copy of "Take Me Home, Country Roads" from a listener whose son was stationed in the military overseas. The song was reportedly first released in Europe before becoming a stateside hit.

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“A listener’s son had been stationed overseas. She saw him perform the song, or rather he did, and bought the album. He brought it home with him, so he and his mom brought it to the station for me to hear,” Hoyt said.

“I may have only been like 15 at the time, but I knew what a hit song sounded like. We started playing it on WMOV, and the response was just amazing,” he added.

Hoyt reportedly began producing copies of the single and sharing them with other local DJ's, and listeners were said to have called Denver's record company, RCA, asking the song to be released as a single in the states.

Hoyt soon received a call from Denver's manager, Jerry Weintraub, and he told him the song was "lightning in a bottle" and that "he needed to call RCA and tell them to release it here because I thought the song would sell a million copies just in West Virginia.”

He concluded, "It dropped off the charts after a few months, and they wanted to go ahead and release something else, and I guess John Denver convinced RCA to stay with the song, so it eventually came back on the charts and climbed to the top ten, and, of course, ever since then, it’s just grown in leaps and bounds in popularity.”

"Take Me Home Country Roads" was written by John Denver and Bill and Taffy Danoff. In March 2014, the West Virginia legislature passed a resolution designating "Take Me Home, Country Roads" as one of four official state songs.

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When you picture the ultimate, load-up-the-minivan family road trip, your mind probably drafts a very specific map. You’re likely imagining the sun-drenched coastal highways of California, the desert pull-outs of Arizona, or a classic trek down to the theme park capital of Florida.

But as millions of families prepare to hit the highway this summer—especially with the massive buzz surrounding America’s upcoming 250th anniversary celebrations in July—a fascinating new study reveals that the absolute best itinerary for your crew might look entirely different than you think.

A new data crunch from property rental company Top Villas just analyzed all 50 states against the exact factors that make or break a family vacation: kid-friendly attractions, road quality, reliable weather, biodiversity, and the crucial cost of a family meal. The shocking result? This unexpected state was just ranked number one for family road trips—and it’s not Florida.

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Stealing the crown for 2026 is Tennessee. Thanks to a perfect storm of incredible mountain scenery, high-density family attractions, and highly rated road conditions, the Volunteer State managed to edge out the traditional coastal heavyweights.

It turns out the South is having a massive moment for domestic travel right now, accounting for half of the entire top ten list. Neighbors like Alabama and Georgia scored exceptionally high for their stunning natural biodiversity, while Kentucky cruised into the top tier by offering some of the lowest average meal costs in the country, proving you don't have to drain the college fund just to keep everyone fed on the road. Even tiny Delaware managed to punch way above its weight class, landing in fifth place overall by packing an incredible amount of historical landmarks and coastal charm into just under two thousand square miles.

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What this data really proves is that the modern family road trip is undergoing a major value shift. In a year where historic landmarks and national parks are bound to see record-breaking crowds, skipping the over-hyped tourist bottlenecks for states that offer better infrastructure, lower dining receipts, and plenty of room to breathe is the ultimate travel hack. So before you default to booking that same old beach route, it might be time to point your GPS toward the Blue Ridge Mountains and discover why the Volunteer State is officially leading the pack.

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Coors Light is launching its tallest beer ever—sort of.

The Molson Coors Beverage Company brand is kicking off the "summer of soccer" with a special release inspired by the elongated cheers of fans, turning its classic beer can into one that's nearly three times the size of a standard can.

And it's not only bigger, but better, too, as the limited-time "Tallerboy" will actually keep your beer cold.

Coors Light Launches Limited-Edition Tallerboy

According to an official statement shared with Parade, the Tallerboy beer canister is the "next chapter of 'The Coooors Call,'" the brand's summer campaign featuring legendary announcer Andrés Cantor and his "iconic, elongated 'GOOOOAL.'" 

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The limited-release is much taller than a tallboy (hence the name) and looks just like the original Coors Light can, except the "Coors" has been elongated in a playful nod to the cadence of applauding soccer fans and to match the ratio of the much taller canister. While the exact height of the Tallerboy was not immediately available, we do know it's tall enough to hold and chill three full Coors Light cans at a time.

Coors Light Tallerboy

Once the interior is stacked with three cans of Coors, the Tallerboy is technically filled with 36 ounces of the American-style light lager, making it larger than all of the more conventional packaging styles of singles: stubby (8-ounce), standard (12-ounce), tallboy (16-ounce), stovepipe (19.2-ounce), silo (24-ounce), and crowler (32-ounce).

"The Tallerboy is everything 'The Cooors Call' stands for, brought to life in physical form," Matt Carpenter, Vice President of Marketing at Coooors Light, shared in a June 9 press release. "Extra long celebrations deserve something that allows you to hold onto those game moments a little longer, and Tallerboy does exactly that — three cans, one canister and a whole lot of extra Os."

When and Where Will the Tallerboy Be Available?

The Tallerboy will be released in two separate drops happening on Thursday, June 11, and Thursday, June 18, exclusively via the online Coors Light store, where it will be available for $30 while supplies last.

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If you’re trying to go into summer feeling a little lighter, swapping out a heavy everyday bag for a smaller one is a good place to start. Right now, Michael Kors Outlet has its Soho Small Convertible Shoulder Bag for just $79. It comes in three colors: powder blush, radiant orange, and navy, so you can choose between a softer neutral or a brighter pop depending on what you wear most.

The bag features a compact silhouette that measures 8.5 inches wide, 4.5 inches high, and 2.5 inches deep, with a 6.5-inch handle drop and an adjustable strap that extends from 20.5 to 24 inches. It’s made from a polyurethane blend with gold-tone hardware and features a snap closure, a back slip pocket, and full lining. The strap also lets you wear it a few different ways, whether you want it on your shoulder, as a crossbody, or doubled up so it sits closer under your arm.

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You can sport this versatile gem at dinner, rooftop drinks, birthday plans, a concert in the park, or on a night where you know you’ll probably be out longer than you expect and don’t want to haul around a whole tote. It's also a fantastic option for travel. The best part is that you can wear it with a wide range of outfits. Its design is sleek enough to be formal, but it can still be worn with casual dresses, skirts, or jeans.

Shoppers have said they appreciate the bag’s “pillowy texture.” One called it “very beautiful,” noting that it’s “elegant and has a timeless silhouette.” A third mentioned that it’s “perfect for just the little stuff you need,” emphasizing its very portable size.

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Whether you opt for the versatile powder blush or light cream colorway, the brighter, radiant orange, or the darker luggage hue, it doesn’t take much for this bag to complement other pieces. The more neutral options are great with denim, tank tops, sandals, and gold jewelry, while the brighter style would work well with a solid colored dark dress or pants and a blouse.

If you’ve been searching for the perfect lightweight spring bag to add to your warm-weather wardrobe, Michael Kors Outlet’s Soho Small Convertible Shoulder Bag is a must-have. Be sure to snag yours now while it’s still available.

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In 1970, English rock band Free had a breakthrough hit with ”All Right Now.”

Written by Andy Fraser and Paul Rodgers for the band’s third album Fire and Water, the hard-rocking song peaked at No. 4 on the Billboard Hot 100 in October 1970. “All Right Now” became the band’s signature song as well as a classic rock anthem thanks in large part to guitarist Paul Kossoff’s iconic, driving guitar work.

The BBC’s Classical Music ranked the recognizable chords from “All Right Now” as one of the all-time most iconic guitar riffs that defined rock music.

The outlet noted that while Free was invited to play at Woodstock, the band turned the gig down. “And yet somehow, few licks define the spirit of the cultural revolution of the Woodstock generation more than ‘All Right Now’, despite it having not featured. It’s just two chords, strummed in a spirited fashion, but the effect is sensational,” the BBC music site added.

While “All Right Now” became an iconic hit, it didn’t take long to write. In the liner notes to Free's Molten Gold anthology, drummer Simon Kirke revealed that after a particularly disastrous gig, the band realized they needed to add an up-tempo song to their set list.

"All of a sudden the inspiration struck Fraser, and he started bopping around singing 'All Right Now,” Kirke recalled. “He sat down and wrote it right there in the dressing room. It couldn't have taken more than ten minutes. Andy soon had the riffs worked out, and Paul came up with the words. That song changed our lives."

Fraser told Songwriting Magazine he originally came up with the famous riff on the piano before handing it off to Kossoff.

"Basically the chorus wrote itself, the chords took me about 10-15 minutes, and then Paul came up with the verses while he was waiting for a lift to a gig the next day,” he said of the song.

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Free disbanded in 1973 singer-songwriter Rodgers famously went on to form Bad Company with Kirke. The singer also left “All Right Now” behind for nearly two decades.

“After I left Free, I didn’t play ‘All Right Now’ for many, many years because I thought, ‘I've gotta move on,’” Rodgers explained during a 2023 appearance on TalkShopLive. “I was doing the Bad Company thing, and then I did the Firm, we didn’t do much Free then.”

Rodgers revealed that he finally agreed to perform "All Right Now," one of his best-known songs, after not playing it for 18 years. The moment came as Rodgers was playing a show in support of a Muddy Waters tribute album.

“One day we were in this club, a fabulous club somewhere, I can’t remember where, unfortunately. And [Jason Bonham] said, ‘Let’s do ‘All Right Now!’ and he started it,”  Rodgers recalled in the interview. “And the audience all picked up on that, and they all said, ‘Yeah, come on! ‘All Right Now!’ …All the musicians behind me want to play ‘All Right Now,’ and all the audience is going for it. I went, ‘OK, let’s do it,’ and it was amazingly refreshing to play it. It really was.”

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Pack your favorite cozy sweater because the coolest new way to see Alaska just arrived, and it comes with a seriously stylish glow-up. Virgin Voyages, known for its sun-soaked Caribbean sailings and lively Miami-chic vibe, is officially trading palm trees for glaciers. The award-winning, adults-only cruise line is making its highly anticipated Pacific Northwest debut as its newest ship, Brilliant Lady, charts 17 Alaska voyages across 12 stunning destinations this summer.

Sailing from Seattle and Vancouver, these seven- to 12-night itineraries are designed for front-row access to cascading waterfalls, rugged landscapes and peak orca season. But while the shore excursions offer classic adventures like glacier trekking and salmon fishing, the real magic is how Virgin has winterized its signature superyacht aesthetic into the ultimate cozy retreat.

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Instead of focusing inward on a sunny pool deck, Brilliant Lady received a purposeful redesign to let the dramatic Alaskan scenery take center stage.

The Athletic Club outdoor lounge now features an expansive panoramic glass wall at the stern, with its iconic circular daybeds reoriented outward so you can gaze at uninterrupted views of coastal waters while staying perfectly warm. The Roundabout, the ship’s social heart, has transformed into a snug indoor haven with deep navy banquettes, jewel-toned seating and a barista-primed Draught Haus. Even the eateries got a seasonal flip; the popular veggie-forward Razzle Dazzle has evolved into Rojo by Razzle Dazzle, a Spanish-influenced venue sporting warm terracotta and crimson hues built for intimate shared plates.

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When you aren’t sampling the new locally sourced Alaskan seafood enhancements, you can head back to your cabin—where 86 percent of rooms boast private balconies with those famous hand-woven hammocks—to wrap up in a warm knitted blanket with hot cocoa or a glass of Moët.

The brand's loyal fans have been waiting for this exact pivot. Virgin Voyages’ CEO Nirmal Saverimuttu said, “We have incredibly high repeat rates, so our Sailors are always challenging us to seek new horizons; they always want to know ‘where else can we sail with Virgin?’ This brand is charting new paths, and the sold-out response to our Front(ier) of the Line passes showed us just how sought after our Alaskan itineraries are. We continue to reach for the high seas with our itineraries, with Brilliant Lady being no exception. Soon our Sailors can visit one of the world’s most incredible destinations on the No. 1 cruise line, all while enjoying new and exciting artists, chefs and musicians that bring the Virgin vibe.”

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When it comes to refreshing your space for summer, you don’t always need a full overhaul. Sometimes it’s the smaller swaps that make the biggest difference — think new throw pillows, a fresh candle, or an adorable serving tray for outdoor dining. Planters, in particular, are one of the easiest ways to make your home feel more styled without spending much.

Right now, Target has a whole lineup of planters under $15 that go beyond basic neutrals, with designs that lean playful, textured, and a little more personality-driven. Whether your style skews cottagecore, coastal, or somewhere in between, these finds are an easy way to mix things up.

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With a “funky” warm brown, mustard yellow, and cool slate blue palette boasting a geometric pattern that has a “hand-painted feel,” this planter gives off a‘70s-inspired vibe. The tall shape with a flared rounded bottom is super unique. Measuring just under 6 inches tall, it’s perfectly sized for smaller plants and herbs, and easy to move around wherever your space needs a little extra color.

Made from durable ceramic, this planter is freeze-proof and suitable for outdoor use, so it can handle everything from sunny porches to chillier mornings. A single drainage hole helps prevent overwatering, making it a practical choice for keeping plants happy and healthy. 

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This ceramic planter is serving breezy coastal energy like it belongs on a sun-drenched porch with a salty breeze rolling through. The softly tapered shape is clean and classic, while the scalloped rim and rope-like beading add just the right hint of nautical charm. The pale, sea-glass blue finish has a sun-washed look that'll make any space feel a little more beachy. Designed for both style and function, it features a single drainage hole to help keep plants healthy and happy. 

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Looking for a basic that’s not boring? This “stylish” planter brings all the texture your space needs. The white finish keeps it neutral, but the fluted design adds a sculptural appearance that makes it look styled instead of standard. 

Made from sturdy stoneware, it works just as well indoors as it does out, whether you’re styling a corner with layered plants or letting it stand solo as a statement piece. The freestanding design makes it easy to move around, and the modern, slightly urban vibe pairs with everything from minimal setups to more collected, eclectic spaces.

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Small but super cute, this blush-toned planter makes even the tiniest plant look well-styled. The two-tone reactive glaze has soft variations in color and black speckling. At just under 3 inches, it’s made for the small stuff — think succulents, cacti, herbs, or a cutting you’re trying to propagate — but it still manages to stand out on a desk, shelf, or windowsill. The stoneware build keeps it sturdy, while the drainage hole (with a silicone plug) keeps roots healthy. 

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Whether you’re repotting plants you already have or picking up a few new ones for the season, these planters make the whole process feel a little more fun — and a lot more styled. Snag them all for under $15 at Target!

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When it comes to actors of the ‘80s, Michael J. Fox is one who immediately stands out. The man who brought Marty McFly to life in Back to the Future turns 65 today, June 9, 2026.

Born on June 9, 1961, Fox started his career with the name Mike Fox and then Michael Fox. His middle name is actually Andrew, but he ended up adding the J when he joined the Screen Actors Guild, as there was already an actor with the same name as him. He thought it would be fun to add a different letter, with fans joking that it stands for “Jello” in the 1990s, as that was reportedly his favorite dessert.

While he did appear in TV shows and smaller movies in the early 1980s, including an episode of TheLove Boat, it was Back to the Future that put him on the map. He also starred in Family Ties and has appeared in the likes of Scrubs, Boston Legal, and, most recently, Shrinking, where he plays a patient diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease.

In fact, he won an Emmy Award for Family Ties, becoming the youngest actor ever to win an award at the age of 25. He still holds that record 40 years later, with the only person to come close being The Bear’s Jeremy Allen White at the age of 32.

However, it’s not his acting that most people know him for today. It’s for his activism. When he was just 29, he was diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease, a devastating and progressive disorder. He has often said that due to the illness, he doesn’t expect to live past the age of 80, but he continues to fight every day for awareness and potential treatments.

Fox originally noticed a twitch in the pinky of his left hand when filming Doc Hollywood, and he was diagnosed shortly after that. It wasn’t until 1998 that he made his illness public, and he launched the Michael J. Fox Foundation in 2000 in the hope of finding a cure.

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Comfortable and supportive sandals are a must for summer. If you’re in the market for warm weather footwear that looks great and won’t leave your feet aching, Dream Pairs' Arch Support Slide Sandals could become your new go-to pair.

These bestselling slides are now just $22 at Walmart, marked down from $50. Shoppers love their "soft, cushiony material" and how comfortable they feel all day.

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What sets these sandals apart is their supportive footbed. The shock-absorbing EVA sole gives real arch support, which helps reduce foot fatigue and keeps your feet aligned. You can stand, walk, or shop for hours without discomfort.

Another great feature is the adjustable hook-and-loop straps. They give the sandals a sporty look and let you adjust the fit, so your feet stay secure without slipping. Whether your feet are narrow, wide, or in between, you can get a snug fit every time.

The comfort goes beyond the sole. The insole feels smooth and gentle, so you won't get any rubbing or irritation, even on hot days. The breathable lining keeps your feet cool, and the easy slide-in design lets you put them on quickly. The heel, available in two wedge heights, adds a bit of lift without sacrificing comfort or stability.

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Style-wise, these sandals are classic and versatile. Available in staple shades like black, navy, nude, and white, they pair perfectly with everything from jeans and shorts to sundresses and activewear. Whether you're heading to a picnic, running errands, or just enjoying a casual day on the patio, these slides have you covered. They’re available in sizes 6 to 12, including half sizes, so it’s easy to find your perfect fit.

Shoppers are big fans, too. Many reviews praised the supportive design and “excellent quality.” One shopper noted that the adjustable straps allow you to “perfectly” tailor the fit to your feet.

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Dream Pairs' $22 Arch Support Slide Sandals prove you don't have to spend a fortune to get shoes that feel great and look good. If you want all-day comfort, easy style, and an unbeatable price, now's the time to snag a pair for summer while they're on sale!

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