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Jimmy Fallon had a field day with President Donald Trump’s latest White House controversy, mocking his claim that damage to the Reflecting Pool was caused by vandalism after his own Justice Department said otherwise.

During his latest Tonight Show monologue, the late-night host zeroed in on the DOJ’s assessment that the damage resulted from construction issues rather than a deliberate attack.

Fallon used the moment to roast Trump’s explanation, joking about the president’s repeated claims while highlighting the unusual twist that the pushback came from his own administration under Attorney General Jeanine Pirro.

"Trump claimed someone used a knife to quickly cut the pool liner of the length of three football fields," Fallon said as his audience broke out in laughter. "I can barely use a knife to cut open my Amazon box. I'm like, maybe I'll just pry this thing open, I don't know. Is there rope in the tape? What the heck? At this point, Trump's thinking about draining the water, covering it in green felt and turning it into a reflecting pool table."

Fallon dug in deeper, joking about comparisons between the war in Iran and the search for solutions. "The war in Iran hasn't been going well and Trump's looking for solutions. Listen to what he's been saying about it. First Trump said...  'It's a disaster with no end in sight.' Then Taco Bell said, 'Hey, that's our slogan!'"

He added, "Trump said, 'This cabinet just refuses to come together.' Then Ikea said, "Hey, that's our slogan!'"

Fallon also poked fun at Trump’s other recent controversies, including an alleged AI-generated image featuring historical figures, and his shifting claims about reaching a deal. He joked that Trump had gone from having the “outline” of a deal to the “framework” of a deal, suggesting the president was simply cycling through similar phrases while searching for a solution.

Hypocrisy, the Swedish death metal band behind their signature anthem "Roswell 47," shared devastating news with fans.

Ahead of their highly anticipated Mass Hallucination North American Tour, the band fronted by Peter Tägtgren, along with bassist Mikael Hedlund, guitarist Tomas Elofsson and drummer Henrik Axelsson, announced the cancellation of the 12-date tour.

In an Instagram update, the four-piece band revealed that the unexpected situation was due to visa-related travel complications.

Expressing their disappointment, Hypocrisy apologized for the short notice but assured fans they were working on resolving the issue.

“Due to visa issues beyond our control, we won’t be able to make it to the North American tour. We’re devastated, and truly sorry - we did everything we could. We’re not giving up. We’ll keep working to make this right and get to you as soon as we can! Thank you for your patience, understanding, and support! If you have questions about refunds, please contact your original ticket seller,” the caption reads.

Tomas Elofsson and Peter Tägtgren from the band Hypocrisy at The Inferno Festival at Rockefeller Music Hall on April 19, 2019.

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The comment section was filled with disappointed fans; however, many said they understood the circumstances.

“I hope everything works out. You guys got so many people waiting for you so I hope it’s all resolved, i know it was out of your control, but I’m still sad. I need to see Hypocrisy at least once in my life,” a commenter said.

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“With the state of the USA right now, this is probably the safest thing for you guys anyway. Come back and hit more of Canada next time!” one wrote.

“So sad to hear this,” another added.

Some even mentioned that this has been occurring with other bands, especially those from Europe.

“This is happening with more and more bands from Europe that are trying to play the US. VISA applications are now more and more strict,” a follower said.

Back in June, the band announced the complete dates for the North American run scheduled throughout August.

Kicking off the tour, Hypocrisy was set to play its first show in Ontario, followed by a stop in Quebec before heading to the U.S. for shows in New York and major cities including Ohio, Illinois, Minnesota and more before wrapping up with a three-show run in California with stops in San Francisco, San Diego and Los Angeles.

On the other hand, the run included a mix of the band's own intimate headlining shows and dates supporting Dimmu Borgir on its Grand Serpent Rising North America 2026 tour.

Below is the complete list of canceled shows:

Aug. 10 – Toronto, ON @ History (supporting Dimmu Borgir)
Aug. 11 – Montreal, QC @ MTELUS (supporting Dimmu Borgir)
Aug. 12 – New York, NY @ Gramercy Theatre (Hypocrisy headlining show)
Aug. 13 – Cleveland, OH @ The Agora Theatre (supporting Dimmu Borgir)
Aug. 15 – Chicago, IL @ Radius (supporting Dimmu Borgir)
Aug. 16 – Omaha, NE @ The Waiting Room (Hypocrisy headlining show with Hulder)
Aug. 17 – Minneapolis, MN @ The Fillmore (supporting Dimmu Borgir)
Aug. 18 – Denver, CO @ The Mission Ballroom (with Hulder)
Aug. 19 – Salt Lake City, UT @ Metro Music Hall (Hypocrisy headlining show with Hulder)
Aug. 20 – San Francisco, CA @ The Regency Ballroom (supporting Dimmu Borgir)
Aug. 22 – San Diego, CA @ Voodoo Room at House of Blues (Hypocrisy headlining show)
Aug. 23 – Los Angeles, CA @ The Novo / Wiltern (supporting Dimmu Borgir)

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“Substitute” was originally a song recorded by the Righteous Brothers in 1975. Although it wasn't too popular, it became a global hit when a cover version was recorded by a South African band called Clout. The song reached No. 2 on the UK charts and hit No. 1 in Germany, Ireland, New Zealand, and South Africa. In America, it also made it onto the Billboard Hot 100, peaking at No. 67.

When describing the meaning of the band’s name in an interview with New York Lifestyles Magazine, singer Cindy Alter said, “The word ‘clout’ has a few meanings: ‘She’s got clout’ means she’s got power. In South Africa, people would often say, ‘I’ll give you a clout,’ which meant I would slap you.”

Alter also spoke about the struggles that she has faced throughout the years, working as a musician. “I have definitely suffered for my art,” she admitted. “I’ve always just had enough money to go round, never more. So, I guess giving yourself over so completely to your love of something means giving up some things in life. If you measure success in monetary value, has Cindy been successful? No. But if you measure it in other ways, I say she has been remarkably successful. She has sustained a career for over 45 years, still singing, writing, producing, doing what she loves, and following her passion. I guess to me, that is a success.”

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Clout had a few more hits over the years, including “Save Me,” “Under Fire,” and “You’ve Got All of Me.” When Alter was asked about her favorite song in an ABBA Fan Club interview, she said, “I can’t say favorites because a lot of the stuff were favorites. Of course, I like ‘Save Me’ and ‘Substitute,’ but I was tired of them. I was always singing them. There was a song, I wrote it about the man I was involved with in the Clout years. He was a wonderful, wonderful man. I wrote the song for him called 'Tomorrow,' and it was on the album Six Of The Best. That song meant a lot to me.”

Unfortunately, the band broke up in 1981. However, they had a short reunion in 2018 to celebrate the 40th anniversary of “Substitute.”

Karaoke is honestly an art form in and of itself—and half the battle is choosing the perfect song. Not only do you want to pick something everyone can sing along to, but you also want to pick something that allows you to put on your own personal best show. Choosing in the moment is a lot of pressure, so Ultimate Classic Rockpulled together a list of the best out there to sign up for, and the top song is an indisputable banger: Meat Loaf and Ellen Foley's 1977 hit "Paradise by the Dashboard Light."

The 8-minute epic has everything a karaoke singer could want: drama, power notes, a fascinating story, and the opportunity to collaborate.

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When the song appeared on Bat Out of Hell, Meat Loaf was already an unlikely leading man. His big presence was felt in person and in the studio, something Foley once called "larger than life."

“People were ready for this. People were ready to come out of the laid-back Fleetwood Mac ’70s," Foley went on to tell the Associated Press (syndicated on Billboard)of Meat Loaf upon his death in 2022. "And he had an extraordinary voice. I don’t know if he ever took a voice lesson — I think he came out pretty fully formed. First time I ever saw him walk into a rehearsal hall, he was Meat Loaf. He knew what he was.”

The song itself was written by Jim Steinman and produced by acclaimed musical genius Todd Rundgren, and features instrumentals by E Street Band pros Roy Bittan (keyboards and piano) and Max Weinberg (drums). The song tells the story of a 17-year-old boy trying to convince his date to go all the way. Before they do, she makes him promise to love her forever, which he reluctantly agrees to in order to reach his, erm, "paradise." But after the deed is done (which was intimated by a hilarious baseball narration detailing "rounding bases and going 'home'"), the last leg of the song is dedicated to the boy (now man) promising to keep his vows but silently hating her.

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Foley went on to say that fans tell her all the time that the song has been the soundtrack to many moments in their lives, from weddings to bar mitzvahs and, yes, karaoke.

“You do one thing and it goes with you for your whole life,” she said, “and it makes you always connected, and it makes you feel as young as you did when you sang that song — or went to the moon.”

Of course, to perform it at karaoke, you need at least a touch of Meat Loaf's swagger and endurance: the song itself is 8 minutes long and is truly a theatrical composition. As Foley said herself: “He was a wonder, truly.”

The U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) just issued a recall of Walmart’s bettergoods Pistachio Nut Butter for potential Salmonella contamination.

Manufactured by Gustibus Alimentari Srl of Assoro, Italy, and imported by U.S. company Botticelli Foods, the current recall includes one lot of 6.7-ounce jars sold only in Walmart stores across these 19 states:

• Alabama
• Alaska
• Arizona
• Colorado
• Florida
• Georgia
• Idaho
• Kansas
• Mississippi
• Missouri
• Nontana
• Nebraska
• Nevada
• New Mexico
• Oregon
• Soth Dakota
• Tennessee
• Washington
• Wyoming

Which Walmart nut butter was recalled?

This safety alert is a recall for Walmart’s private-label store-brand line bettergood’s Pistachio Nut Butter in 6.7-ounce (190g) containers, UPC 194346207961, Lot Code LB028ACP04. The affected products have an expiration date of January 28, 2027. 

Recalled nut butter. Photo: U.S. FDA

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Why was the nut butter recall issued?

According to the FDA, a routine inspection by the Florida Department of Agriculture and Consumer Services found the presence of Salmonella bacteria when testing three jars of the bettergoods nut butter at a Walmart retail store. Walmart was alerted to the issue on July 17. 

What is Salmonella?

Salmonella are bacteria that can cause a potentially serious intestinal illness. Symptoms include watery diarrhea (in some cases with mucus or blood) and stomach cramps that are often severe. Headache, nausea, vomiting, and loss of appetite are also possible symptoms. 

Per the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), symptoms can start six hours to six days after infection. The CDC notes that symptoms can persist for four to seven days. Treatment typically includes fluids and anti-diarrheal medications. Some people may need antibiotics. 

While most healthy individuals recover from Salmonella, some people may have persistent diarrhea for several months or develop serious infections of the blood, bones, joints, or brain/spinal cord. 

Individuals who are most at risk for serious disease include children under age five, adults over age 50 with underlying medical conditions, adults over age 65 with or without underlying medical conditions, and anyone who is immunocompromised. 

Most people contract Salmonella after swallowing contaminated food, drinking contaminated water, or touching contaminated animals. Nearly 1.35 million people in the U.S. are infected annually, according to the CDC. 

Has anyone developed Salmonella from the recalled nut butter?

Even though Salmonella was detected, there are currently no reported illnesses from the recalled Walmart product. 

What should shoppers who have the nut butter from Walmart do?

Do not eat the recalled bettergoods Pistachio Nut Butter. If you have this product in your home, return it to the place of purchase for a refund. Walmart shoppers with additional questions can contact Botticelli Foods at 631-543-7000, extension 203, from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. EDT or email the company at quality@botticellifoods.com. 

If you've been looking for an excuse to book a late-summer or fall getaway without draining your bank account, a major Southern California resort is offering a once-in-a-decade deal that is hard to pass up. Beginning at 8:00 a.m. PST on Thursday, August 6, Harrah’s Resort Southern California is launching an exclusive 48-hour flash sale where guests who book a two-night stay can score their second night for just $10.

The jaw-dropping promotion celebrates the official 10-year "Funnerversary" of Funner, California—a town proclaimed and established in August 2016 by the Rincon Tribal Council. The offer is valid for Monday-through-Thursday stays starting September 2, 2026, and running through December 22, 2026. To book the deal during the two-day window, travelers can head directly to the resort's booking site and enter package code MK10S at checkout.

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Welcome to Funner, California

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Tucked into a scenic mountain valley along the San Luis Rey River in North San Diego County, Funner is located just a short drive from San Diego, Los Angeles, and Orange County. Established a decade ago by the sovereign Rincon Band of Luiseño Indians, the town was created around a simple mission: delivering an affordable, unpretentious, and fun-filled alternative to Las Vegas right in SoCal's backyard.

Over the past decade, the destination has gained fame for its quirky civic leadership—appointing celebrity mayors like Jane Lynch, David Hasselhoff,Rob Riggle, and Martin Short—while steadily building out a full-scale luxury resort experience.

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What Life Looks Like Inside Harrah’s Resort SoCal

Spread across three hotel towers, Harrah’s Resort Southern California features 1,087 guest rooms and refined suites equipped with mountain or poolside views. At the heart of the property is Dive, a massive triple-pool complex anchored by San Diego's first swim-up bar, plush private cabanas, weekend DJ sets, and a 400-foot lazy river where guests can float under the warm sun.

The resort has also undergone a series of high-profile upgrades. Following a major renovation of its pool amenities, the property recently unveiled a newly redesigned High Limit gaming area alongside its spacious casino floor, which houses over 1,500 slot machines and more than 50 table games. Between games or pool laps, guests can refuel with a glass of "Funner Sessions IPA," a custom craft beer brewed on-site in partnership with Rincon Reservation Road Brewery.

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World-Class Dining and Live Entertainment

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Foodies will find plenty to explore across the resort's culinary lineup. Harrah's SoCal is home to California's first and largest Gordon Ramsay Hell's Kitchen, where diners can feast on signature beef wellington and sticky toffee pudding. The resort also recently debuted Tierra y Mar, an elevated $10.7 million Baja-inspired Mexican restaurant featuring authentic regional dishes like beef birria, a vibrant 35-spirit tequila and mezcal bar, and lush hacienda-style design.

For evening entertainment, the resort’s 2,200-seat Events Center regularly hosts A-list touring comedians and musicians, with past lineups featuring acts like Bert Kreischer, Theresa Caputo, and the Giggly Squad podcast live show.

Whether you're planning a mid-week pool day, a culinary tour, or a relaxing weekend away, setting a reminder for Thursday's 8:00 AM PST flash sale opening might just land you the best $10 hotel room night in California.

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Trendy is an understatement when it comes to beaded bags. Once a beloved Y2K aesthetic, beaded bags have regained popularity on social media over the past few years. Driven by the internet’s love for nostalgiacore and all things whimsical, they’ve become a highly coveted accessory yet again. While there are so many options to choose from at various price points, we dug up an affordable one that’s fitting for the upcoming spring and summer seasons — this On 34th Hand-Beaded Shoulder Bag at Macy’s.

Right now, you can score this beaded bag on sale for a whopping 55% off! Normally retailing for $110, it’s now marked down to just $44, which is the lowest price it’s been available at all season. This is a deal you won’t want to miss, considering similar styles by designer brands go for upwards of $300. 

On 34th Hand-Beaded Shoulder Bag, $44 (was $110) at Macy’s

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Choose from three styles,  all ideal for spring and summer, with striped, sardine, and floral picnic designs. If you’re a fan of anything quirky and eccentric, the sardine-style bag is a great choice. Exuding coastal charm, it features three blue sardine outlines, a wavy orange grid, and text that reads “sardines,” all on a silver background. 

Boasting a gingham background with different shades of red, the picnic-style bag has major cottagecore vibes with white asymmetric flowers with wavy petals accenting it. The contrasting flowers add a whimsical and playful touch to the bag. If you prefer something a little more toned down, opt for the striped bag. Adorned with vibrant yellow and white stripes, it has a simple, beachy feel.

All the bags are hand-beaded, giving them artisanal charm. The entire exterior is plastered with beads, including the strap. These bags have a streamlined rectangular silhouette, balancing out the playful beads and making it feel a bit polished and structured. The fabric is made of polyester, and the interior is lined with polyurethane material to protect the exterior. 

On 34th Hand-Beaded Shoulder Bag, $44 (was $110) at Macy’s

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Measuring 8.5 inches wide, 5 inches tall, and 2.5 inches deep, this bag offers enough room for all your essentials. You’ll be able to fit your phone, keys, and a small wallet inside and could even have extra room to spare. The interior is fixed with a slip pocket where you can store small items to prevent them from getting jumbled with the rest of your items. To keep everything secure, it has a flap closure and is held securely by a magnetic snap.

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The strap has a 9-inch drop, designed to sit on your shoulder comfortably, draping elegantly down. It should sit low enough on your shoulder where it won’t get in the way of your arm movements, allowing you to go about your day hands-free. You can effortlessly throw it on with both casual and dressy outfits to give your look some flair. It’ll instantly elevate your style to make you feel glamorous. 

The best kinds of accessories are those that seamlessly blend style and functionality, like the On 34th Hand-Beaded Shoulder Bag. If you’ve been itching to get your hands on a trendy beaded bag, don’t hesitate to head to Macy’s and snag this one while it’s on sale for just $44! Be sure to hurry, because with a deal this sweet, your preferred style may not be in stock for much longer. 

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Terri Lyne Carrington is an iconic drummer and composer who has won four Grammy Awards. She was the first female musician to win for Best Jazz Instrumental Album, and she is also the founder and artistic director of the Berklee Institute of Jazz and Gender Justice. Throughout her career, she has played with legends like Dizzy Gillespie, Stan Getz, Clark Terry, Herbie Hancock, Wayne Shorter, and Joe Sample. Today, she turns 61.

In an interview with 15 Questions, Carrington spoke about what inspired her to start playing the drums. “I started so young that I don’t really remember what captivated me,” she admitted. “It was mostly because the drums were there. My dad used to play his father‘s drums on occasion, so I’m a firm believer that if you provide instruments or other means of artistic expression, children will find their way. The more interesting question to me is what has kept me captivated and interested in the drums. I always say that I don’t LOVE the drums. I don’t like talking shop, and I don’t like them enough to really practice, but I love music. I love improvising, and I love being creative. The drums are a tool to do those things.”

Carrington also spoke about the first drum kit that she received when she was only seven years old. “First drum kit was my grandfather's, so it was very old - from the late 40s or early 50s,” she said. “Then I got an endorsement at 11 with Slingerland and got a replica of Buddy Rich’s set, at his request. 20’inch kick. I wasn't confident to really play an 18 kick until I was 18 and began endorsing Yamaha drums. Have been with them and Zildjian ever since.”

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She continued, “But I’m not an instrument geek. And more interested in creating something with whatever is there, adapting and adjusting to the sound needed at the moment - depending on the room, the music and the equipment. I also worked on developing my touch and sound so that I can still sound like me, no matter what I’m playing.”

Carrington hosts Future Flavorswith Terri Lyne Carrington on SiriusXM's Real Jazz, a weekly one-hour radio show. It airs Fridays at 6:00 PM ET.

A song that would go on to become one of the most memorable rock ballads of the 1990s started with a moment that was anything but glamorous.

Before fans fell in love with the soaring melody and heartfelt lyrics of Damn Yankees' “High Enough,” its creation began during an ordinary day at home. The powerful ballad’s unlikely beginnings prove that some of music’s most meaningful moments can come from simple everyday chores.

The website Louder Sound shared the backstory of how Jack Blades stumbled upon the monster rock hit while performing a household task. The song appeared after Blades, who had just left Night Ranger, was introduced to former Styx frontman Tommy Shaw and Ted Nugent.

The two were songwriting in New York City when Blades arrived. He revealed that within that first weekend, the trio wrote half of what would become Damn Yankees' debut LP. The supergroup consisted of Blades, Nugent, Shaw, and Michael Cartellone.

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Blades explained, "One morning I was doing laundry down in Tommy’s basement, and I was singing, ‘I don’t wanna hear about it anymore,' and Tommy said, ‘Wow, what’s that?’"

The musician continued, "We went up to his bedroom, grabbed our guitars, and literally 45 minutes later, 'High Enough' was written, with all the lyrics and harmonies. We played it back, and looked at each other and said, ‘Wow, this is good, right?’"

Blades and Shaw were worried that Nugent, known as the Motor City Madman, wouldn't like the song. "There was definitely some trepidation," Blades revealed.

"We played the cassette, and he sat there listening, chewing on a toothpick, with his feet up on the table, going, ‘Hmmm,'" Blades continued. "Then he said, ‘Do you know what this song needs?’ We went, ‘Uh-oh,' but he picked up his guitar, started playing over it, and said, ‘It needs this!’ I’m getting goosebumps just thinking about it. From that point on, he was a great believer in the song too."

The musician concluded, "Even though Styx had sold millions of records, and Nugent and Night Ranger had too, we still had to prove ourselves. And by following our gut instincts, we did just that."

Damn Yankees' debut album was released on February 22, 1990. "High Enough" would reach No. 3 on the Billboard Hot 100.

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As the days get shorter and the evenings get cooler, one of the first things to look forward to is bringing back all those comforting fall rituals — oversized sweaters, candles, and, of course, a full lineup of warm drinks. From cinnamon-spiced teas and homemade hot chocolate to pumpkin-inspired lattes and apple cider creations, fall beverages just hit differently when you can make them from the comfort of your own kitchen. The right tools — like the Beautiful by Drew Barrymore 1.7-Liter Electric Kettle — can make those drinks far easier to enjoy.

Now priced at $40, down from $48 at Walmart, this countertop appliance quickly heats water for everything from morning tea and pour-over coffee to hot cocoa, instant oatmeal, soups, and fall recipes that call for boiling water. Instead of waiting for a pot to heat on the stove, it gives you a faster, more convenient way to prepare your favorite drinks and kitchen staples throughout the season.

Beautiful by Drew Barrymore 1.7-Liter Electric Kettle, $40 (was $48) at Walmart

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Currently available in four colors, this kettle puts temperature control and convenience front and center. Instead of a traditional setup with visible dials, buttons, or knobs, it uses a touch-activated display that illuminates only when you need it, keeping the exterior sleek while still giving you access to the controls. The 1.7-liter capacity provides enough room to boil water for up to 7 cups, making it useful for everything from a single morning mug to preparing multiple servings for guests. Built with a cordless design, the kettle separates from the 360-degree power base, allowing you to lift, pour, and serve without being attached to the countertop.

The 1500-watt heating system helps speed up the process, bringing water to a boil in under 7 minutes so you can spend less time waiting and more time enjoying your drink. What makes it especially useful for tea drinkers is the ability to adjust the temperature based on what you’re brewing rather than relying on a standard boiling setting. It includes four one-touch preset programs with specific temperature recommendations for white, black, green, and oolong teas, as well as coffee and boiling water. These settings should help bring out the best flavors from different beverages, while the adjustable temperature controls give you the flexibility to customize each cup. Once the water reaches the selected temperature, an audible indicator beep lets you know it’s ready.

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Made with double-wall stainless steel, the kettle is designed for durability while helping maintain the water temperature after heating. The built-in 30-minute “keep warm” mode is especially helpful for anyone who likes a refillable tea setup, giving you time to enjoy a second cup without starting the heating process over again. Thoughtful features continue with automatic shut-off and boil-dry protection, which help prevent the kettle from overheating if the water has finished boiling or if there isn’t enough water inside. 

More than 6,500 Walmart shoppers awarded a five-star rating to this “fast-to-boil” kettle, calling the design both “practical” and “gorgeous.” One shopper wrote, “It heats water quickly, the touch controls feel modern, and the matte finish with gold accents looks amazing on my counter.”

Another reviewer agreed, adding, “It is easy to clean, looks sharp, has lines inside the kettle showing the minimum and maximum amount of water needed, and emits sounds to let you know when the water is close to the boiling point.”

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The countdown to cozy cups has officially begun. Shop the Beautiful by Drew Barrymore 1.7-Liter Electric Kettle at Walmart while it’s still on sale!

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As a 72-year-old travel writer, I've sailed on everything from budget lines to intimate luxury ships, and floating mega-resorts to small river cruises, and while each of them is very different, there is one lesson that I learned that remains the same no matter what cruise I'm taking next. The best cruises aren't necessarily the most expensive ones. They're the ones that are planned around the traveler, rather than the itinerary.

Cruising has changed dramatically over the past few years. There are ships with roller coasters, private islands, Michelin-worthy restaurants, adults-only retreats, Broadway-style entertainment, wellness sanctuaries, and enough activities to keep even the busiest traveler occupied from sunrise until well after midnight. That's all wonderful, but it also means there are more decisions than ever before. Frankly, it can be overwhelming, especially for a first-time cruiser.

The biggest mistake first-time cruisers make isn't packing too much or forgetting their sunscreen. It's booking the wrong cruise for the vacation they actually want.

These are my golden rules to help be certain that every cruise feels like the relaxing getaway it was meant to be.

Rule No. 1. Figure Out What Kind of Vacation You Really Want

Before looking at destinations, cabin categories, or cruise lines, ask yourself one simple question.

What does the perfect vacation look like?

Everyone's expectations are different, so there isn't one right answer. It's about what you want.

Some travelers dream of lounging by the pool with a pina colada in hand. Others want to wake up in a different country or a different island every morning. Some are food lovers searching for unforgettable dining experiences. Others simply want someone else to cook, clean, make the bed, and handle every detail while they completely unplug.

I have found that knowing your priorities narrows your choices and makes your journey easier.

If relaxation is the goal, look for ships with larger spa facilities, adults-only areas, and fewer crowds. If adventure is the priority, choose itineraries with exciting ports and plenty of shore excursions. If entertainment matters most, look for ships known for Broadway-style productions, comedy clubs, live music, and nightlife. Families may want water parks, kids' clubs, and activities from morning until night, while couples might prefer quiet lounges, specialty dining, and peaceful outdoor spaces.

There is no perfect cruise. There is only the perfect cruise for you!

View this post on Instagram Rule No. 2. Know Your Real Budget

The cruise fare you see online, or the one your travel agent quotes, isn't always the final price. One of the biggest surprises for new cruisers is discovering all of the extras that can be added both before and during your sailing if you aren't careful.

That can include:

• Taxes and port fees
• Daily gratuities
• Beverage packages
• Specialty restaurants
• Shore excursions
• Wi-Fi
• Spa treatments or even just use of the spa facility
• Casino play or Bingo
• Professional photos
• Premium coffee, smoothies, and ice cream that's not in the main dining room or buffet

None of these are required, but if you aren't aware of the additional costs, they can add up quickly if they aren't part of the original budget.

Before booking, estimate the total vacation cost instead of focusing only on the advertised fare. That way, you won't be marching down to guest relations at the end of your cruise questioning why your bill is so much more than you had expected.

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Rule No. 3. Choose the Right Cabin, Not Just the Cheapest One

A cabin is more than just a place to sleep.

For some travelers, an inside cabin is perfect because they spend almost every waking hour exploring the ship. Others love waking up with coffee on their private balcony while watching glaciers, tropical islands, or the sunrise over the ocean.

Sometimes spending a little more makes a huge difference. Other times it doesn't.

For travelers considering wellness experiences, compare the numbers carefully. Some cruise lines offer spa-category cabins that include thermal-suite access and wellness perks. On other ships, booking a standard veranda cabin and purchasing a couple of thermal spa passes may cost significantly less while providing nearly the same experience.

The same logic applies to suites. If butler service, exclusive restaurants, priority boarding, and private lounges matter, upgrading may provide excellent value. If those perks aren't important, that money may be better spent on unforgettable shore (or shipboard) excursions or a premium drink package.

Related: The Secret to Picking the Best Cabin on Any Cruise Ship, According to a Cruise Insider

Rule No. 4. Choose Your Ship Carefully

I've seen so many travelers choose an itinerary first. The "I've never been to...or I've always wanted to go to" can backfire if that's what you look at right from the start.

Experienced cruisers like me usually choose the ship first.

If you're sailing somewhere you've visited before, the ship itself may become the destination. Newer ships may have more elaborate entertainment, innovative restaurants, wellness centers, observation lounges, and activities that can easily fill several sea days.

On the other hand, if your dream is exploring Alaska, Europe, or the Greek Islands, spending every available dollar on excursions may matter more than sailing on the newest vessel.

The right balance of ship and destination depends entirely on what kind of vacation you're hoping for.

Related: 8 Best Refurbished Cruise Ships to Experience Luxury for Less This Spring

Rule No. 5. Book Early, Then Keep Watching Prices

Cruise fares change constantly. A cabin can cost one price on Monday and go down hundreds of dollars on Tuesday, then be up twice the original price the next week. By booking early, you'll get the best cabin selection, but that doesn't mean your job is finished. Many cruise lines allow price adjustments or promotional upgrades before final payment.

Watch for:

• Cabin upgrade sales
• Reduced fares
• Added onboard credit
• Included beverage or Wi-Fi packages
• Specialty dining promotions

A quick phone call to the cruise line or your travel agent can often result in a better cabin or valuable perks without you spending even a dime more.

Rule No. 6. Pack for Comfort, Not "Just in Case"

Overpacking creates stress before the cruise even begins. I can attest that most travelers wear only a fraction of what they bring (I know, I've done it myself many times).

Choose clothes that mix easily, layer well, and work for all sorts of occasions. Most importantly are those comfortable walking shoes and a simple crossbody bag. These are far more valuable than an extra formal outfit (your feet and back will thank you later).

Don't forget to pack your essentials as well, like:

• Prescription medications
• Chargers and power banks
• Swimwear
• Sun protection
• A lightweight sweater or wrap for cool evenings (I find the ships to be cold)
• A refillable water bottle (many ships have refill water stations now)
• Motion sickness remedies if you're prone to seasickness

If your cruise includes any chic evenings, check the cruise line's dress recommendations before packing an entire formal wardrobe you may never wear. Many of them have moved away from the gown and tux night and now just say "dress up" night (which could be anything from a nice skirt and top to a gown depending on your style and how dressed up you like to get).

Related: I’m a 72-Year-Old Cruise Expert—Here’s the ‘Toddler Method’ I Use to Pack a Carry-On

View this post on Instagram Rule No. 7. Arrive a Day Early

Nothing will stress you out more than worrying about missing the ship. Weather delays, traffic accidents, airline cancellations, and mechanical issues happen every day. Unless you live close to a port and are just driving in that morning, this can be a make-or-break day for you. Flying in the morning of embarkation leaves very little room for unexpected problems like flight delays, an accident on the highway from the airport to the cruise terminal, etc.

Arriving one day early allows time to relax, enjoy the departure city, and begin the vacation before even stepping onboard. Experienced cruisers like me consider this one of the smartest travel investments to make.

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Rule No. 8. Don't Rush Embarkation Day

Get there for your boarding time (it will be on your ticket). Too many passengers descending on the terminal at once can cause a backup, and you'll end up standing in line longer than you need to be. Once on board, the excitement of boarding can tempt you to want to do everything immediately.

Instead, slow down and explore the ship. Find your cabin and check it out (if it's ready). Have lunch. The buffet is always open for lunch, and depending on the cruise and category of your stateroom, they might have lunch in a dining room (my preference when so many are arriving at the buffet all at the same time).

Walk the outdoor decks to find the pools, badminton tables, basketball and/or soccer courts, and the running area. Check out the secret spots that you'll want to go to if you'd rather not be with the crowds or the pools with bars on either side and live music.

This is a great time to check into your muster station, locate the restaurants, theater, spa, fitness center, and favorite lounges before they become crowded.

If reservations are needed for specialty restaurants, shows, or spa appointments, make them early. The first few hours onboard often determine how smoothly the rest of the cruise goes.

Rule No. 9. You Don't Have to Do Everything

It took me a few cruises to figure it out. Cruise ships offer hundreds of activities with so many happening every day you could be running from one to the other all day long.

• Trivia at the lounge
• Dance classes by the pool
• Cooking demonstrations.
• Fitness sessions on deck and in the fitness center
• Wine tastings
• Pool games, some with guests vs. crew
• Shows - lots and lots of shows
• Casinos.
• Shopping that ranges from simple needs to luxury items, alcoholic beverages to candy.
• Art auctions.
• Lectures.
• Lots of live music

Trying to fit everything into one week can leave you needing another vacation afterward if you run yourself ragged. You don't have to do it all. As a matter of fact, you don't have to do any of it if you don't feel like it. Skip anything that doesn't genuinely interest you.

Sometimes the best cruise memory is reading a book by the pool while everyone else races from activity to activity.

Rule No. 10. Don't Assume Every Port Requires an Excursion

Don't get me wrong, excursions can be incredible. I love a good hop on/hop off bus so that I can get a sense of a city, but they're not always necessary.

Some ports are easiest to explore independently. While others require organized transportation to reach any of the major attractions.

Research each destination before spending hundreds of dollars. Pull up maps on your phone or online before you go and see if the town can be explored on foot. Where the nearest taxi stand is to the port (and if it's reliable). Many areas do not have rideshare like Uber or Lyft yet. If you're with a group, would it be less expensive to book a private tour and get to just the sites you want to see? Do you have enough time to explore on your own comfortably, without worrying about getting back to the ship on time?

For bucket-list destinations or complicated logistics, cruise-sponsored excursions will often provide valuable peace of mind. For walkable ports, wandering at your own pace can become one of the most memorable parts of the vacation (ducking into that coffee shop in Cozumel that you read about online that the locals rave about could be the highlight of your stop).

Related: 10 Best Free Caribbean Beaches Worth Skipping Cruise Excursions For

Rule No. 11. Leave Room to Be Spontaneous

My trips have become pretty much completely spontaneous since I've cruised so much. I realized that I don't have to schedule every minute or even every day.

Think back, and you'll realize that some of your best memories happened unexpectedly. Sometimes the best cruise memories happen exactly the same way. Find that hidden observation deck. Catch dolphins racing alongside or in the wake of the ship. Sit in one of the smaller lounges after dinner and listen to a great jazz performer. Meet new people who are cruising with you and make new friends with your fellow travelers from around the world. Sit on your balcony and watch as the sun sets over the horizon. Simply leave empty space for those moments to happen naturally.

Rule No. 12. Let the Crew Take Care of You

It's their job to take care of you. This is how they make their living, and they know how to do it well.

There are so many cruise lines that all go to the same places. They all have restaurants and pools. They all have activities and secret spots. One of cruising's greatest luxuries isn't the food or the entertainment. But it's the service that (at least for me) made me fall in love with cruising in the first place.

The crew members work incredibly hard to create a seamless vacation experience for you. They learn who you are, what you love, and are kind, patient, and warm. Over the years, I have become so friendly with some of the crew members that I get an immediate hug when I walk on my favorite ships.

That first time I walk into the dining room after not having sailed a ship for 4 or 5 months and having Georgina, the hostess at Blu, say Hi Zippy, I've missed you. Or the casino host Aggie that comes and checks on me to make sure I'm not losing too much. Or the server whose children's names and ages (and birthdays) I've learned.

Get to know your crew as the warmth and kindness they bring can make your cruise feel like you're spending the week with best friends.

Rule No. 13. Don't End the Vacation with Stress

Disembarkation can be a lot smoother with a little planning.

Remember to review your onboard account the evening before leaving. Keep everything you'll need in the morning separate, as you'll most likely be putting your luggage out the night before, so keep your passports, medications, chargers, valuables, and travel documents in your carry-on or a tote bag.

If you are flying home, allow plenty of time between leaving the ship and your flight. There's no faster way to come down from that perfect cruise you just had than ending it with a frantic race through the airport.

The Best Cruise Is the One That Fits You Best

That's the thing about cruising and one of the reasons that I do it so often. You can want/need different things from your vacation, and with a cruise, no two vacations have to look alike.

You might want to spend every day exploring ancient ruins, while your travel partner happily spends the week going back and forth between the spa, the pool, and a quiet balcony with a good book.

I will miss a Broadway-style production, but always sit in the back row for the comedian because I know that I might walk out after 10-minutes. My husband is happy never stepping foot in the theater at all. We both love the same restaurants, but find we aren't crazy about most of the specialty restaurants. We have a regular routine of always going to the buffet on the first night (because we are tired from the driving and embarkation and don't want to change out of shorts and T-shirts).

That's the secret to stress-free cruising. You don't have to have the vacation everyone else is having. Instead, build the one you'll remember long after you've unpacked your suitcase.

A cruise is your YOU DO YOU vacation, and that's why I love to travel by ship.

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How in the world is August almost upon us? Summer certainly kicked into high gear and now it is almost fully in the rearview mirror. We have officially entered back-to-school season with dreaded supply lists, bedtimes, and early morning alarms.

The flip of the calendar might not be something we are looking forward to, but a new crop of Aldi Finds most certainly is. This month, Aldi has some fantastic sweet treats to share, with both summertime and autumn-inspired flavors, a great busy-school-morning breakfast the kids will love, and simple dinnertime solutions for any hectic weeknight schedule.

Football season is just around the corner too, and Aldi is your best friend when it comes time for the big game. This list has some great snacks perfect for tailgating or cheering from the sofa, and one of them is a Mexican food craze, but in a new, delicious way.

A few items in this round of Finds are under the newer ALDI brand. Anyone who has shopped at Aldi before knows they are famous for their in-house brands. However, if it has been a few months since you have roamed the aisles, this newer label might be new to you. This roll-out combined a few of their well-known brands under one umbrella for core products they consider an "Aldi Original."

If you are like me and hanging onto summer with every fiber of your being, you can still get excited about these new Aldi Finds headed to an aisle near you! Here are the twelve best that will be added to our cart immediately!

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What exactly are Aldi Finds?

If you haven't jumped onto the Aldi bandwagon, you might be confused as to what exactly an Aldi Find is, not to mention why superfans go crazy trying to get their hands on all of them every month.

Aldi Finds are new specialty or seasonal products released every Wednesday throughout the month that are in limited supply, but always at Aldi's low everyday prices. Some of these go on to become staples in Aldi stores, but for the most part, when they're gone, they're gone, so you have to snag them while you can. This is why you see shoppers lined up at the doors before the store opens bright and early Wednesday mornings.

If this will be your first time heading to the store to see what all the fuss is about for yourself, each item on the list comes with a release date and a price to help make your shopping list easier.

Related: 23 Must-Buy Aldi Snacks According To A Superfan

12 Best August Aldi Finds1. ALDI Country Style Fries, $3.49

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Starting strong with one of the ALDI brand offerings: a huge bag of frozen French fries that can be baked in the oven or made crispier in the air fryer. These skin-on fries are a tasty dupe for a favorite fast food joint and would be delicious alongside a burger, or as a base for a loaded fry creation of your dreams. Available: 8/19

Related: 15 Best Loaded Fry Recipes

2. Mama Cozzi's Jalapeño Popper Pizza, $4.99

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Mama Cozzi's never fails to surprise us with new, unique pizza flavors every month. We are a football-obsessed family, and with college and NFL seasons just around the corner, I immediately pictured this combining two game-day favorites into one ooey gooey bite! Available: 8/12

3. Sundae Shoppe Pumpkin Praline Pie Gelato, $3.79

Aldi

Each year, the fall pumpkin-everything craze seems to start earlier, and Aldi isn't going to be left behind. I won't complain when it involves creamy, rich, decadent gelato-style ice cream filled with pumpkin and praline flavors. Forget the bowl, just pass me a spoon! Or a straw for a thick, delicious milkshake of your autumn dreams. Available: 8/26

4. ALDI Chicken Alfredo with Broccoli, $4.99

Aldi

Nobody looks forward to the extra busy schedule a new school year brings. Evenings are jam-packed with sports, practices, meetings, and somewhere between all of them a plan for dinner. Aldi has your back with a frozen pasta supper that would please even the hungriest crowd. Over a pound of food for less than five bucks- I will grab a few to have waiting in the freezer on those especially hectic weeknights. Available: 8/5

5. Breakfast Best Apple Cinnamon Stuffed Waffles, $4.99

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Aldi has got you covered with easy meal solutions morning, noon and night. There won't be a fight with the kids to get something in their stomachs before they run for the school bus with these brioche waffles filled with apple, cinnamon and maple. Oh, and there is a blueberry variety too, so they can choose their favorite. Available: 8/26

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6. ALDI Beef Birria Bites, $5.99

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Beef birria has taken the Mexican restaurants in our area by storm, with each trying to outdo the others with new dishes, and I am the perfect taste tester! I can't get enough of this seasoned beef dripping in flavor from a red chile broth in tacos, quesadillas, pizza and more. Now I can satisfy my craving at home with these poppable birria bites that cook up quickly in the air fryer. Available: 8/5

7. ALDI Smashed Potatoes, $3.99

Aldi

When trying not to fall into dinnertime meal ruts, it's often the side dishes that give me the most angst. I love the idea of smashed potatoes, but after a long workday, who has the time for that extra effort? Aldi says, "We can help with that!" Air-fryer-ready, roasted, smashed potatoes that are crispy and extra tasty thanks to garlic and cheese, or if you want something simpler, grab the salt and pepper option. Available: 8/26

8. Specially Selected Lemon Meringue Tartlets, $5.49

Aldi

My oldest is a sucker for anything lemon meringue, so I might need to send him back to college with a few boxes of these. An individual sweet treat of buttery shortcrust with lemon curd and soft Italian meringue...Maybe I will grab a few for myself too. Available: 8/12

9. ALDI Chocolate Coated Berries, $6.99

Aldi

Summer fresh berries coated in sweet chocolate might not sound like something you will find in the freezer section, but Aldi is genius like that. A simple bowl of vanilla ice cream topped with a handful of these sounds heavenly. Or grab a handful for a quick, cool after-school snack when the kids get off the bus exhausted and hot. Available: 8/19

10. Clancy's Maple Drizzled Kettle Corn, $2.29

Aldi is always my first stop for great snacks, especially anything coming from Clancy's. Chips, pretzels, popcorn, crackers- they have all the salty things we crave at half the price of national brands. Kettle corn is synonymous with fall festivals; you can probably smell it just reading this, but a maple drizzle takes this to the next level. Available: 8/12

Related: 81 Perfect Pumpkin Desserts That Scream Fall Vibes

11. Pur Aqua Sparkling Frost Sugar Plum, $.59

Aldi

Flavored sparkling waters are all the rage right now, so a flavor I've never seen before instantly caused excitement. Plus, for under a dollar each, I can try the other seasonal flavors of cranberry and crisp apple too! Available: 8/19

12. Sundae Shoppe Blue Raspberry Freeze Pops, $2.99

Aldi

For those of us not ready to say goodbye to hot, sunny days, these fun, refreshing push pops are sure to bring some childhood nostalgia. We've still got some pool time in our future, so the cooler will have a box of these, and the other option, cherry, too! Available: 8/5

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Imagine this: You've just finished the perfect meal at your favorite restaurant. As a good, well-intentioned diner, you try and make clearing up your table as simple as you can for your server. Tidying up, you and your fellow patrons at the table begin to stack your plates, one by one, to make the cleaning task much faster—or so you think.

There's no doubt that this practice comes from a good place. But to the surprise of many, it's actually a really common restaurant etiquette mistake. Although it feels like a way to refine our table manners at restaurants, it does quite the opposite.

That begs the question: Should you stack plates at a restaurant? Dining etiquette rules might say no, and so does etiquette expert August Abbott, a certified etiquette consultant and Manners & Social Protocol Expert. According to her, while this can usually "feel helpful" coming from the patron, it should usually be avoided.

"The overwhelming response from servers is, 'Please don't, but thank you for the thought,'" Abbott, who offers up modern etiquette expert restaurant tips, tells Parade.

Should you be rethinking your exit strategy when it comes to the end of a restaurant meal? Worried about how to politely finish eating without over-troubling your waiter? Down below, the etiquette expert explains why stacking your dishes isn't the best way to signal you're finished eating and what you can do instead.

Related: An Etiquette Expert Is Begging People To Stop This Common Dinnertime Habit

The Well-Intentioned Mistake: Why You Should Stop Stacking Your Plates

When it comes to rude things people do at restaurants, stacking up your plates when you're done eating might not be the worst thing you can do. But it's a well-intentioned mistake that some etiquette experts advise against.

So if it comes from a place of wanting to help, why should you stop doing it? If you ask Abbott, servers have a process that can feel interrupted if you do this. Coming to your table to find a stack of dishes waiting for them can get in the way of how they do their job.

"Servers have a routine, a method and a duty to clear your plates," she explains. "And stacking disrupts it."

On top of that, it can also send a message to your server that something has gone awry.

"It can also send confusing signals," she shares. "Is something wrong? Are you in a hurry? Stacked plates also erase the proper silverware signals that tell your server you're finished. So yes, avoid it."

The Hidden Language of Silverware: How To Signal You Are Finished

Those forks and knives on your table? Sure, they're best used for shoveling food into your mouth and wiping the food off of your plate when you're all done. But they can also be useful in sending a message to your server to let them know you're finished eating your meal—and its not a hindrance like stacking plates can be.

The silverware etiquette rule is pretty simple, and it signals that your plate is ready to be cleared off the table. It all has to do with the placement of the silverware on your plate, a practice that can actually differ depending on what part of the world you're in.

According to Abbott, the placement of your silverware to showcase you're done eating can range drastically between dining spaces in the United States versus in Europe.

"In American style, place your knife and fork on the plate with tines and blade pointed toward the center and handles resting at the 4:00 position," she tells Parade.

Across the pond, this practice requires just a few more steps.

"In European, or continental style, to rest between bites, place the knife at 4:00 and the fork at 8:00, tines down, covering the upper part of the knife," she explains. "To signal you're finished, turn the fork tines downward."

Does this rule work everywhere, all the time? There are exceptions, says Abbott.

In many restaurants with younger generation servers or establishments that predominantly do takeout services and buffets, she says most workers will not be trained to recognize this end-of-meal habit.

However, other fine dining venues where servers are taught how to properly set the dining table will know the code, she explains.

"With this said, putting silverware down on a relatively cleared plate will signal that one is done no matter where the silverware is placed, no matter the type of restaurant," Abbott states.

Of course, besides silverware placement, there are a ton of other ways you can let your server know you're done. Especially if you're at a casual joint that won't pick up this silverware tip.

Normally, servers will "look for lack of action," according to Abbott. No holding of your fork and knife or having the plate slightly pushed away from you, she says.

Some might even put their napkin in their plate. But if you want to follow proper etiquette, she suggests avoiding this.

"Instead, what can be acceptable is to put the napkin to the left of the plate where your fork was initially nestled," she explains.

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5 Other Common Restaurant Habits Etiquette Experts Hate

Other than stacking up your plates, here are a few other common restaurant habits that etiquette experts hate.

1. Rebuilding menu items

A lot of us do this one all too often, but it's actually an impolite habit to constantly do at restaurants since, in most cases, it can turn one dish on the menu into something completely different, says Abbott.

Some slight alterations to a menu item to accommodate dietary needs or personal preferences can usually be OK. However, completely revamping the contents of it is not as acceptable.

"Dressing on the side is fine," she says, but notes that "ordering the beef dinner [and] swapping in fish, a different potato and double salad is not."

2. Not supervising children

Bringing children to a restaurant that permits them is absolutely fine. Where the trouble starts is when they run amok, and parents or caretakers don't have a close eye on them.

Not supervising your kids at a restaurant can easily cause mayhem to happen in a matter of minutes. According to Abbott, this can be seen as rude because it interrupts the experience for other patrons.

"Kids wandering the dining room cause spills and tripping hazards and disrupt diners for whom a night out is a special occasion," she explains. "Choose a kid-friendly restaurant or get a sitter. And remember, it's never too soon to teach children table manners."

3. Arriving to order just before closing

This may seem like an obvious one, but maybe not for some. Going into a restaurant minutes before closing and ordering a full meal can infringe on the waitstaff's time.

"Kitchen staff want to go home on time, just like you do. Order something quick, or come back earlier tomorrow," says Abbott.

4. Seating yourself at an uncleared table

Helping yourself to an uncleared table "forces staff to rush and clean around you, and it reads as entitled," Abbott tells Parade.

What's the best way to approach this situation?

"Point it out, say you're happy to wait, or take a table that's already clean," she explains.

5. Treating servers like servants

It's really important to treat your server with respect, but that might come off differently for some people. In order to make sure you're not being impolite in this setting, ensure you don't do things that make them uncomfortable.

"No flirting, no touching, no prying personal questions," Abbott states.

Outside of that, she points out that servers have exhausting tasks to perform, and ensuring we behave as well as they treat us can signal much regard and esteem towards them.

"Servers are hardworking people in one of the toughest public-facing jobs, and they deserve to be treated like they have value, because they do," she says.

Related: An Etiquette Expert Is Begging People To Stop This ‘Surprisingly Rude’ Habit in Group Settings

The Golden Rules of Modern Tipping and Leaving a Table

Tipping can be a tricky feat to navigate through at times. It can be hard to know in what circumstances to tip, and for how much and when.

There are a few steps to go through to properly tip in the right manner, according to Abbott. She first suggests checking your bill for an automatic gratuity, which some restaurants will do.

"If it's there, you can add more for especially good service, but arguing about the auto-charge is a serious faux pas," she warns. "If there's no automatic tip, 20 percent is the standard."

As she mentioned, you can also always tip more if you experienced particularly great service. But don't tip less than the standard 20 percent even if you didn't receive a top-notch experience.

"Most U.S. servers earn at or below minimum wage and count on tips to make a living, and even imperfect service doesn't justify tipping out of spite," the etiquette expert explains.

When leaving the restaurant, make sure to pay the bill promptly when it gets to your table. Abbott says you can still do this even if you want to stay to finish your drink or conversation.

After that, be sure to free up the table around 10-15 minutes later. It helps waiting guests be seated and ensures you don't overstay your welcome.

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• August Abbott is a certified etiquette consultant and Manners & Social Protocol Expert.

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The most functional side tables and nightstands do much more than simply hold a lamp or a glass of water. Today’s best designs are built around modern routines, helping keep devices charged, everyday essentials organized, and surfaces free of clutter. With features like built-in outlets, USB ports, drawers, and shelves, the right side table can turn an overlooked corner into a practical and stylish home essential.

One option that checks all the boxes is the Yoobure Nightstand With Charging Ports. Right now, it’s on sale for 44% off at Walmart, bringing the price down from $66 to just $37. For a piece that combines storage, functionality, and style, it’s an impressive value.

Yoobure Nightstand With Charging Ports, $37 (was $66) at Walmart

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The nightstand is crafted from durable P2 particle board with a high-quality metal frame for added stability. The top supports up to 33 pounds, while the bottom shelf supports up to 22 pounds, giving you plenty of space for everything from decor and books to daily essentials.

The standout feature is the built-in charging station. It includes two AC outlets, two USB ports, and a 6.6-foot power cord, making it easy to charge multiple devices at once while keeping cords neatly tucked away. The hidden power strip design helps maintain a cleaner tabletop, while adjustable feet provide extra stability on uneven floors.

Storage is another major perk. The spacious drawer gives you a spot to hide away smaller items like remotes, chargers, glasses, or bedside essentials, while the bottom shelf works well for displaying books, baskets, plants, or decorative accents.

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Despite offering plenty of functionality, this nightstand has a compact footprint. Measuring 15.8 inches long, 11.8 inches wide, and 24.7 inches tall, it’s ideal for smaller bedrooms, apartments, or tight corners. Weighing just 16 pounds, it’s easy to move around and can work as a bedside table, living room side table, or extra storage piece wherever you need it.

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A songwriter who helped give the '90s both dreamy pop favorites and an enduring football anthem is celebrating another milestone.

Ian Broudie, the leader and only constant member of the Lightning Seeds, turns 68 on Aug. 4. The singer, songwriter and producer was born in Liverpool in 1958 before becoming an important figure in the city's post-punk scene.

Broudie was born on Penny Lane and grew up near the childhood home of John Lennon. He loved the Beatles from the age of five, but punk later gave him a community of his own at Liverpool's famed Eric's club. His first proper group was Big in Japan, whose lineup also included future Frankie Goes to Hollywood frontman Holly Johnson.

After the group disbanded, Broudie found success as a producer, sometimes working under the name Kingbird. His early credits included Echo & the Bunnymen and the Fall, while later projects connected him with the Coral, the Zutons and the Subways.

Broudie began recording his own songs at home in 1989 without a record deal or a band. "Pure" was released under the name Lightning Seeds, which he originally imagined as a fictional group that might eventually become real.

The unfinished recording became his breakthrough. "My favourite track that I ever did is Pure," Broudie told Classic Pop in 2025, "and that's not even mixed!"

The Lightning Seeds became a touring band in 1994 and found further success with songs including "Change," "Lucky You" and "You Showed Me." The group has earned 14 U.K. Top 40 singles, while its 1994 album Jollification remained on the chart for 75 weeks.

Broudie also composed the music for "Three Lions," the 1996 England football song written with comedians David Baddiel and Frank Skinner. The original and its 1998 version both reached No. 1 in the U.K., giving Broudie a song that continues to return whenever England competes in a major tournament.

More recently, the Lightning Seeds released See You in the Stars in 2022 and celebrated the group's 35th anniversary with a greatest-hits collection and tour. Broudie has also said he is working on new songs and considering fresh versions of older material, giving him more to look toward as he celebrates 68.

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The Bee Gees were known for their signature falsetto sound, but it started by accident. While recording their 13th studio album, Main Course, Barry Gibb let out a high-pitched scream, and the rest is history.

“We discovered what became our trademark falsetto strictly by accident,” Gibb revealed to The Saturday Evening Post in an interview. “They asked me to do a scream on one of our numbers, 'Nights on Broadway,' and that sound just came out. It sort of became our signature, but then it was time to move on.”

Written by brothers Barry, Robin and Maurice Gibb, “Nights on Broadway” was an urgent, piano-led soft rock single that featured R&B rhythms and dramatic harmonies. The standout moment was Barry Gibb’s soaring falsetto— a vocal style that would become a defining element of the Bee Gees’ disco-era sound.

The idea for the scream came from record producer Arif Martin. As the Bee Gees recorded in Miami and experimented with new sounds, Martin asked if any of the brothers could “scream in tune.” Even Barry was surprised by the sound that came out of his mouth.

“And it wasn't just able to be a scream, but it could sing a song - this other voice that was in there, you know? And it was literally a discovery,” he told CBS News.

Gibb remained stunned by the high-pitched new sound, which he dramatically performed in the "Nights on Broadway" chorus and would perfect as an urgent falsetto on future hits such as “Stayin’ Alive,” “You Should Be Dancing” and “Night Fever” two years later.

“I was thinking, my God, where is this coming from? I can do this. My whole life I never knew I could do this,” Barry admitted in the HBO documentary How Can You Mend a Broken Heart. “We found another sound; we found a new sound. I came up with a lot of new ideas to suit the falsetto. Everybody was saying the same thing: ‘Do that falsetto again, do that falsetto again.’ It was fine for me; I was having a ball.”

“Nights on Broadway” reached No. 7 on the Billboard Hot 100 in December 1975. More than 50 years later, it remains one of the Bee Gees' most important songs— a key turning point in the legendary group’s musical evolution.

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Dolly Parton has spent a lifetime turning her dreams, struggles, and memories into songs. Now, as she reflects on her extraordinary journey, the beloved entertainer is sharing the one thing that has always been at the center of it all.

In a new Substack post, Parton reveals that songwriting is at the heart of every life experience she has had over the past 80 years. For Parton, a song has never been just a melody but a reflection of the emotions, memories, and experiences that have shaped her.

In her 2020 book Dolly Parton, Songteller: My Life in Lyrics, the entertainer shared the stories behind some of her most famous songs. It celebrated her life and merged the public and personal elements that formed the basis of her songwriting.

Today, Parton reflects with gratitude on the profound impact of being a “songteller." Through a series of Substack posts and videos, she is sharing the “stories and inspiration behind the songs” that have shaped her remarkable journey.

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Songteller: My Life in Lyrics by Dolly Parton

Part 1

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Parton began, "I think 'songteller' pretty much sums me up because I love songs, and I love to tell stories. I think that I am a 'songteller' because I tell stories through my songs. I just thought that would be the perfect name for our book and a good title for me."

The country legend added, "I have often been asked, if I had to make a choice between being an entertainer, a singer, a businesswoman, or a songwriter, and I could only choose one, what would it be? I’ve always said I would choose to be a songwriter because, through that, I’m able to express all those other things."

She continued, "Of course, if you’re going to write a song, you’ve got to sing it, so therefore I am a singer as a songwriter. The same thing goes for the stories that I write. You almost have to act them out, so in that way, I am an entertainer too. Everything that I am really starts with the song."

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Ron Galella Collection via Getty Images

Parton said both in the post and in an accompanying video that she would rather experience the good and the bad elements of life, and "write about it." She revealed she never had to seek therapy because songwriting helped her through any struggles she may have experienced, adding, "My guitar is my therapy too. I play other instruments to write with, but the guitar is my main instrument."

The beloved music legend concluded, "So with my little guitar, and my little head for writing songs, and my gift for rhyming, I just feel like I can go just about anywhere and do anything. I think I could sit in my house forevermore, write songs, and be perfectly happy.”

Today, through her stories, memories, and music, Dolly Parton reminds fans that behind every song is a piece of her life, and behind every piece of her life is a song waiting to be shared.

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When it comes to multi-generational cruising, there’s a host of options to please every type of family, but one of the best options is Disney Cruise Line. The incredible ships in the Disney fleet are all built with families, yes, even grandma and grandpa, in mind. From spacious cabins that often come with connecting doors (a big win for grandparents who want their own distinct space) to enchanting common spaces and pool decks where grandparents can spend quality time with their grandkids, Disney really has thought of everything. 

If you’re a grandparent going on a cruise with your family, you’ll want to keep reading. I’m sharing the top nine things to do for grandparents on a Disney Cruise, whether you always want to be near your kids and grandkids or when you need some time to yourself. 

Activities to Do With Your Grandkids

There are endless possibilities of things to do on a Disney Cruise. You’ll want to keep an eye on the Disney Cruise Line Navigator app to see the full schedule of events each day, but these are some of the top activities for grandparents to do with their grandkids. 

Enjoy Broadway-Style Shows Together Princess Jasmine and Aladdin in the musical "Aladdin: A Musical Spectacular" aboard Disney Cruise Line.

Photo by Steven Diaz, courtesy of Disney

On each Disney Cruise Line ship, there’s a host of Broadway-style shows inside the Walt Disney Theater. These shows are typically an hour or so long, and some retell classic Disney stories like Aladdin, Tangled, Moana, and more. The shows are beautifully done and worth arriving a bit early for to get a good seat near the stage. Grandparents will appreciate the high level of detail in the costumes and set design, while kids will love seeing their favorite characters on stage. 

My favorite shows are Tangled: The Musical, which is exclusive to the Disney Magic, and Disney Hercules, which is solely available on the new Disney Destiny. Tangled is a fun take on the Disney Animation Studios film, with some original songs (I love "Flower of Gold") and a take on the lantern scene that gets everyone in the theater teary-eyed. Disney Hercules is a modern retelling of the animated classic, with over-the-top costumes and a curtain call that will have you on your feet dancing. 

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Play Bingo

Let’s be honest, did you really go on a cruise if you didn’t play bingo? I don’t think so. Throughout the cruise, Disney hosts a handful of bingo sessions, which can be played on traditional paper cards or on machines. Of course, grandparents and grandkids are encouraged to play together, but only the grandparents can actually win. 

I’ve been in a few sessions where the kids get more excited than their winning family member, which always makes for a great memory, especially if you’re the one winning a few hundred or thousands of dollars. 

Participate in Family Game Shows Luna is a family-friendly entertainment space on the Disney Wish.

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Another great activity for grandparents to do with their grandkids on Disney Cruise Line is to participate in the family game shows throughout the cruise. On the four classic ships (Disney Wonder, Disney Magic, Disney Dream, and Disney Fantasy), these usually take place in the D-Lounge, and on the Wish Class ships (Disney Wish, Disney Treasure, Disney Destiny, and the upcoming Disney Believe), these games typically take place in Triton Lounge or the main entertainment hub near the movie theaters (called Luna, Sarabi, and Saga, on Wish, Treasure, and Destiny, respectively). 

This is where the Disney Cruise Line Navigator app will come in handy again so you know what time and where these games are being played. 

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Meet Characters Bluey and Bingo will be hitting Disney Cruise Lines in 2026.

One of the highlights of a Disney Cruise for many families is the chance to see Disney characters without long wait times like in the theme parks. Throughout the cruise, you can see, get photos with, and get autographs from classic characters like Mickey Mouse and his pals, Disney Princesses, Marvel superheroes, and more. And if you're traveling with toddlers and young children, you can even meet Bluey and Bingo onboard select sailings.

Watch Fireworks from the Top Decks Disney Cruise Line's Pirate Night is a long-running tradition featuring deck parties with performances and more.

Photo by Kent Phillips, courtesy of Disney

If your family is sailing on a Caribbean or Bahamian Disney Cruise, you’re in luck because you’ll get the chance to see fireworks at sea. This once-a-cruise experience is usually paired with the Pirate Night themed evening, where people onboard dress up as pirates, there’s a pirate-themed dinner, and plenty of pirate activities like trivia, dance parties, and character meet-and-greets. The night culminates with the fireworks display, which can be seen from the top decks. 

Activities Grandparents can Enjoy Away From Kids

When the grandkids are out enjoying the kids club, it’s your time to sneak away and enjoy one of these adult-only activities. 

Adult-Only Dining Enchante is an adult-only restaurant on Disney's Wish Class ships.

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Onboard each Disney Cruise Line ship, there are a few adult-only restaurants. On the classic ships, those include Palo and Remy, the latter of which is only on the Disney Dream and Disney Fantasy, and on the Wish Class ships, grandparents can enjoy Palo Steakhouse and Enchante. 

I particularly love Palo on the Disney Wonder and Disney Magic because it features a first-come, first-served bar where you can enjoy a cocktail and select items from the food menu. On a recent Disney Cruise to Alaska, after a long day of excursions, I opted to sit at the bar instead of going to one of the main dining rooms for dinner, and it was a quiet retreat that helped me reset for an evening of fun.

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Relax at Senses Spa The Rainforest Room in Disney Cruise Line is a retreat for adults.

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There’s no better place to enjoy some kid-free rest and relaxation than the Senses Spa onboard each of the Disney Cruise Line ships. Here, grandparents can enjoy a host of spa services like facials and massages, plus Disney Cruise Line’s incredible Rainforest thermal suite. 

In fact, the Rainforest is the one area I always go on a Disney Cruise, and often buy a length-of-cruise pass if I’m sailing on the Disney Dream or Disney Fantasy. On these two ships, you have access to a locker and changing room, and across the hall is the entry to the Rainforest. Inside the first room, there are saunas and steam rooms plus a handful of experience showers. But the real joy is the middle room, which features a line of tiled heated loungers and access to two hot tubs. The loungers and hot tubs also offer panoramic views thanks to floor-to-ceiling windows.

Adult beach at one of the islands Disney Cruise Line's private island destination, Disney's Castaway Cay in the Bahamas, offers plenty of things to do for grandparents on a Disney Cruise.

Photo by Matt Stroshane, courtesy of Disney

At both of Disney’s island destinations, Disney Castaway Cay and Disney Lookout Cay at Lighthouse Point, there are adult-only beaches. After spending some time together with your grandkids at the family beach, check the youngsters into the on-island kids clubs, then enjoy the adult-only Serenity Bay. 

Both islands’ Serenity Bay offer oceanfront beach chairs and umbrellas, a dedicated bar, and an adult-only restaurant serving up beach BBQ favorites and island delights. I particularly love the ribs at both Castaway Cay and Lookout Cay. 

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Maybe it’s because of the way they were portrayed in old movies and on TV, but cocktail lounges from the 1960s and '70s seemed so much more glamorous than the typical bars we have today. Picture plush, curved booths, low lighting, jewel-toned decor and perfectly mixed drinks arriving in elegant glassware. Every detail felt intentional, from the moody ambiance to the tiny lamp glowing on the table. These weren't places where you simply grabbed a drink—they were places where you settled in and felt a little more sophisticated than usual.

I'm not entirely sure why Five Below's new Mood Lamp reminds me of something that might have adorned one of those retro lounge tables, but it does. Maybe it's the soft glow or the way a small light can instantly make a space feel more intimate. Either way, it has that same dreamy, after-dark energy—belonging beside a velvet booth, a classic cocktail and a little bit of good old-fashioned glamour.

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Mood Lamp, $10 at Five Below

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With its gold-toned base and crisp white pleated shade, this little mood lamp has the kind of polished, retro-inspired look that can make even an ordinary side table feel a little more special. The pleated shade adds soft texture and a hint of old-school charm, while the warm metallic finish gives it a touch of understated glamour. It's small enough to tuck onto a nightstand, bookshelf, desk or patio table, instantly adding a glow wherever you need it.

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Even better, this lamp is rechargeable, so you don't have to worry about finding an outlet or dealing with a tangled cord. Just tap the touch switch to cycle through three different light modes and choose the glow that fits the moment. Whether you're winding down with a book, setting the mood for dinner or making a corner of your home feel a little more styled, this lamp delivers plenty of charm in a compact package.

This cordless lamp would also work great in a dorm room, as would Five Below's pretty pink faux fur throw rug. In fact, while you're at the store, you should set your gaze on all sorts of sweet room finds at the budget retailer, like pink bow string lights and an acrylic arched shelf perfect for housing everything from trinkets to skincare.

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Elvis Week starts at Graceland on August 8. Thousands of fans will head to Memphis to celebrate the musicElvis made after he left Sun Records. Linda Ronstadt won't be joining them in spirit. She told Goldmine magazine that Elvis "was good only when he was on Sun Records" and when asked if she liked any of his gospel songs said simply "I don't like any of it." This is the same woman who said she often thought her album covers were better than the records. With Elvis, she's even less forgiving.

When Goldmine curated a list of great American singers including Ella Fitzgerald, Billie Holiday, Sarah Vaughan, Merle Haggard, George Jones, Dinah Washington, Harry Nilssonand Waylon Jennings they included Elvis Presley, too. Ronstadt had no issue with anyone else on that list. Just Elvis. Her answer was two words: "Not Elvis." She elaborated: "He was good only when he was on Sun Records, but he never made anything good after that." Sun Records was around for just about two years from roughly 1954 to 1955. .

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That's "Mystery Train," "That's All Right" and "Baby Let's Play House" — raw stripped-back recordings that sounded like nothing else in American music. Everything after that she considers a commercial compromise. When the conversation turned to his gospel recordings she didn't soften. "I don't like any of it. Give me Aretha Franklin and Emmylou Harris anytime. And Jennifer Warnes and Bonnie Raitt can both leave me in the dust." Both are vocalists who've always put the song above the career. So has Ronstadt. That's the point.

That's not a hot take. That's a philosophy. And it's one she's applied to herself just as ruthlessly for 60 years.

When Tiger Beat asked her in 1967 what her aspirations were she said all she wanted was to be a good Mexican singer. The interviewer had no idea what she meant. By the 1970s, she was widely called the 'Queen of Rock' — the most successful female rock artist of the decade. Record labels warned her she'd torpedo her career. She left anyway and went to Broadway. She was very frustrated musically. "I didn't really start singing until 1980" she later said. The Nelson Riddle albums. The orchestral recordings her rock fans didn't understand. Same test. Same standard. Elvis failed it after 1955. Ronstadt feels she failed it for most of the 1970s.

The Woman Who Said She Didn't Start Singing Until 1980 Has Very Specific Standards

Ronstadt was diagnosed with Parkinson's disease in 2013 and tragically can no longer sing. She told AARP she couldn't sing for the last five or six years she appeared onstage but kept performing anyway. She kept trying to figure out what was wrong. "I kept thinking, 'What if I tried singing upside down? Or standing on my head? Or while juggling? Maybe I'd be able to sing better then.'" But, she just couldn't. She was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 2014 but declined to attend the ceremony.

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She told Tiger Beat in 1967 she wanted to be a good Mexican singer. Twenty years later she made "Canciones de Mi Padre" — still the best-selling non-English language album in US music history. The interviewer who didn't understand her in 1967 was answered in 1987.

She can no longer sing. But the standards haven't changed. Not even The King gets a pass.

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