Teresa Ann Erxleben

Teresa Ann Erxleben, a loving and devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, sister, and friend, passed away peacefully on May 27, 2023, at Missouri Baptist Hospital in St. Louis, MO at the age of 66. Born on August 29, 1956, at Hayti, MO, she was a generous and courageous woman who touched the lives of many.

Teresa was born in Hayti, MO and lived in Portageville, MO, where she started her schooling. She later moved to St. Clair, MO, and continued her education until her illness prevented her from attending.  As a young girl, she began working in area restaurants, such as the Tri-County Truck Stop and the Bobber Cafe, showcasing her talent as a cook. It was while working at the Mid-Town Cafe in Sullivan that she met the love of her life, Clyde (Doug) Erxleben. The couple fell in love and were married on July 25, 1975, at Temple Baptist Church in Sullivan.

Together, Teresa and Clyde raised three children: Doug, Shawn, and Carla. Teresa loved being a homemaker and caring for her family. After her mother’s tragic passing at a young age, Teresa brought her younger siblings into her home and raised them alongside her own children. Her dedication to her loved ones was truly remarkable.

Teresa was known for her love of hosting and cooking for family gatherings, and her famous “no bake cheesecake” was revered by all who tasted it. She enjoyed spending time with her family and playing bingo with friends. Although she did not like having her picture taken, she enjoyed scrapbooking memories for her family.

She is survived by her loving husband, Clyde of Sullivan, MO; three children: Doug Erxleben and wife, Summer of Waynesville, MO, Shawn Erxleben and wife, Nancy, and Carla Brendel and husband, Kevin, all of Sullivan; eleven grandchildren; eight great-grandchildren; her stepmother, Ruth Thacker of Sullivan; five brothers: Steve Thacker and wife, Debbie of St. Clair, MO, Danny Thacker and wife, Marsha of Branson, MO, Mark Thacker of Portageville, MO, Mike Busse and wife, Michelle of Sullivan, Keith Thacker of Washington, MO, John Thacker and wife, Athena of St. Clair, MO, Scott Thacker and wife Amanda, and Joe Thacker, all of Sullivan; four sisters: Sheilia Stumpe and husband, Mark of Sullivan, Amanda Richards and husband, Clay of Poplar Bluff, MO, Holly Thacker and Jessica Woodbee and husband, Brian all of Sullivan; and numerous nieces, nephews, and other relatives.

Teresa was preceded in death by her father, Bud Thacker; her mother and stepfather Mary and Kenny Busse; and a brother, Terry Thacker.

Teresa’s memory will live on in the hearts of her family and friends as a loving, generous, and courageous woman who always put the needs of her loved ones before her own. Her legacy of love and devotion will be cherished for generations to come.

Services will be 12 p.m. Noon Friday, June 9, 2023 at the Eaton Funeral Home in Sullivan, MO with Pastor Craig Tanner officiating. Burial will follow at I.O.O.F Memorial Cemetery, Sullivan.

Visitation will be 10 a.m. to Noon, Friday, June 9, 2023 at the Eaton Funeral Home.

Memorial contributions may be made in Teresa’s memory to the American Heart Association and/or the American Kidney Fund.

Condolences may be shared with Teresa’s family online at www.eatonfuneralhome.com.

Arrangements are under the care of the Eaton Funeral Home of Sullivan, MO.